Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch for Feb 10

Our topic this week was steps a spankee can take to make Valentine's Day more memorable. Here are your thoughts.

Mr. BB: A lot of experienced couples have a goody bag full of different, interesting, and varied spanking scenarios tucked away in their minds. Hopefully, there are romantic ones ready for this time of year too! Variety is the spice of life!

S.N.M.: There's something to be said for rubbing oil on your bottom and wearing a thong with a miniskirt over it, and then meeting him that morning with an inviting smile.

Sara: My husband has planned a really nice surprise Valentine's Day for us. It began with a text:

"You can't work on 4/15. FYI." He NEVER tells me what I must do at work, so it was a surprise, and the Dommy tone never fails to intrigue and delight!

He's booked a hotel, so I am pretty sure there will be implements brought out somewhere along the way! But the surprise and anticipation makes it all much more fun!

Joeyred: This is what I did last year. I made chicken marsala over risotto. I placed a Cab on the table that was lit with candles. When dinner was finished, we headed to the bedroom for spanking and something extra. I had on only a gold chain around my neck.

Hermione: We always exchange small gifts on Valentine's Day, and this year I'm giving Ron two lovely paddles to add to our collection. I'm also going to apply heart-shaped temporary tattoos to a strategic location and see what happens.

~Subbie: I think I'm going to leave Valentine's day to Husband, but then plan something exciting for steak and BJ day! ;)

Make Mine Red: I bought a new implement. It's a rubber spatula that is red with a pink heart on it. I put it in his nightstand drawer and I am waiting for him to find it. :)

Hannah Fields: It sounds so cliche', but Brent is going to get a blowjob... It's what he likes. ;)

SublimeWifey: I'm hoping my new ruby red jeweled butt plug will be a welcome surprise when he pulls down my panties for my Valentine's Day spanking!

Anon: I would (1) shower with a scented body scrub combined with a skin softener applied to his favorite place, and finish with lotion, (2) don a very soft red and black leopard print nightie trimmed with black lace that he's never seen before, and (3) put on my prettiest smile!

Dr. Ken: Well, for one thing, she could e-mail me... :-)

Ronnie: I going to start the day by giving P a BJ before he leaves for work. I've also bought him a new implement. I think P will cook us a special meal and open a bottle of wine and I'm sure the new implement will be put to use.

Six of the Best: Especially on Valentine's Day, the spankee should ask for two or more spankings.

Houston Switch: In our house, the usual roles are reversed. So maybe she will give the spankings while I give her flowers and sweets.

Bonnie: Hannah's suggestion is always a winner. Beyond that, I like to wear outfits that he likes. Lacy lingerie works fine, but he might be even happier if I wear something like a short, pleated skirt over snug leggings.

Scented candles, soft lighting, and appropriate music set the mood. But I don't interfere with the spanking itself. That's his domain.

Thank you all and have a wonderful V-Day!

Catching Up

Wow. I take a day away from the blog and it feels as though I've been gone for months. I know I owe several of you e-mail responses and I will get caught up soon.

I envy bloggers who can effortlessly write a post that wanders all over the pasture, but still seems cohesive and coherent. I tend not to do that, but today will have to be an exception because I have a lot to say.

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Randy and I had a lovely V-Day celebration. There were roses. There was chocolate. There was fine dining. There were spankings too. My oh my, there were spankings.

Randy decided it would be "fun" to spank me up before we left for the restaurant. The warm-up, as he called it, involved the repeated application of a small wooden paddle. If this was the warm-up, I thought while lying perpendicular across his lap, the main event was sure to be something fierce.

I was plenty tender as I enjoyed a delicious seafood paella. It seemed as though Randy smiled every time I squirmed in my seat. Still, the gleam in his eye spoke volumes about his love and devotion.

True to his word, Randy stripped me down as soon as we returned home and positioned me on the bed in preparation for another round. As I crouched on the bedspread, I could still feel the after-effects of his previous efforts. Never one to be deterred by such concerns, my lover started right in. The crop made a swishing sound immediately before each stinging impact upon my upturned flesh. It hurt, but not as much as the paddle had.

After a few minutes and a few dozen sharp blows, Randy determined the time had come for other corporeal amusements. He took full advantage of my exposed position and undeniable state of arousal. Our lovemaking was fast and exciting. With a hand firmly gripping each of my hips, my dear husband made the hurt all better. Our mutual desire poured out in the form of pants, groans, and screams of exhilaration.

This was a fine Valentine’s celebration. Have I mentioned that I love spankings?

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In other news, I’ve received several excellent submissions for the third season of our Implement Stories series. If you’d like to tell MBS readers about your favorite (or perhaps least favorite) spanking implements, it’s definitely not too late.

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During our last Ask Bonnie segment, a reader asked if anyone had plans for building a spanking bench. I didn’t, but I knew you folks would. Here are two suggestions care of the EhBC Canadian BDSM group:

Bondage Bench
Spanking Horse

Thanks to Hermione for finding these!

I hope you’re enjoying a great weekend with all the spanking fun you desire!

Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch for Feb 11

This week, our brunch topic was Valentine's Day spanking wishes.

Elis: Valentine’s Day – a spanko’s dream! I love candles in the bedroom. Candles make an evening seem so special. But when I think of the perfect evening the first thing that comes to mind is s-l-o-w! I want the evening to last. I want a long, slow warm-up. I want to start with my clothes on and to have them taken off one piece at a time. I want to start off with something light, just a bit stingy until I am warmed thoroughly. Then I want the heavier toy to come out for intense play. After a spanking like that the sex is always sooo wonderful! I am in the mood to do anything and enjoy every minute of it!

OPB: Oh yes. That's the style. I like candles, a nice meal - not too heavy - a warm bath together, and the room warm enough so that we don't need to get under the covers. Then get dressed again in something alluring, only so that we can have the fun of slow, slow removal. A freshly bathed bot is always softer, warmer, and more tempting. Next is a spot of gentle mutual spanking, followed by more firm attention to make the aforementioned bot assume a rosy glow, and not just because of the bath. And then, well, you know the rest.

Jean Marie: The two previous postings are marvelous. I'd add some novelty. I've had every type of implement utilized across my deserving derriere for a dose of discipline, including many improvised ones. For Valentine's Day, after that bubble-bath for two and a long warm-up hand spanking, I'd love for my lover to take several of the long stem roses from the vase of the dozen he'd bestowed upon me earlier in the evening. Florists remove the thorns these days. The stem is more whippy than a crop or cane; several of them used simultaneously would intensify the sting, kind of like a cat-tailed flogger. I want my lover to whip me with roses until the pink/peach-colored blossoms burst after repeated impact, and shower my pinkened peach of a posterior with fragrant petals. When I'm well-whipped, he can roll me over and grind the petals into the satin sheets with my ass as he takes me...

Galros: I don't have anyone this year for Valentine's, but here’s what I'd like... A long bath, surrounded by candles, relaxing for both of us, nice bottle of wine, a slow languorous drying off, with particular attention being paid to certain bits, a long, slow warm up in front of the fire, with touching and rubbing in between spanking, moving onto heavier and harder implements, but always coming back to his hands, teasing and fondling, constantly bringing me close to the edge and then back again, full service to him, keeping him happy, on my knees to please him, exposed everywhere to him, for him to do as he wishes... Finishing off wrapped in his arms, my bum firmly squished up against him so I can sleep with the tingle and pain and ache all night. It might happen!

Paul: Mel would ask me to go out for the afternoon and be back for 6 PM. I bought roses, chocolates and sexy lingerie. Next came a candle lit dinner, with Mel wearing only the new lingerie. When the meal was over, we would wonder upstairs. Nothing was hurried. We had all the time we needed. Mel received all she needed as did I, warm, loved and content.

MaggieDear: Oh this one's easy! He would finally acknowledge spankings, the proper way! After a nice light dinner, a slow shower, soft, light jazz in the background, spankings, long, slow, intensifying and building to total ecstasy, the way he's built to do! My end of the plans are made! :)

Mary: I think a long luxurious good girl spanking sounds like the perfect treat for Valentine’s Day. Tigger: Mmm... Dinner at one of our favorite restaurants, followed by a long, sensual spanking, and lovemaking!

Bonnie: Randy and I really get into our Valentine’s celebrations. These events generally involve some romancing, such as dinner, a live performance, or a movie. Spanking on this evening is pure foreplay. The goal is a nice, warm, stinging bottom and a roaring lust. A small leather paddle would be ideal for this purpose. He takes his time so as to ensure we will not miss any of these amazing sensations.

The lovemaking that surely ensues is slow and passionate. It would be followed by a prolonged embrace that fades gently into satisfied slumber.

To spice things up, we could add a little light bondage to the mix. That’s always fun. Another option would be a new setting. I love it when he sweeps me away to a surprise destination (although since V-day is in the middle of the week, that’s less likely this year).

The whole idea of Valentine’s Day is the celebration of romantic love, partnership, and Eros. There are many, many ways to celebrate, but all of them focus upon shared mutual enjoyment. May this occasion bring you and your partner closer and renew your love.

Grizzly Bear: Some bondage is always welcome. However, we decided that this Valentine’s Day is a perfect opportunity to try out a new electro-spanking implement. My girl is going to bend over as I zap her ass with an electric paddle.

Thank you all for sharing your wonderfully romantic visions.

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