Tuesday, February 28, 2006

Coffee, Tea, or Hairbrush?


Here’s a golden oldie! This was my trip report from a working vacation we took about five years ago. As you will see, the climate was even warmer than I anticipated. I thought retelling this tale tonight might be a pleasant way to bid farewell to February.

As I've described here before, Randy and I have many rituals. Travel rituals are some of my favorites. As we were packing Wednesday evening, I ran down to the basement to get a load of laundry from the dryer. While I was doing that, Randy was upstairs in the bedroom replacing the comfortable cotton briefs in my suitcase with hot pink thongs. He bought these thongs for me a couple years ago as another way to ask for a spanking. Our ritual works like this - anytime I wear a thong, I'm asking him to swat my bottom. It's a simple signal and it works well. Very well!

Randy's panty raid was an amateurish attempt and I discovered it almost immediately. I elected not to acknowledge his sleight of hand. As I continued to pack, my mind began to wander. I thought about Randy. He must have been very turned on by the idea of taking me to a tropical paradise and spanking me every day. I decided I liked that idea too. The thongs stayed where they were, except for one that I saved to wear the following day. To even the score, I slipped our dogleg wooden hairbrush into the bottom of his suitcase. We went to bed with no discussion of the contents of our respective suitcases.

On Thursday, we flew to our destination without incident. We checked into a very nice luxury hotel right near the beach. When we got to our room, we implemented another of our rituals. Upon arrival in a new room, Randy always celebrates our arrival by bending me over the side of the bed. When I dropped my jeans, he gasped. No kidding! I actually surprised him for once. There, before his eyes, was my invitingly bare behind framed with pink thongs that screamed "spank me hard right now!"

I quickly learned that he knew as much about the hairbrush as I did about the thongs. I guess after you've been with someone for twenty years you begin to pick up a few patterns. He removed the brush from his suitcase and promptly began applying to my bottom. He employed lots of wrist and just enough arm to generate a really intense sting. Almost every stoke landed squarely on my sit spots. Ouch!

After the spanking and before the requisite lovemaking, we went out for dinner. I squirmed in my seat while we dined on seafood. Upon our return to the hotel, I nearly tackled my lover. There's just something about being on vacation by ourselves away from home that triggers a ravenous sexual hunger in both of us. We wrestled like newlyweds.

The following day we visited one of the local wildlife parks. It was fun, but tiring. We just weren't used to the heat and humidity. We returned to our room in the late afternoon. We decided upon a shower. As we stripped off our sweaty clothes, Randy made a big deal of pointing out my thong (as though I didn't fully comprehend its significance). So into the shower we went. We washed and shampooed each other. When we both felt clean and refreshed, Randy reached out of the shower and grabbed the hairbrush!

I placed my hands against the wall facing away from the showerhead. Randy grabbed me around the waist with his left arm. As the warm water rained down on my bottom, so did a few dozen well-placed swats. The merits of a wet bottom spanking have been well documented, so I'll spare you the details. Suffice to say, my shower spanking was both painful and thorough. One exciting aspect was the way the thwack sound made by wood striking my wet skin resonated though that bathroom. If this vacation had a soundtrack, that was it!

Upon getting out of the shower, I inspected the damage in a mirror. My derriere was a brilliant crimson. Seeing what I was doing, Randy chuckled and said "Yep, that's one well-toasted bottom. You'd better get used to it!" Just about then, it dawned on me that getting spanked with the hairbrush everyday might be more than I wanted.

Again, we went to dinner before making love. It's not my favorite arrangement, but at that resort, you have to go to dinner early or you won't get in. We went to an Asian restaurant. The food was very good, but I had great difficulty staying in my seat. After we returned to our room, again the clothes came off. This time, I received my reward. I knelt on the bed while he approached me from behind. Pain and pleasure were equal partners in the subsequent proceedings. After we finished, we lay in bed embracing and entangled. We talked for a while before drifting into a well-deserved slumber.

The next day was the final day before Randy's conference began (Truth be known, this was the real reason for our trip). In the morning, we went swimming in a gigantic outdoor swimming pool. We had a good time, but I found myself somewhat preoccupied with pulling my suit down in back. I could definitely still feel his handiwork. After our swim, we rented small speedboats and roared around the lakes and canals.

As we had done the two previous days, we returned to the hotel just in time for a brisk spanking before dinner. This time, Randy had me strip naked and grasp my ankles. Before I had time to think about my predicament, the spanking had begun. He worked quickly using a snapping motion with his wrist. Giving the condition of my bottom, it didn't take long before I was howling. I almost asked him to stop, but decided to tough it out. Upon completion, Randy guided me to the bed. Once there, he demonstrated his affection with his hands and mouth. I was nearly jumping off the bed by the time he mounted me. It was very satisfying.

We must have been working hard because we both fell asleep right there on the bed. When we awoke, it was nine o'clock. We decided to go out to eat anyway. Our tardiness was repaid with an hour-long wait to be seated. Randy sat on a bench. I didn't. I could hardly believe how incredibly hot my bottom was. I wanted to rub it, but it was just too public a location. When we finally got our dinner, it was only mediocre. Oh well. I guess everything can't be perfect!

On Sunday, we had a great brunch. If it seems like we did a lot of eating on this trip, we certainly did. Afterward, Randy went to his conference and I went swimming. I had a great day. I read my book. I lay by the pool. I took a nap. Just in time for dinner, Randy returned. We talked about our respective days for a bit. I didn't want to bring up the inevitable subject, but eventually, he did. I think he was waiting to see if I would mention it. He sat on the bed while I positioned myself over his lap. Despite the condition of my bottom, he didn’t hesitate to get started. Again the hairbrush performed its harsh dance across my exposed skin. From the first smack, I felt a searing, burning sting. After about twenty solid whacks, I decided I had had enough. I invoked my safeword! This isn't unprecedented, but it hasn't happened often. I pride myself on being able to absorb a lot of spanking. This time, I just couldn't take any more. Randy immediately picked me up and held me. I buried my head in his chest and just hugged him. We stayed in this position without saying a word for many minutes. Finally, I said "please make gentle love to me." He did and it was so sweet. I loved him at that moment as much as I ever have. Later, we ordered room service and watched some TV before retiring.

On Monday, Randy was scheduled to be gone again all day. However, before he left for the conference, he handed me what appeared to be a business card. It was an appointment card for me that afternoon with a masseuse! Ooooo. What a great idea! I went swimming and enjoyed lounging around until it was time for my appointment. The massage was extremely relaxing. Fortunately, it covered only the back, shoulders, neck, and head. My lower half was definitely not ready for prime time. By the time she was finished with me, I felt so drained I could hardly walk straight (but I had a smile on my face). As I drifted back to our room, my mind shifted to my fate. Would Randy spank me again? I didn't know.

As soon as Randy walked in the door, I could see that he was tired. He greeted me warmly and then said, "Well, Bon, let's get this over" as he sat on the bed. Gulp! I wasn't very enthusiastic, but I did bare my bottom and lay across his lap. Maybe those thongs weren't such a great idea I thought. As he so often does, Randy surprised me. The first swat was soft and gentle. It was his hand. Normally, he seldom does this (mostly because he claims my bottom is a lot tougher than his hand). He spanked me, but in a soft, sensuous way. Throughout, he interspersed liberal rubbing and probing. The results were just as you might predict. It was the perfect end to a great day.

The next two days offered more of the same. Days by the pool with my book. Evenings discovering new definitions for excitement with my dear husband. We went to a dinner theater one night and the Hard Rock Cafe another. Each night, he gave me a hand spanking followed by rich erotic adventures.

The hairbrush didn't appear again until the morning we left. After taking his shower, he came out of the bathroom smacking the brush against his hand. That gesture always means trouble for me. He asked, "Are you still wearing that naughty thong?" knowing full well the answer to his query. "Yes," I replied in a slightly sheepish voice. He rolled me onto my tummy and pulled up my nightgown. He used a slow, steady pace while alternating sides. It was hard and it hurt, but at that moment, it barely mattered. My husband was demonstrating how much he loves me. I can tell you that the results of his love stayed with me all the way home.

It was an excellent trip. I would go again today without hesitation. I love my spankings almost as much as I love my Randy. I hope to get plenty of both in the years to come.

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Monday, February 27, 2006

Experience Questionnaire

A reader asked me to complete this questionnaire thing. Why not?

You can only say yes or no. You are not allowed to explain anything.

1. Taken a picture naked?    Yes
2. Kissed a member of the same sex?    Yes
3. Danced in front of your mirror?    Yes
4. Been dumped?    No
5. Stole money from a friend?    No
6. Gotten in a car with people you just met?    Yes
7. Been in a fist fight?    No
8. Snuck out of the house?    No
9. Had feelings for someone who didn't have them back?    No
10. Been arrested?    No
11. Made out with a stranger? No
12. Had feelings for one of your best/good friends?    Yes
13. Slept in a bed with a member of the same sex?    Yes
14. Seen someone die?    No
15. Been on a plane?    Yes
16. Kissed a picture?    Yes
17. Slept in until 3?    Yes
18. Laid on your back and watched cloud shapes go by?    Yes
19. Made a snow angel?    Yes
20. Cheated while playing a game?    No
21. Been lonely?    Yes
22. Fallen asleep at work/school?    No
23. Felt an earthquake?    Yes
24. Touched a snake?    Yes
25. Ran a red light?    Yes
26. Been suspended from school?    No
27. Had detention?    Yes
28. Hated the way you look?    Yes
29. Witnessed a crime?    Yes
30. Pole danced?    No
31. Been to the opposite side of the country?    Yes
32. Felt like dying?    No
33. Cried yourself to sleep?    Yes
34. Sang karaoke?    Yes
35. Done something you told yourself you wouldn't?    Yes
36. Laughed until your drink came out your nose?    Yes
37. Caught a snowflake on your tongue?    Yes
38. Kissed in the rain?    Yes
39. Sang in the shower?    Yes
40. Made love in a park?    Yes
41. Had a dream that you married someone?    No
42. Glued your hand to something?    No
43. Got your tongue stuck to a flag pole?    No
44. Sat on a roof top?    Yes
45. Didn't take a shower for a week?    No
46. Played chicken?    No
47. Been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on?    No
48. Been told you're hot by a complete stranger?    Yes
49. Broken a bone?    Yes
50. Laugh so hard you cry?    Yes
51. Mooned/flashed someone?    Yes
52. Cheated on a test?    No
53. Blacked out from drinking?    No
54. Gone skinny dipping in a pool?    No
55. Failed a class?    No
56. Cheated on a girl/boyfriend?    No
57. Felt like running away?    No
58. Ran away?    No
59. Did drugs?    Yes
60. Shot a gun?    Yes

I'm not certain what we just learned, but there you are, Adam.

Sunday, February 26, 2006

Sunday Brunch Recap: Feb 26


I anticipated a broad spectrum of answers and you didn’t disappoint. Once again, the responses were both thoughtful and thought-provoking.

The question was: Do spankings make you feel embarrassed or humiliated?


Cuddlybum: Spankings don't make me feel embarrassed or humiliated, not the spanking itself anyway. Talking about it, writing about it, or admitting to someone I submit to it and like it (sometimes anyway!) are all embarrassing and humiliating. Very embarrassing.

Thankfully, my beloved knows this and wouldn't make me tell anyone or tell anyone himself that would make comments to me about it!

And sometimes, the embarrassment and humiliation are part of the game, aren’t they?

Roper: I'd say it depends upon the kind of spanking involved. If it's a punishment spanking (fortunately rare in our experience), there is always humiliation in being found out in wrong-doing and in having to admit guilt. This is essential, in my view, because if the one receiving the spanking doesn't believe they deserve it, then it's an assault, and in any case it won't achieve its desired result).

A recreational or maintenance spanking need not involve humiliation. It need not, but in our case it usually does, because humiliation excites Buttercup as much as the physical spanking itself. Sometimes we play out scenarios such as headmaster and naughty schoolgirl, where humiliation (baring the bottom, standing in the corner, etc) is an enjoyable part of the ritual.

Mike: When I first started spanking with my wife, before we were married, I was a little embarrassed to bring it up. But I did in the context of spanking her. This went on for a while. I was very embarrassed about asking for a spanking, and that is why I didn't for so long.

Although my wife doesn't mind at all and enjoys spanking me on occasion, I still feel a little embarrassed when they start. This is especially true if I bare myself for the spanking. Once the spanking really starts, the embarrassment fades away as the excitement and arousal grow. I don't ever feel humiliated.

When our friends found out about our spanking, I was both embarrassed and humiliated. To this day, we still get a little teasing about it.

Paul: In a perfect world a Dom or H of H would never humiliate or embarrass his/her sub or partner. For me that's a given.

As far as I am aware, in our 33 years together, I never humiliated my Mel. When it comes to embarrassment, I slipped up on occasion. Mel hated to have to hint too broadly or ask for a spanking. She found this very embarrassing. In the early years, I missed a trick or a few. Even in the later years, it happened if I was preoccupied or very tired. Fortunately, Mel learned to read me also.

A happy sub needs a keen and observant Dom. The only exception is if the sub wants to be humiliated or embarrassed. I'm not sure how I would handle that.

Rose: Spankings never embarrass or humiliate me. Even in my search for a regular dom, when the doms I was playing with were, um, not always to my liking, the spankings were always erotic, sensual and stress relieving. When I'm being spanked by a lover with whom I have a connection, the spankings get me extremely wet and aroused. Even the thought of a good spanking from Jefferson starts my feelings of arousal. Seeing him take out our "arsenal" of implements or seeing them out when I enter the bedroom makes me wet and excited. The connection that comes from a good spanking and the sweet cuddling and sex that follow are amazing! For me, it's a very sensual, connecting experience.

Tigger: Spankings never make me feel embarrassed or humiliated. Instead, they make me feel loved, cherished, incredibly close to my hubby, and wildly aroused!

Veronica: Spankings don't embarrass or humiliate me because, for me, they are all about eroticism and enjoyment...I love the feeling of anticipation I get in my stomach when my sweetie instructs me to get over his knee or pushes me over the couch...I might get a little over-anxious, depending on what implement he's going to use (that bath brush is just a killer), but that's all part of the fun, isn't it?...:-)

CeeCi: I've never felt embarrassed or humiliated because I want/need/desire spanking. Spanking has brought me closer to another person than I've ever been before.

Granted, it's not a topic I bring up to friends or family, yet I wonder if they're noticing the positive changes that have happened as a result of accepting this part of my being.

My relationship with MoJo and our exploration of our desires has been liberating. Embarrassment and humiliation just don't work into the equation of 'us'.

LA Girl: Spankings haven't ever humiliated or embarrassed me. They never had and never will.

I remember when we first started talking about spanking and D/s. I did feel totally embarrassed talking to him about this subject. I was afraid he would think was I totally out of my gourd. Instead, I found out he was more twisted than me.

Wind Walker: At first, I was embarrassed by my own response to the spankings. I enjoyed the eroticism of it all, but was surprised by just how much I liked it. That embarrassed me a little bit, and I was embarrassed to find how much I needed to be spanked. I thought spankings would be just a fun kinky "foreplay" aspect. I had no real intention that it should become such a part of who I am.

I can't explain why I felt that way, but I can say that feeling of embarrassment was fleeting. Soon, I had no embarrassment at all. I accepted that spankings were incredible, in mind, body, & soul. I have never felt any kind of humiliation. I think if you are ever with a partner who makes you feel humiliated or embarrassed that you enjoy something, that's a signal of a bad relationship.

Bonnie: One reason I found this particular question so intriguing is that I changed my answer twice while pondering it.

My initial response was no, of course not. For Randy and me, spanking is an integral part of our lovemaking. I refuse to be embarrassed or ashamed about having sex with my husband. That's what we're supposed to do! Now, if we weren't making love at all, I might be a little uneasy about that, but spankings are an essential element of our lives together.

Thinking a little more, I recognized that it would be very uncomfortable if we were ever outed to friends, family, or coworkers. That is, thank goodness, only a hypothetical possibility, but the events chronicled in this blog hold great potential for embarrassment.

Finally, I identified one place where all of these emotions and many more come into play – in our fantasies! For a couple of hours on a Friday evening, I can be that naughty cheerleader or saucy wench. I can revel in submission and dance with discipline. It's not real life, but those experiences have a profound impact upon my state of mind. In ways I cannot fully explain, roleplaying scratches an itch that lies deep within my psyche.

So, I guess my answer must remain nuanced and ambiguous. But doesn't that accurately describe the paradox inherent in this thing we do?

SmartNnaughty: I suppose I should feel embarrassed or humiliated, but I never do. If it is a punishment or discipline spanking, I know I've earned it and I've got it coming.

I don't ever feel embarrassed by the spanking but sometimes by what led to the spanking: my behavior or choices. Now that is something to regret.

T-Bone: I'm not embarrassed. I'm horny. My girlfriend and I started spanking out of just kind of play wrestling. Now we spank each other all the time. Lately, she's been giving me these spank-handjobs. It's a spank, stroke, kind of thing. It's hot.

Marcus: The idea of being outed to coworkers would embarrass me immensely. However, I have never felt bad about liking to spank girls. I'm just picky about who I share it with. Strangely, the girls that like it seem able to express it easier than I can.

When I spank, I am never out to embarrass or humiliate. I want erotic arousal. I've never tried to hurt a woman, nor will I ever. So my answer is, I want to spank without causing anyone embarrassment. Myself included.

Great job, everyone! Thank you again for making our brunch a success.

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MBS Sunday Brunch #6


Welcome back. Please come in and join us! It's Sunday and this is the weekly My Bottom Smarts spanko brunch.

The brunch is your chance to share and to learn. Each week, we have a designated topic. This topic is more a suggestion than a rigid guideline. Participants then post comments offering their thoughts and insights on the subject. Some people prefer to respond on their own blog and supply a link. Others prefer to send me an e-mail. All three methods work well.

Once I have collected and edited all of the responses, I will post a second article summarizing our discussion. I am always amazed by not just the quality, but also the breadth of different viewpoints represented.

As I alluded in a previous message, this week's question comes from a frequent reader and correspondent. I liked it so much that I wanted to bring it here for your consideration.

Do spankings make you feel embarrassed or humiliated?

I await your wisdom...

Saturday, February 25, 2006

Bonnie's Mailbag: Potpourri


I love hearing from my readers. They ask me interesting questions and I strive to provide them with equally interesting responses. This is my opportunity to share the questions and answers with you.

Let's see what's in the old mailbox this month...

Question: How can I find a man to spank me?

Answer: I'm sure there are a number of readers who can speak more from direct experience that I can (and please do), but I'll offer these thoughts.

A lot depends upon the type of relationship you seek (or whether you desire a relationship at all). If you want only the physical act of spanking without any emotional strings attached, you might search for a group of adult spanking enthusiasts in your area. This setting should provide a safe environment to play.

Many of us, however, desire more from a spanking than simply a sore bottom. As humans, it's our nature to want to connect with other people, or at least one other person.

A good spanking relationship is, at its heart, a good relationship. Look for in a spanker those qualities you would value in a partner. Even if you're not looking for sex, compatibility is essential.

There are many spanking forums that offer personal ads. I know people who have met their partners through this kind of service. Obviously, anytime you meet someone new, the usual precautions apply (meet in a public place, let a friend know, check in at a specified time, get to know them before progressing, etc).

Another approach would be to find a compatible vanilla partner for whom spanking is an acceptable form of foreplay. If your tastes run toward erotic spankings, this might be a possibility.

As with any prospective relationship, there are always dead ends, traps, and pitfalls. The path to your destination is not always clear, and you may well decide along the way that your destination has changed. However, armed with a plan, persistence, and a little luck, I believe you will find your spanking gentleman.

Question: Please describe your panties.

Answer: (laughing) You wouldn't believe how often I get this question. OK, if you were one of the guys who sent me e-mails about it, perhaps you would believe.

Anyhow, for play, I have a very nice collection of sexy lingerie. Despite my undeniable kinky streak, I am far more into lace than leather. Randy tells me he loves seeing me wear these outfits, although I have to wonder given the speed with which he removes them.

Last night, for example, I wore a periwinkle blue teddy with a matching thong. This set is made from a silky nylon fabric with lace trim. There are some little strings in that tie front. For Randy, it's sort of like opening a Christmas present.

Most days, however, I wear fairly pedestrian cotton briefs. Today's pair happens to be pink.

Question: Will you exchange links with me?

Answer: This is a touchy subject for some people, so I approach it with caution. On the other hand, it's a fair question and I will answer it.

My response is "it depends." The links on my blog are labeled "Blogs I Read," and that's the truth. My time is limited, and so, I presume, is yours. I have no desire to collect (or maintain) links for every blog and Web site on the planet. That's not helpful to me or my readers. I select a relatively small number of links to sites that provide content that is reasonably similar to what you see here.

In choosing links, I look first and foremost for sites that deal with the topic of spanking. That is the theme of this blog and I endeavor to stick as close to it as possible. My links reflect that bias. I do have links for a few sites that stray from this policy, but all are extraordinary in other respects.

I've heard it said that the key to success in blogging is content, content, content. I believe that. The best blogs are those that deliver interesting, well written, well presented posts. These sites are a pleasure to read.

I favor sites that are updated regularly. I have dropped a few blogs that I dearly love, but I can no longer justify sending readers to the same stale content. I also look for sites that are mostly upbeat in their outlook. We all have hardships in our lives and there's nothing wrong with sharing misery through a blog. But that doesn't mean I must give them a link.

I seek sites that are established. Two posts does not a blog make. I try to be supportive of bloggers who are just beginning and I frequently leave messages offering encouragement. When such blogs accumulate a good collection of posts, I often link them.

I prefer blogs that take a positive view of our kink and people in general. If I feel that an author is sexist, condescending, judgmental, or close-minded, I'm not likely to return to their blog.

I don't know if all of these criteria make sense, but this is how I think about links. I have no problem with anyone asking me for a link so long as they respect my right to decide which links to include.

The inclusion of a link is not meant to reward. Nor is the absence of a link meant to snub. It's merely my admittedly quirky preference on the day I last updated links.

Question: Do you really get spanked?

Answer: Yes, I do.

Question: May I participate in the brunch?

Answer: Absolutely!

I have one more reader question that I like so much that it's going to be the topic for tomorrow's brunch. I invite you to stop back and add your thoughts.

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Friday, February 24, 2006

The 21st Position


A couple of months ago, I published a list of twenty spanking positions. This remains one of the most popular articles on the entire blog.

Last night, Randy reminded me, in rather demonstrative fashion, of a twenty first position. I can now see why I might have subconsciously chosen to forget it.

I stayed at the gym a little later than usual. I was feeling strong, listening to my iPod, and having a splendid workout. When I finally checked the time, it was an hour later than I realized. Knowing that Randy would be home soon, I collected my belongings, tossed on my jacket, and quickly departed.

When I arrived home, Randy was already there. He met me with a kiss at the top of the stairs as I came up from the garage. He was smiling and seemed to be in very good mood. As soon as I removed my jacket, the game began. Randy loves the way my curves look in tight spandex. Yesterday, I wore a pair of medium blue Capri pants with a big white sweatshirt over the top. I didn’t think this get-up was particularly alluring, especially after a workout. But at that moment, but my opinion didn’t count for much.

Randy’s large hands were instantly all over my body. While one set of fingers cupped my breast, the other was squeezing my bottom. His second kiss was very unlike the cordial greeting I had received moments before. It was long, deep, and very sexy. He followed it with a hug designed to bring our pelvic zones into close contact. His hands wandered back to my posterior as he ground his clearly evident probe against my crotch. Wild thoughts ran through my head as we stood so close in the center of the kitchen.

Clearly wanting to wait no longer, Randy led me into the living room. He guided me to the couch, where I lay on my back as instructed. At this point, I wasn’t quite sure what he had in mind.

Without removing my clothes, Randy grabbed both of my ankles. He pulled my legs up into the air and then pushed them further toward my head. When he finished, I was bent almost double. Only my upper back, shoulders, neck and head were still in contact with the seat of the couch. My bottom was pointed at the ceiling, stretched tight, and fully exposed.

As he grasped my ankles with his left hand, my dear husband began to whack my seat with his right. From the very first blow, I was acutely aware that this spanking really hurt! Even though I was wearing pants, I still felt very vulnerable in this position. Each full force swat increased the intensity of the rising sting.

Randy struck my bottom hard and fast. The sound reverberated through the house. The sum of this deluge of smacks was a thorough spanking and the outcome was an exquisitely sore, crimson rump. If I ever harbored any doubts concerning the effectiveness of his hand as a spanking implement, I’m sitting upon convincing evidence to the contrary.

After he decided that I’d had enough, Randy suggested that we move upstairs for some amorous adventures. In truth, I told him, I was more ready for a warm shower. He took that idea and ran with it as he often does. Before long we were sharing a shower and each other. He washed my hair as I ‘rinsed’ his maleness. This was truly some good, clean fun.

All in all, we had a fine evening. I guess you could say that I stand corrected (in more ways than one!). At least for now, let’s change the official count to twenty one spanking positions.

Have a great weekend!

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Thursday, February 23, 2006

Quiz: What Kind of Spankee Am I?

We haven't had a new quiz here for a while. I thought today might be an ideal occasion.

You scored as Sensual Spanko. Spankings make you hot in all the right ways. Your erotic spankings are the centerpiece of your lovemaking experience. Without the great sex, they would be little more than another pain in the posterior.

This quiz is brought to you by My Bottom Smarts.

Sensual spanko
92%
Submissive Spanko
75%
Pain-toy Spanko
75%
Mental Health Spanko
67%
Discipline Spanko
25%
Brat Spanko
25%

What Kind of Spankee Am I?
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Wednesday, February 22, 2006

The Moment of Truth


Every spankee knows the moment of truth.

The room is dimly lit. Your lover sits on the edge of the bed. At his side, you can discern the outline of a wooden paddle with which he clearly intends to administer a spanking. He raises his arm, extends his index and then retracts it in a gesture clearly meant to beckon you forward.

You take one halting step toward him and then freeze. Regaining your composure and your nerve at least for an instant, you edge another half step in the direction of your destiny. Again, you pause. This paddling is going to hurt. You know you deserve every single bottom-blistering swat that is coming to you. But that fact doesn’t make this moment any easier.

Your man now appears impatient. What is that gentle thumping? His fingers are lightly drumming upon the surface of the paddle. Aware of your obvious hesitation, you again lurch forward. He is now so close you could reach out and touch him, or he could touch you. Yet, the gentleman takes no action. He awaits your next move.

You strain to look into his dark eyes. In the candlelit bedroom, however, you cannot read his emotion. Now you find yourself at his side. His lap is before you. You shiver as he releases the single button at his cuff and purposefully begins to roll up his sleeve. You don’t fear the pain so much as the possibility that you may not be able to accept his gift in its scorching entirety.

You've been here before. You know what comes next.

He pats his thigh. The time is now. The moment of truth is at hand. Do you not turn away? Do you reject the impulse to negotiate another arrangement? Do you instead lower yourself slowly onto his lap?

Are you willing to position yourself voluntarily? Are you prepared to become an active participant in your own spanking? Can you submit to his will? Do you embrace this fate? Will you arch your back to signal your undeniable need for a spanking that is both long and severe? Shall you grind your crotch against his leg to reveal the depth of your arousal?

You are a spanko. At this moment of truth, the only answer you can think of is…

          yes

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Tuesday, February 21, 2006

The Female Bottom: An Owner’s Manual


Hi! It’s me, your bottom. That thing upon which you sit. The place where, you know...

If you take good care of me, I can provide a lifetime of fun. We both enjoy spankings and sex, but it's important to remember a few simple rules:
  1. For safety and a more enjoyable spanking experience, keep those love pats on the spanking surfaces illustrated above. Whacks delivered on the hips, legs, or too high on the bottom can injure bones.

  2. When starting with a new implement, test it first to gain an understanding of its capabilities and the recipient's responses.

  3. Be careful with wooden or similar rigid spanking implements, especially if the spankee is slender. Applied improperly, they can cause serious harm.

  4. Thin, whippy implements have the potential to break the skin. Use them with caution.

  5. A few bruises and minor abrasions are all part of a good time, but any bleeding cuts need to be attended promptly to prevent infection.

  6. The quality of a spanking is not measured by a numerical count, skin color, or intensity. It is best measured by the value the participants derive from the experience.

  7. That long slow kiss afterward is great for you, but don't forget my aftercare as well. A gentle rubdown with some soothing aloe lotion is a special delight.

  8. Should you decide to insert a toy or a body part inside, please, oh please, do it slowly and apply some lubricant first.

  9. Anal sex is like Las Vegas – What happens in there stays in there. Objects or body parts that enter must not visit any other orifice until after they have been thoroughly washed.

Treat me right and we can have a splendid time together. Despite being the butt of so many jokes, I still have a sense of humor. Just please, spare us that whole "Wide Load" gag, OK?

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Monday, February 20, 2006

Two Smiles

Bacchus at the Eros Blog posted an excellent essay entitled "Two Smiles." He makes the point that regardless of our kink (or lack thereof), we all have an interest in protecting our kinky friends from the crusading moralists now running loose in the United States. Just because we don't practice or enjoy heavy bondage, as in the cited example, we can still support the rights of good people who do. The same can be said for many other practices and relationship styles that fall beyond the comfortable boundaries of the mainstream.

We kinky bloggers tend to divide ourselves into discrete subcommunities. It's the whole alphabet soup label game. While they can be descriptive, I don't have much use for labels. They divide us at least as often as they bring us together. Whether we consider ourselves to be D/s, DD, TPE, M/s, B&D, S&M, or gourmet vanilla, we all have a great deal in common. Not the least of which is the desire to live and love as we choose without government intrusion into our bedrooms.

Thank you, Bacchus, for this timely reminder.

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Sunday, February 19, 2006

Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch 2/19/06


Once again, I am truly impressed by the breadth and quality of these responses.

The topic was: Please name five things that make a spanking better

Anon #1:
  1. Marks
  2. Panties
  3. Paddles
  4. Hairbrushes
  5. Glowing red bum

Linda:
  1. When Mark takes control
  2. When we are both on the same page about the type, duration and emotional outcome
  3. When it's coupled with mind blowing orgasms :)
  4. When there are lasting marks and a warm sensation for days
  5. When we both have an equal sense of contentment and release and share that bond and closeness with one another

Flinchflower: OK Bonnie, remember I've never truly had a spanking, just a little play, though.
  1. Being lectured as the spanking goes on
  2. Being given things to follow up on to avoid more spanking
  3. Compassion - Someone willing to take a break if it's needed
  4. Being over someone's knee, rather than bent across a piece of furniture
  5. Having a reddened bottom but no bruises, that will last for hours or maybe into the next day, but not for days or weeks

Anon #2:
  1. Anticipation of an upcoming spanking (i.e. spouse leaves out a paddle on the counter in the bathroom)
  2. A original spanking in a new location with a new spanking tool
  3. Fear that someone might hear or see you getting spanked, or might help spank you
  4. Hot sex afterward
  5. Soreness that last for two to three days reminding you of the spanking and getting you hot again

IntricatePieces:
  1. Rubbing … Lots and lots of rubbing in between a few kisses are good too ;-)
  2. Anticipation… the biting of the lip and lowering of panties
  3. Being lectured in between swats. (During a fun spanking, questions like “who’s been a naughty girl” are a blast, as are answers like, “Uummm, Hilary Clinton?” These will only get you a few extra swats)
  4. A sore bottom the next day
  5. Last but not least, tears… even in a fun spanking… I love to be brought to tears

Mike:
  1. Anticipation...knowing that it's coming for a good long time
  2. The spankee baring their own butt. To me it's giving consent in a non verbal way
  3. Having to ask for it to start
  4. Stinging during the sex that follows
  5. A nice red butt for a while after it's over

dwcmike:
  1. The hairbrush's sudden appearance on the bathroom counter. This is a signal that a spanking is going to be given soon.
  2. Being informed to "come upstairs with me now!"
  3. Being required to bare your own bottom for the spanking, and bending over my wife's lap when she taps her lap with her hand or the hairbrush
  4. A stinging backside while making love
  5. Soreness the next few hours or even the next few days

Tigger:
  1. The quickening of my pulse as my hubby guides me over his knee (or into whatever position he chooses!)
  2. A nice warm-up (either over a pair of skimpy panties or on the bare!) before the real spanking begins
  3. Lots of caressing (and scolding if I'm getting spanked for being "naughty!") before during and after the spanking. Also gentle kisses on my stinging bottom are always enough to make me melt!
  4. Incredible sex after the spanking! (no need to elaborate on that one! *grin*)
  5. Then, of course, there's the wonderful stinging sensation, as well as the glowing red bottom to gaze at in the mirror! *sigh*

Paul:
  1. Knowing it's what she wants and needs
  2. Telling her “Come upstairs, little one”
  3. Preparation and warm up
  4. Completing the spanking, from the sounds and movements, knowing you've got it right
  5. The incredible feeling of togetherness, love, and connection as you cuddle afterwards

Bonnie:
  1. Surprises, with regard to timing, setting, implement, position, etc.
  2. An expertly operated vibrator
  3. A little light bondage to spice things up
  4. Buzzwords – Either a running commentary or old favorites like “Bend over and grab your ankles” or “Assume the position”
  5. Lovemaking for dessert

KK:
  1. The excitement of not knowing how hard and how many swats there will be for me this time
  2. Knowing that I will be in position for the entire spanking with my hands and legs cuffed to anything that is avaiable for my Master
  3. The feeling of my red hot and marked ass at the end of the spanking
  4. Knowing that it is sign of my Master's love for me
  5. Last, and the best part of all, is when the spanking is over and my Master kisses all the pain away on my ass

Rivka:
  1. Closeness (both physically and emotionally)
  2. Communication (lecture, if you will - before and during - or sexy keywords here and there)
  3. Bondage
  4. A gradual increase in the severity of implements beginning with His hand (i.e. Hand, paddle, crop, belt, cane, etc.)
  5. Aftercare (this definitely *will* - because it won't happen until we're married - include sex)


Thanks to everyone who stopped by and contributed. I hope you had enough to eat (there's no way I'm taking these pastries home!) and gained some insights in the process. For those who missed out, I promise we'll be back here next week.

Saturday, February 18, 2006

It's Sunday Brunch Time Again!


Hello everyone and welcome to our weekly My Bottom Smarts Sunday Brunch. This week, we have lots of tasty pastries. The coffee is warm, so please come in, take off your jacket, and pull up a chair.

As in past weeks, I will pose a question for your consideration. When you are ready to respond, post your answer as a comment or place it on your blog and link to it. I will then summarize the responses and post them tomorrow.

Now, without further ado, here's our topic du jour:

Please name five things that make a spanking better.

This is a very open-ended subject, so feel free to let your imagination soar. For example, these needn't be tangible objects.

Let the discussion begin!

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Spanking 101: Consent

Consent is the bedrock upon which every sexual relationship is built. Without it, sex is rape and spanking is assault.

As black and white as this issue may seem at first glance, there can be many shades of grey. At one end of the spectrum, one partner may decide to permanently surrender her consent regarding sexual matters as a demonstration of total submission. This is not an arrangement with which I would be comfortable, but I know it works for some couples.

At the other end of the spectrum is a policy implemented several years ago at Antioch College in Ohio. This policy required an explicit request and confirmation of consent at each step from a kiss to unbuttoning a button to touching a breast. This too seems a bit extreme. I understand their point (stopping date rape), but the twenty questions procedure would absolutely kill the mood for me.

For most of us, the ideal arrangement lies somewhere in the middle. As with so many issues, there can be no single solution that works for everyone. Couples must find their own comfort level. As a relationship progresses, that level can shift considerably. Failure to agree on this fundamental issue can quickly doom a relationship.

In a vanilla world, we could probably stop here. However, when we add a little kink to the mix, things become more complicated. Submission, by definition, involves giving away a degree of control. It can be exciting and fun or scary and dangerous, depending upon how well the partners communicate and support one another.

For me, the key is that the submissive's control must never be taken from her. It is given voluntarily to the dominant as a loan. She retains full ownership and the right to recall the loan should circumstances change in a major way. The submissive aspects of my relationship with Randy operate in precisely this fashion. It took a number of years for us to forge this understanding, but it has worked well.

Similarly, true consent can be granted only when the submissive is able to think clearly and understand the implications of her decision. In particular, I think coerced consent through any means is very problematic.

Consent has three dimensions - Scope, Duration, and Severability.

Scope refers to the breadth of activities governed by the consent. For example, I allow Randy to tie me up and spank my bottom as he deems appropriate. However, I would be very upset were he to cut or brand me without asking first. Those activities are outside the scope of our consent understanding as it exists today.

Duration is the time frame covered by a consent understanding. It could, for example, be granted for the current session, all sessions, whenever the couple is together, or all of the time.

Severability is the rights the submissive has to pause or cancel her consent in special circumstances. Is there a safeword? When can it be used? What happens when the safeword is invoked?

These three elements can be combined in many ways to fit a variety of situations. There can be no one right formula, except in the context of one couple's desires. As you ponder issues related to consent, I encourage you to consider these choices. The optimal blend should provide thrill without peril and comfort without complacency. Achieving this balance is not always easy, but it is worthwhile.

Definition: Bonnie

I ganked this toy from Ambient Storm. Webster it's not.


Bonnie --
[adjective]:

Visually addictive

How will you be defined in the dictionary?
at QuizGalaxy.com


I guess I always considered myself to be more of a verb, but so be it...

Thursday, February 16, 2006

Top Ten: Celebrity Spankos

I thought it might be fun to ask my favorite spanker to list ten celebrities he would most like to have over his lap. Here's Randy's list:
  1. Anna Nicole Smith
  2. Tonya Harding
  3. Anna Kournikova
  4. Beyonce Knowles
  5. Brittany Spears
  6. Daisy Fuentes
  7. Jeri Ryan
  8. Kathy Ireland
  9. Madonna
  10. Jennifer Lopez

It's an odd mix, but I believe I detect a pattern. There's not a single waif in the group. Obviously, he likes having a little something to swat.

Not to be upstaged on my own blog, I compiled my own list of favorite fantasy celebrity spankers.
  1. George Clooney
  2. Tommy Lee Jones
  3. Pierce Brosnan
  4. Laurence Fishburne
  5. David Duchovny
  6. Robert Redford
  7. Harrison Ford
  8. Denzel Washington
  9. Patrick Stewart
  10. Sean Connery

So who would be in your top ten?

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Wednesday, February 15, 2006

Spanko Fun the Whole Year Round


Last night, we were sitting on the couch, watching the Olympics and enjoying the final hours of Valentine’s Day. Without any warning, Randy patted his lap and nodded in a manner I know to mean that he wanted me to lie across his thighs. Before long, he was spanking me with his hand. His approach was more lighthearted than serious and my jeans offered considerably more protection than usual.

He told me that he intended to spank me until my bottom was pink in honor of Valentine's Day. "So," I boldly inquired, "Does that mean you will spank me orange for Halloween?" He laughed, but continued to intermittently swat my upturned rear. "How about a spanking with a spaghetti noodle in honor of Columbus Day?"

Getting into the act, he said "Yeah, and I could set your butt on fire for Independence Day!" "How about a turkey leg as a Thanksgiving implement?"

"Ewwwww!"

"OK, maybe not that, but I could always use a switch on Arbor Day..."

I told him that I didn't think it helped trees to tear off their branches in order to beat someone's behind.

"All right then." He was still absent-mindedly whacking away. "Monday is Presidents’ Day. I'll have to spank you stupid."

"I'm already getting dumb, I mean numb. Are you done?"

"I dunno... I can't really see what I'm doing with these damn jeans in the way."

If you can picture what happened next, well, that's what happened next. I have no idea how the Olympics turned out.

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Tuesday, February 14, 2006

Poll: Your Ideal Valentine's Day Gift

What would you like for Valentine's Day?

Flowers and chocolate
A sexy massage
A brisk paddling
A chance to sleep in
The Erotic Olympics
New sex toys
A day spent together
Dinner at a fine restaurant

Monday, February 13, 2006

V-Day and Time for Play


In honor of Valentine's Day, I've dragged this story out of the archive.

Randy and I held our Valentine’s Day celebration last night. Our daughter was away for the evening at a friend's house. I have reason to believe my dear husband bribed the child. In any case, we were absolutely alone in the house and free to let our imaginations roam. As you will soon see, my husband has no problems in that area.

Our evening began with a wonderful dinner that Randy "prepared" himself. His best recipe is the one that begins with the phone number of a favorite restaurant. He ordered Thai food. He suggested that I go and pick it up while he prepared the table. So amused was I at the prospect of him decorating, I jumped at the chance. I retrieved the pungent, spicy food without incident. When I returned, I learned to my surprise that he really did have a plan for the table. It included a dozen long stemmed red roses in a clear glass vase! He also replaced the tablecloth and dug up a pair of candlesticks. Needless to say, I was more than impressed. Why, the napkins even matched the tablecloth!

After enjoying our spicy meal, we moved to the living room. Randy put on some sweet music. I'm pretty sure it was Mozart, but I don't know which piece. Anyhow, I thought it was romantic. Randy lit a fire in the fireplace, poured us each another glass of wine, and the mood was set. When he joined me on the couch, I greeted him with a passionate kiss. Now we were on our way.

One thing led to another as so often happens at times like these. Randy spread a blanket on the floor by the fire. Before long, we were nearly naked and lying on it. Four hands and four lips played out the complex human mating ritual.

After several minutes of this delightful pastime, Randy got up and grabbed two pillows from the couch. I thought they were for our heads, but I was wrong. Gently, he rolled me onto my tummy with the pillows beneath my hips. I decided I was ready for my spanking. A nice tail-warming seemed like the next step in this glorious celebration. But Randy didn't spank me, at least not yet. He started with my left ankle and ever so slowly kissed, licked, and caressed his way over my calf, knee, and thigh. As he worked toward my upper, inner thigh, my legs parted involuntarily. For the moment, though, Randy sidestepped my invitation. He paid prolonged attention to my hips and bottom. From a man who too often rushes through foreplay in search of the final destination, this was marvelous luxury.

Gradually, he worked his way up my back. By the time he reached my neck, I was practically panting with desire. There's something about a slow buildup that just drives me wild. When he nibbled my earlobe, I was the one who was beginning to get impatient. After a lovely pause to aggressively kiss me on the mouth, he sat up as if to signal the beginning of the next phase in this night of pleasure. He got up and left! As the fire crackled behind me, I wondered why he had so aroused me only to leave me unattended. I wasn't nearly done yet!

Had I not been so distracted, I surely would have realized that Randy had only gone to retrieve toys from our bedroom. As soon as he returned with hands full, I deduced this fact. The next feeling I experienced was the Vermont Country Store bath brush against my bottom. But it wasn't the stinging wooden back. It was instead the flexible bristles moving across first one as yet unmarked cheek and then the other. In my heightened state of sensitivity, it was stimulating to say the least. Next, he produced a pulsating sex toy. To my delight, it quickly found an exquisite destination. Soon, he was manipulating both the toy and the brush. All of a sudden, the slightly scratchy feel of the bristles was replaced by an unmistakable cool, smooth sensation. It was the back of the brush now swirling along my hillocks in a circular motion. My spanking was now imminent.

"Is this what you want?" Randy said in a low, sexy voice as he continued to rub. "Yes," I replied in a whisper. Now he began lightly tapping with the brush. "Do you crave your spanking?" I did and I told him so. His response was to increase both the pace and the intensity. Still he wasn't striking my bottom very hard. "Do you like your spanking nice and rough?" he inquired. "Uh huh," I said with conviction. Now he applied the brush in earnest. That familiar warm and stinging sensation grew to encompass my entire bottom. It definitely hurt, but I didn't even care. My mind was fully engrossed in this amazing corporeal experience.

Each snap of Randy's wrist generated a loud "crack" as the brush repeatedly made sharp contact with my skin. Accompanying the sound was a burning which began at the point of most recent contact and then slowly blended into the overall heat of a well-spanked derriere. I made no effort to struggle or leave. I was right where I wanted to be and right where I belonged. I was committed to accept all that my lover chose to give.

After Randy set down the brush, he lightly touched my glowing orbs with both of his hands. He marveled at the warmth he had produced. Without a word, he moved behind me. Despite considerable residual stinging, I welcomed his skin against mine. Together, we rocked as one body and exclaimed as one soul. It wasn't Independence Day, but I saw those fireworks! Words fail at this point, but suffice to say, it was a memorable event.

Afterward, we went upstairs and snuggled in bed before falling asleep. This was a great evening. I told Randy this morning that he really did it right. I am still impressed (and the roses are a sweet reminder). Now it's Valentine's Day and I'm in love all over again.

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Sunday, February 12, 2006

Baby Got Back: A Valentine’s Tale


Randy and I have a long running joke where he pretends to lecture me about my tendency to collect spanking implements. He says, ”Young lady, if you bring home one more implement, so help me, I’m going to turn you over my knee and spank you with it!” My response is typically a bat of the eyelashes and a sweetly inquisitive, “Promise?” Last night, however, it has he who brought a new toy into the house.

I had been away all week pursuing my favorite worthy cause. Even though we had talked on the telephone every evening, we still missed one another. Yesterday afternoon, Randy announced that we would be celebrating both Valentine’s Day and our reunion. At that moment, I knew he had cooked up another one of his exotic plans. You can’t live with someone for so many years and not know such things.

After a pleasant, if routine dinner, Randy directed me to go to our bedroom. He wanted me to remove my clothing and lie on my back on the bed. I didn’t know what he had in mind, except in a general way. However, by this time, I was aching for some adult fun. I happily complied.

Randy left me up there, unattended and little cold, for about ten minutes. When he finally came through the door, he went straight to work. He removed from our toy drawer my cuffs and two long bungee cords. Rather than placing the cuffs on my wrists as we always had before, he slipped them over my feet and tightened them around my ankles. I reognized at that moment that I was in for the full treatment. He attached a bungee to each cuff and fastened the opposite ends to that hook he installed in the bedroom ceiling. My legs were secured and pointed straight up in the air. Thanks to the elasticity of the bungees, I had some flexibility of motion, but I clearly wasn’t going anywhere until Randy was finished with me.

I expected some flavor of spanking next, but that wasn’t my husband’s intent just yet. He kissed me tenderly and wished me a happy Valentine’s Day. I returned his kiss and the sentiment. At that moment, I was proud to be his wife and pleased we were back together at last.

It was interesting to be restrained yet have my arms free for hugging and touching. We embraced lovingly for several minutes. He told me how much he had missed me – the softness of my skin, the sweetness of my kiss, and gentle curve of my hips. With that, his hands wandered over my body. He took my breasts in his hands, first caressing and then lightly pinching each nipple. I shivered with delight and anticipation. When his large hands reached my bottom, he gave each cheek a preparatory swat. These weren’t hard, but they signaled that the time for spanking was at hand.

From the toy drawer, Randy produced an implement I had not seen before. It was a short, thin cane. It couldn’t be more than two feet in length. “I bought you a gift for Valentine’s Day.” He said. I thanked him and told him it was a thoughtful selection (OK, I’m a little weird, but he certainly knows what I like).

Before he tested the new toy, Randy grabbed me by the hips and dragged me to the foot of the bed. This forced my legs up over my head. It was unnerving at first, but not uncomfortable. He then began tapping the little cane against my poor neglected bottom. At first, I could barely feel it. Over time, though, those little taps built into a powerful burn. I thoroughly enjoyed his new toy. It doesn’t produce the kind of nasty skin damage I associate with larger canes, yet it is appropriately painful and lights the fires of my desire in a wonderful way.

When Randy decided I was nice and warm, he gave me a vibrator and told me to use it. This was a fun variation. I took the vibrator and applied it to the epicenter of my desire. As I did so, he applied lubricant to my rear orifice. This made me even hotter. By the time he inserted in a second, smaller vibrator, I was already shaking with passionate release. As I writhed in orgasmic pleasure, my lover relentlessly pumped the vibrator in and out, stopping occasionally to cane my quivering flesh. Ecstasy was mine.

After I was spent, my Prince Charming bent down and kissed me softly. He gave me a sip of water. There’s something about screaming that always makes my mouth dry.

Randy next removed his clothes and again lubricated my posterior. I gasped as his rigid love tool penetrated my most private realm. I don’t like anal sex, but once in a while I love it. As he moved within me, he encouraged me to turn the vibrator back on. I did and that made the experience even better. As he thrust, my man grabbed handfuls of my punished bottom and squeezed tightly. When he did, the rich amalgam of sensations washed over me like the tide. He pushed me beyond the brink again. My lover soon found his own release deep inside me.

Afterward, we shared a shower. This provided another form of reconnection. We washed each other. We embraced. The warm water danced upon our skin and trickled away any residual concerns. Four hands and four lips explored and caressed. It was wonderful.

Early this morning, when I got out of bed, Randy asked me if my bottom was still sore. It wasn’t and I told him the truth. He furrowed his brow and vowed to finish the job today. I told him I thought his Valentines’ Day celebration was just perfect …and that was the truth as well.

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Recap: The Valentine’s Spanko Brunch


We’ve had another very interesting brunch. Today, we examined favorite spanking fantasies. Once again, the responses were wonderful.

Mike: My favorite fantasy involves me giving my wife a long hard sensual spanking. We start on the couch, talking touching, kissing, and slowly moving to more intimate touching. My hand runs down her side, past her waist, over her panty clad hip and onto her smooth backside. At this touch, she gently pushes into me, and moans lightly, encourage more attention to that part of her body. First I rub, over her panties, and give her a nice firm squeeze. Then the first pat, crisp, light, with only my fingers. She flinches out of anticipation, not from the sting.

"Do you want more?" I ask. "Yes," she whispers as she lowers herself across my lap, eager to have me start in earnest.

I caress her cheeks and lift my hand as if to start, then bring it down lightly to caress some more.

"Please," she begs. "Hmm," I respond, "I think you are too dressed for this."

I delay the spanking by making her strip first. This teases her and builds the suspense of the sting to come. When she is naked, she drapes herself over me again. She feels my stiffness against her belly and knows I'm as anxious as she is to start.

The spanking then begins for real. Rhythmic, moderate taps on one cheek, then the other. Back and forth I alternate, building in tempo and strength. My palm tingles slightly, but not as much as she does with each stroke and the color starts to fill in her pale flesh. When her moans match the beat of the spanks, she begins to rock in synch with the punishment. I switch hands, using my arm over her back to continue the spanks. My other hand slips between her legs. I'm always surprised at how excited she becomes during a spanking, although I shouldn't because I know what they do to me.

I'll leave a nice cliff hanger there, because I think you can all see where it goes from here

Linda: My true fantasy is so cliché, but with a bit of a twist I guess. I want a strong man to actually take me in hand and truly punish me until I'm sobbing and have lost total control. But then, it's not just the spanking. I want to be completely dominated, not only emotionally and mentally, but physically too. There’s a huge D/s factor in this, and yes, it's definitely sexual. After he spanks me into submission, he then basically forces me to allow him to do things to my body I would never in reality do or allow. (Well, maybe some of it I would allow because I love and trust my husband, and if he wanted to explore these areas, I would at least try.) Some of it is quite painful and other parts just a bit humiliating and somewhat degrading.

He has me completed bound and at his mercy, but he's not menacing or anything to fear, just some of what he wants to inflict on my body is a bit fearful. If I try to resist he stops and harshly punishes me and not necessarily in the traditional manner either. He may decide to punish my breasts or other private and sensitive parts of my anatomy rather than my backside. The whole time, he exudes pure power and control. It's hypnotizing and a real sexual turn on. The fear, pain, pleasure and the emotional roller coaster keep me come back to him. That’s my fantasy of "him". Actually "he" doesn't have a face. It's more just the idea of that kind of personality.

Tigger: A spanking fantasy, hmm? Funny you should ask that because my hubby and I discussed one just yesterday!!! You see, while I was getting a wonderfully erotic spanking, I found myself asking my husband what he would do if I dressed up as a naughty schoolgirl! Well, he told me exactly what he would do, and in the most delicious detail!

My grades in math (not my favorite subject!) have been abysmal and he has asked me to come over to his house for some extra help. Of course, being the bad girl that I am, I show up in the shortest plaid skirt I can find, stack-heeled Mary Jane shoes and the tiniest of white blouses.

Needless to say my outfit raises an eyebrow. It also prompts my "teacher" to lecture me not only on my grades, but also on my choice of dress. That then leads to him telling me that perhaps I need a lesson how a schoolgirl should act.

So saying, he instructs me to stand up and bend over the desk. I give him a little pout, (it's required, after all) but do as he asks, only to look over my shoulder to find him holding a big wooden paddle (kind of like a sorority paddle, which we just happen to really have in our collection, I might add!). Though my eyes go even wider, I am a little excited by the prospect of getting spanked with such a wicked-looking thing, and obediently stick out my bottom.

The first few spanks are light and over my skirt, but he quickly lifts the garment out of the way, revealing a pair of very skimpy panties that prompt another lecture on the inappropriateness of such undergarments. The lecture is of course accompanied by more smacks with the paddle, a little harder this time. They soon have me dancing from foot to foot, and I can only imagine what that paddle will feel like on my bare bottom, especially since he is already pulling my now very wet panties down to mid-thigh.

I tense a little in anticipation, but much to my relief, instead of continuing with the spanking, he caresses my stinging bottom, his hand wonderfully soothing. Then, just when I am relaxed, he starts spanking me again. The paddle stings fiercely, and yet I love it!!! I also love how excited it is getting me!!!

Then, abruptly, the paddling stops, and he tells me that I need to reflect on my misdeeds with some well-deserved corner time!!! I pout again, but he only leads me over to the corner. I am to hold my skirt up, he tells me. And there will be absolutely no rubbing my stinging bottom!!!

As much as I would like to reach back and rub my stinging bottom, I don't. But I do steal a glance over my shoulder to see him sitting in the desk chair, watching me. To make sure I behave myself, I wonder? Or because he likes looking at my red ass? From how hard he obviously is, I'd say because he likes looking at my red ass, and I can't help but grin as I put my nose back in the corner.

Finally, he announces that I am to come back over to him. I do so, my panties still banded around my thighs, only to find myself over his knee this time. Though my bottom is still sore from the paddling, I welcome the feel of his hand as he spanks me. Every so often, he dips his fingers into my wetness just to see how absolutely ready I am for him. And I am more than ready, I assure you!

Bonnie: My first fantasy involves spanking and sex in zero-gravity. I touched on it in my fictional story The Sphere. I would love to try this, but it's not very likely to happen.

My second fantasy involves performing in front of a live audience. My exhibitionist side thrills at the prospect. My practical side is mortified at the thought of some RL person I know seeing me receive (and probably enjoy) a spanking in front of a whole crowd of people.

Some fantasies, alas, are probably better if they remain just that. But the imagination is a marvelous world that is well worth exploring.

Cuddlybum: I love the fantasy of doing something wrong/naughty and being told. “As soon as I get you home, you're going straight over my knee, young lady!”

I imagine being dragged home, against my will, being thrown over his knee, knickers pulled down, ass blistered. Then I'm sent to the corner and ordered to stay there until further notice - with my bum still on display of course! Then I would be pulled back and bent over the back of the chair for a session with the paddle and the wooden spoon with my hands tied to the legs to stop me reaching back. Then it’s back to the corner to think about things before being pushed to my knees in front of my darling to…Ahem, well, use your imaginations!

Patricia: I arrive home all the lights are out except one tiny one in the den. “Hon, are you home?” “Come here, brat” is the response I get. “I can’t believe you.” “What did I do?” My voice is raised about 4 octaves out of fear of the unknown.

“Go upstairs and get ready” Why, I ask, still not sure what I did. “Just do it” is your answer.

Running up the stairs, I try to think of what could I have done, but come up without a trace. Resigned that my butt is going to pay for an unknown infraction, I get ready. Getting ready includes all makeup off, hair in a pony tail or braid, and standing in the corner with panties down. As I wait, my stomach has that sinking feeling that something horrible has happened and I just don’t know what it is. My mind races about a mile a minute waiting for you to come up.

Finally, I hear you on the steps. I hear the door to our bedroom open. I know better than to turn around. I've learned that lesson the hard way. I just listen as you open first one and then two drawers. Finally, you call me. You see a mixture of fear and excitement in my eyes. I look at you and I can’t tell what you are thinking. I have given myself to you for over 25 years and right now I am not sure what is going on, but I do know I will not speak unless told I may. You own me. You control me. I do as you say because you said it. I don’t need any other reason.

You point to the bed. Looking at the pillows lined up on the bed I know what I must do. Unfortunately, I have been thru this drill many times and each time I swear it will be my last time. Tonight is no different. Arranging my body just so I feel your hands move my legs farther apart, pushing my head down, making my butt stick up more. This position allows a view of everything. There isn’t an opening that you can’t see.

“Little one do you know why you are here?”

“No Sir” I barely whisper.

“Don’t mumble. Do I have to make sure you never do that again?”

“No Sir.” I say loudly, “No Sir, I don’t know what I did.”

“Just think little one. I’m sure it will come to you. Just think.”

The next minute I feel the slap of the belt. Before I can get my breath, I feel it again and again. Some of them hard and some of them light as a feather. But each blow lets me now know that this spanking is for me. I feel your hands reach up to my bare pussy. Your hands part the lips, using first one and then then two fingers, rubbing and caressing the most sensitive part of me. You stop just before I can reach my climax.

I feel you move to the side of the bed. My head is spinning and before I can get a single thought together, I feel the unmistakable sting of the wooden paddle. You make sure that every inch of my bottom is covered while you play gently with my clit. Just as I am about to climax again, you tell me no. This continues for what seems like forever. Each time you change which implement you use. Sometimes, it's the belt. Other times, it's the paddle. Your fingers play my pussy like a finely tuned violin, sometimes hard and sometimes soft. I hear your zipper being lowered and feel your rock hard manhood knocking at my gates of pleasure. My lips open up to allow you to enter. You thrust yourself in with force. My pussy starts to convulse. I hear you whisper, “Cum for me. Cum for me little one.” As if by magic, we reach nirvana together. We fall asleep in each other's arms.

Rivka: My fantasy is a day, or two... or three *weg*, of being my husband's slave. I'd be required to obey him absolutely, to trust him with everything, and to do things I wouldn't normally do. Infractions are punished severely and immediately. Yet there are rewards as well... Spankings and major power exchange galore. Yep. That's it.

Rose: My greatest spanking fantasy involves a lenghty warm up...from hand, to flogger, to cat o' nine tails, to cane, and ending with being caressed by a single tail whip, by a dom who obviously knows what he's doing with a single tail (and who has the room). The thought of being caressed by a single tail: lovingly on my back and hard on my ass......mmmmmmmmm, Heaven!

Thanks to everyone who participated. This was fun. We covered a broad variety of different scenarios.

Please join us again next Sunday when we will explore a different aspect of "this thing we do." In the meantime, I wish everyone a warm, rosy Valentine’s Day!


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Valentine's Sunday Brunch


Yes, I'm back! I wouldn't think of missing our brunch...

Welcome, dear MBS readers! Please come in and join our weekly Sunday Morning Spanko Brunch. This is your opportunity to enlighten and entertain us with your wisdom and wit.

I have a particularly fun topic this week in honor of Valentine's Day.

Please describe your favorite spanking fantasy. This question is open-ended, so feel free to use your imagination and your powers of expression.

As in the past, I will summarize your responses and post them here. If you choose to share your thoughts on your own blog rather than leaving them in a comment, just give me a link and I will find your response.

I had a nice break, but it's wonderful to see you all again. I hope you enjoy a lovely Sunday!

Saturday, February 11, 2006

Catching Up


Wow. How can I get so far behind so quickly?

My mission was quite successful. Our daughter now has appropriate baby clothes, furnishings, equipment, and supplies. She also has a couple of nice maternity outfits to get her through the next few weeks. Those who guessed the baby is going to be a girl were correct, though I just found out this week. Everyone is in good spirits and (reasonably) ready for all that comes next.

Thanks again for your well wishes and encouragement. Those thoughts truly mean a lot to me.

I would also like to offer my gratitude to all of you wonderful MBS readers. Last week, I recorded my 200,000th hit. Needless to say, I'm delighted that you like what I post. You inspire me every day. Watch for Valentine's Day spanking accounts coming your way soon!

For those who sent me e-mail, I'm working my way through it. If I don't get back to you right away, please be assured that I will.

In the meantime, please be sure to check out the Spanko Sunday Brunch. I particularly like this week's question. I hope you will too.

Monday, February 06, 2006

Bloggus Interruptus


I'm going to take a break for a few days to spend time with our daughter. She is expecting our first grandchild in about seven weeks. She could use my help right now and that's precisely what I'm going to do. As a result, I will be out of touch for a bit.

Don't worry. I'll be back before you know it. Feel free to talk among yourselves. If things get really boring, my archive now contains 150 posts. Help yourself to anything you like.

Take care, everybody, and I'll see you soon...
Bonnie

Sunday, February 05, 2006

Baffling Search Terms

Every so often, it's instructive to examine the keywords people use to find this blog. In most cases, words appear like "spanking," "paddled," "discipline," or "bottom." Those just make sense.

Tonight, however, I found a somewhat different collection.



I have to wonder what some of these folks thought when they landed on this page.

Spanko Brunch Recap: Feb 5, 2006

Thanks to all of the participants for another excellent Spanko Sunday Brunch. These answers are, as always, tremendous.

The question was:

I consider the physical act of spanking to be just the tip of a much larger iceberg. Do you agree? If so, can you describe the rest of your iceberg? If this analogy doesn't apply to your relationship, why not?

Here are the highlights from your responses.

Marcus: I've never seen spankings as useful for discipline. I enjoy giving them only to a sexy woman (one who enjoys receiving them). My favorite part is the woman's responsiveness. How she acts during the spank makes me harder. One woman I spanked kept moving her tush into the paddle just as I swatted, but she also had her mouth full of cock at the time too. I gave a birthday spanking to a 34 year old last fall, and her immediate response was to nibble my ear and cuddle. All of this makes the spanking so much more erotic. And I want the eroticism.

Rose: Spanking is the tip of the iceburg. For me, it's either the erotic warm up to a really great fucking or an interlude between sucking my partner's cock and more fucking. Either way, spanking gets me so very wet and hot. Friday, Jefferson gave me such a great spanking my juices were literally running down my legs. As I said last week, it's also a way to purge pent up emotions. It brings me to a submissive, open place where I am totally blissful and hungry to please my partner, and to have him please me. The lovely cuddling and being safely brought back down feels so great. Spanking leads to great places, both submissive and erotic. I'm always ready for more!

Tigger: For me, spanking goes way beyond the physical aspect of just getting my bottom smacked because it's totally sexual. It turns me on like nothing else!

The other day was a great example. I called my hubby at work about something completely unrelated and happened to mention (in a very sexy voice, I might add) that working on the current spanking romance story I'm writing got me all hot and bothered! To which, he replied, "Bad girl. Go give yourself a spanking."

I laughed, said, "I love you," and hung up. Of course, the words had only gotten me more aroused and they were all I could think about as I went back to my writing!

When he got home, he asked me if I did what he told me. Silly me, I didn't know what he was referring to (honestly!). He gave me that sexy grin and said, "Spank yourself for getting so turned on earlier."

We were in the bedroom while having this conversation, so I was already half-naked in only my bra and panties. Being the good girl that I am, I obediently bent over the bed and proceeded to give myself a few light spanks on my panty-covered bottom.

My hubby watched for a moment, and then shook his head. "Uh-uh," he said. "I mean a real spanking."

He went around the bed to my night table (which is where we keep our spanking toys). I could only imagine which implement he was going to get! He came around with my new favorite toy, the bath brush from the Vermont Country Store! Okay, now I was even more turned on than I'd been that afternoon!

Without a word, he pulled down my panties, and then told me to reach back for the bath brush. Again, being the good girl that I am, I obeyed.

"Go ahead," he said, "Spank yourself."

I did so without hesitation, and I thought I did a pretty good job, too. Apparently, my hubby didn't think so, however, because after a moment, he took the bath brush from me, put a firm hand on my back to hold me in place, and spanked me himself!

That spanking scene had all the makings of what makes a spanking so special for us. There was sexy banter, a touch of domination, a little bit of submissiveness, a very well-spanked bottom, lots of love, and the kind of intimacy and closeness that only a spanking can provide!

Mike: For me, it depends. When being spanked, it is the spanking that is arousing. Add in the submission of baring myself, the position, asking for it, etc. But for me, all of those things together are maybe half of the equation. The spanking itself, when I’m receiving, is a major factor in what turns me on.

My wife, on the other hand, is very different. The more turned on she is already, the more she enjoys a spanking. She wants to be well on her way to bliss before the sting starts to really build. After getting her nice and aroused with my tongue, fingers, and whatever else, she gets pushed to higher heights when she hears, "turn over," or "lay over my lap", or "get me the hairbrush". Then it's a matter of keeping her in a state of high arousal, and adding in the pain. She doesn't just enjoy spanking, she likes the loss of control, being restrained, and varying amounts of pain particularly to her cheeks and nipples.

So, for me receiving, the spanking itself is big part of the iceberg. For my wife, it's a piece of it, and maybe not even the piece sticking up.

CeeCi: I so agree, spanking is only the tip of my iceberg. How could it not be?

After years of fantasizing, but not acknowledging this part of myself I have found someone to guide me on this part of my life's journey. The arousal I experience, the pleasure and the orgasms are delicious. Yet I know it goes much deeper.

Spanking has taught me to trust another being in a way I've never trusted before. Spanking has given me the courage to express what I want and what I need not only when I'm in the bedroom, but more importantly, when I'm not. This seemingly simple act has released something which has been held deep inside of me for a very long time. I have finally found my voice.

In my opinion, spanking and communication go hand in (um) hand. The very act of giving and receiving a spanking will not be consensual if one of the participants is not fully engaged in the process. Spanking brings me to right here and right now. It focuses me on the moment. It calms me, arouses me and centers me. Knowing there is someone in my life who loves me so much he wants to fulfill my needs brings me a peace I've never known before.

Linda: Spanking to me is the prelude to many forms of communication with my husband. The way in which it's used will dictate the emotional, mental and physical reactions and actions we may have or display.

The simple act of spanking is nothing without the other components that brought us to that point. Whether it be for sexual foreplay, discipline or punishment.

One thing I can say for sure is, spanking has allowed me to gain respect and devotion to both my husband as well as our relationship. We use spanking for so many different aspects of our relationship. In most cases, spanking is synonymous with sexual gratification. But spanking also provides us with a deeper sense of each other as well as our bridge to communicating the negatives and the positives within our relationship and each one as individuals. Spanking has taught me humility as well as allowed me to let go of my inhibitions that could inadvertently hurt our relationship.

Trust and love are both strong positive aspects of the "larger iceberg", my submission has grown with our relationship and his caring more sensitive side towards my feelings and weird convoluted ways of thinking has grown with my submission.

Most importantly, spanking is one way we are able to express our feelings and share the closest bond two people can have.

Bonnie: I wrote a tutorial article that offers a partial explanation.

For me, there is a whole spiritual dimension that I find difficult to accurately describe. It combines a feeling of connectedness, an emotional bonding, and a complete openness. The result is a sense of overwhelming fulfillment. This element is my iceberg. It couldn't exist without the act of spanking, but it transcends that physcial experience.

See you all next week!

The Spanko Sunday Brunch: Welcome Back


It's Sunday and we're all here so it must be time for brunch. Please come in and make yourself at home. We have good friends and delectable culinary delights. I encourage you to enjoy both. I brought a larger coffee urn so hopefully we won't run out (as we did last week).

Here is our question:

I consider the physical act of spanking to be just the tip of a much larger iceberg. Do you agree? If so, can you describe the rest of your iceberg? If this analogy doesn't apply to your relationship, why not?

The procedure is the same as in previous weeks. I invite you to respond in comments, through e-mail, or on your own blog. If you choose to post your response elsewhere, just let me know where to find it. At the conclusion of the festivities, I will post a summary of everyone's perspectives.

I look forward to hearing your thoughts.

Update: Blogger seems to be experiencing a very difficult weekend. The comments feature in particular appears to be ailing. I know some people posted comments to previous posts that are now not visible. If you find yourself unable to leave a comment, an e-mail message is equally fine. Sorry about all this.

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Saturday, February 04, 2006

A Progressive Spanking


I believe I’ve mentioned before that Randy and I are somewhat active in our local arts scene. Back before the holidays, we had the pleasure of being guests at a special fundraising event. It was expensive and exclusive. We were able to attend because a couple we know had a last minute change in plans.

The event was a themed progressive dinner. Each course of the meal was served at a different downtown arts venue. For example, the appetizers were in the concert hall, the main course was offered in the art museum, and so forth. Each venue featured a different motif and was presented by a different chef. We had a great time. The food was fabulous and we had the opportunity to talk with many interesting arts people.

Last night, my dear Prince Charming announced that he decided it would be fun to adapt this concept and give me a progressive spanking. “OK,” I replied. “This could have possibilities.” I played along. His version was not as well choreographed as the arts event, but it was certainly a memorable evening!

He began in the living room. This, he informed me, was the principal’s office. I was instructed to lift my skirt and place my hands on the coffee table. I complied. He produced a long wooden paddle and began tapping my derriere.

“You’ve been talking in class again, Miss Bonnie, chewing gum, passing notes, spreading unfounded rumors, and teasing the boys too. This behavior is completely unacceptable. As I'm sure you realize, I’m going to have to punish you now. You’ve been here several times before so I won’t bother explaining how the process works. Just remain in position and think about what you might do to avoid more paddlings in the future.”

“Yes, sir.” I was totally enjoying his stern principal role play.

With that, Randy brusquely yanked down my panties to expose his target. He stood silently for a moment, presumably to admire the scene he had set. Without another word, he swung the big paddle and unleashed the first swat. It exploded across my bottom with a fiery fury. Before I could fully assess the impact, let alone catch my breath, the paddle struck again in the very same spots. I recall thinking that it could be a short progressive spanking if he uses me up in the first venue. Three more monumental swats followed, just as intensely hard as the first pair. Still, I held my position. My bottom burned, tingled, and ached, all at once. When he told me that I was excused, I breathed a sigh of relief.

The next stop, I was informed, would be the chef’s kitchen. As it turned out, the chef had a kitchen that was remarkably similar to ours. I was informed that the executive chef wanted to speak with me immediately. Randy broke into a stilted French accent that sounded like a goofy cross between Pepe LePew and Inspector Clouseau. It certainly didn’t sound much like anyone from France. He carried on regardless.

“Mademoiselle Beau-nee! You haf inzulted ze gyreat zhef. You tell ze guest zat ze zoufflee iz no good. You tell zem to awder ze cheekun instead! Zis iz ze outraige!” I tried to be serious, but I just couldn’t. Before Chef Rawndee completed his mock tirade, I was giggling uncontrollably.

“Ze girl, she mocks me!” he exclaimed, choking back a laugh himself. “All right,” he finally said in his normal voice, “Just get over that counter.” Still laughing, I did.

He used most of the usual kitchen implements to reheat my bottom. Randy’s choices included a bread board (ow!), a plastic spatula, and of course, a large wooden spoon. He applied each skillfully to bring added warmth to my already smarting posterior.

Our next stop was the garage. This, I learned, was the woodshed. It didn’t take too much imagination to guess what would happen there. “Git that skirt up, young ‘un! Y’all’s gitting a bad whuppin!’” As he pulled his brown leather belt through the loops of his jeans, I valiantly fought back the urge to inquire which member of the Hee Haw cast he was attempting to imitate. He had me bend over his workbench. In truth, it was too tall to actually bend over, so I merely placed my elbows upon the top. I lifted my skirt as directed. Turning my head, I saw Randy double the belt in preparation for use as a spanking implement.

“Now, little lady. This here’s gonna hurt me a whole lot more’n it’s gonna hurt you. But y’all gonna be the one that cain’t set fer a whahle.”

I heard the belt whistle through the air a split second before it snapped against my crimson flesh. A loud crack accompanied a searing burn sensation. Subsequent impacts stoked and spread the fire. In an odd way, it was painful, but not unpleasant. In fact, as the leather fell again and again, I began to become increasingly aroused. Being on the receiving end of a well executed spanking virtually always turns me on. But this feeling had a bit more immediacy than most. I fancied Randy taking me right there in the garage. When there was a break in the action, I told him so. His response was that our journey still had a couple more stops. “Hrmmpf!” I mumbled.

Back into the house he led me again. We moved, of all places, into the master bathroom. Randy ordered me to strip naked. I did so without hesitation. When he started the water running in the tub, I thought we might jump in. Not so. This was to be an aquatic spanking.

Randy asked me to bend over and place my hands on the side of the tub. He retrieved a plastic bath brush from the closet and dipped it in the stream of water. Employing the flat back of that damp brush, he delivered yet another scalding spanking. Every few swats, he would wet the implement again. Each whack yielded a loud pop and an intense sting. At this stage, my husband’s strokes weren’t that hard. He was instead snapping his wrist to land sharp, crisp blows upon my well punished backside. Fortunately for me, this entertainment didn’t last too long. I suspect the sight and feel of my naked body might have distracted him (at least I want to hope so).

He carefully dried me with a towel and then we exited into our bedroom. He sat on the side of the bed and beckoned me to approach. The final stage, he explained, would be a lover’s spanking. When I took my familiar place across his lap, my seat was already throbbing. I certainly didn’t need anything more. But there I was. Randy spanked me using his hand. This felt wonderful, especially when that hand wandered. I enjoyed my first shuddering orgasm as his fingers danced between my thighs.

Soon after, Randy grew tired of spanking and decided that he too could benefit from some attention. I happily took his member in my mouth and explored the boundaries of his sensual pleasure. As I tended to his carnal desires, I thought about how fortunate I am to have a husband willing to indulge my kink. For this, I am most grateful.

Before he reached completion, Randy stopped me and had me kneel at the edge of the bed. There he entered and filled me completely. I adore that sensation. Amid his piston-like motions, he began to again swat my bottom. I panted with lust. He kept his pace. Before long, each of us reached a teeth clinching, fist squeezing, toe clenching, eye squinting crescendo. It was beautiful.

After it was all over, we lay on the bed side by side. A gentle haze of contentment surrounded us. We were aware that we had an entire house full of spanking implements to clean up, but at that moment, it simply didn’t matter. We embraced before climbing beneath the warm comfort of the covers.

I’m sore today, but not nearly as much as I would have thought. At this point, around lunchtime, it’s little more than a happy reminder of a wonderful evening. I have to rate Randy’s progressive spanking experiment as another great success. Laughing and loving are two elements that make our lives worthwhile. So far, 2006 has been a fine year for both!

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