Showing posts with label homemade implements. Show all posts
Showing posts with label homemade implements. Show all posts

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch for July 15

Our topic this week was homemade spanking implements. I am thrilled by the great turnout and especially seeing several first time brunchers. Welcome to you all. Here's what you had to say.

morningstar: Two come immediately to mind... One was a rope flogger I made. I remember being a little frightened of the finished product until Sir used it on me, and truthfully, I found it very disappointing. It was more a sensual implement and didn't come close to meeting my "masochist" needs. Being a bright sort, I decided to add a knot to the end of each fall.

It was still too sensual, so I added two knots to each fall. It was still too sensual. I then added one more knot (for a grand total of three knots per fall). Much like the Goldilocks story, I discovered it was wayyyyyyyyy too hard.

That nearly ended my toy making career.

However, a few years later we went shopping for a nice wooden paddle ("Board of Education") and the prices for wooden paddles were outrageous. So I went to the local commercial cooking store and bought a HUGE ladle. It was approximately two feet in length and used to stir massive huge pots of food. I sanded it down and put a couple of coats of stain on it, and for the total cost of ten dollars had myself a really neat paddle.

But again, like Goldilocks, the damned thing was too hard because of its size and weight. It packs quite a wallop!

Truth be told, now - some 5-10 years later - the rope flogger is back to being more sensual than painful. But the wooden paddle... Well yeah. It is still too hard, but is great for mild wallops. It gets my attention you can say.

Joeyred: The hand is our favorite implement, the one we use all the time. So, no, we do not construct implements for our use.

L.: Yes, we made two tawses by slitting old belts longitudinally (one into two fingers, the other into three) to see if we liked the effect before buying a professionally-made one. And they were okay, but we did later buy a two-finger tawse from Leather Thorn, which was heftier and more satisfying.

We also made a multi-strand flogger from a large, flat piece of thin suede. We roll it into a cylindrical shape when we use it. This one is lightweight and good for erotic play.

Hermione: I once made a leather strap out of a doubled-over leather belt from a thrift shop. It was a fun project. Ron used it from time to time, but didn't like it because it was too floppy and he couldn't control it well. We discarded it in favour of commercial leather paddles and straps that are thicker and stiffer.

Renee Rose: Not yet, but it's on my to-do list to make one of Conina's floggers!

Ana: No, we are boring and stick to the same small number of implements that we already have. :)

Ronnie: We've only ever made one which was a leather strap that P made from a belt. He cut off the buckle, doubled over the leather and glued both sides. It works very well.

Bas: No, our only implements just grew on my body.

Fondlers Anonymous: BIKSS made me a flogger. It's the first flogger either of us has ever owned. :)

Conina: I have made about a dozen floggers of different weights and sizes and types of rope. They range from incredibly sensual to OMG what WAS I thinking? I love them, and my husband uses most of them quite frequently.

Bella: I made a rope flogger that is just delicious! He likes me to use it on him too - on his back. It's not used as much for spanking as we though it would. It's more of an erotic toy.

We also have an old belt cut into a tawse. We haven't used this yet, but I think it will be stingier than the belt!

Then of course, we use common every day items as implements: wooden spoon, bread board, slotted spatula...

Julia: We have made a loopy johnny out of window screen rope and duck tape. I haven't reviewed it on my blog yet because we have only tried it out twice in the closet. But I can say it is very stingy and very silent.

Spanky: We have not made any spanking implements. I did once make a spreader bar that works pretty well though. A flogger sounds like a nice project, but I have too many thumbs to pull it off I think.

Christi: Nope, not yet at least. My husband has a well-worn belt I am eying to turn into a strap though. :)

Prefectdt: Yes I've made loads of stuff. Some of it is documented in the blog under the Toys Are Born tag. These include my only major kinky DIY failure of attempting to build a spanking machine. I think that the favourite of my homemades is my Wet Chamois Flogger because you just cannot buy one of these, no matter how much money you have to spend. It feels good too, but does tend to spread a lot of water about the place.

Abby: Master has made a couple of paddles. They tend to be large and heavy. He has also made a yoke-type restraining device, made of wood. It is very bulky.

Bryan: I've made a few paddles from 1x4s, but my best are the homemade straps. I have a 1" wide double thick made from a belt that is murder.

Anon: As a long time lurker , thank you very much on your insightful posts.
All of our spanking paddles, tawse, floggers, etc. are handmade with loving care and attention to detail. They are much better, cheaper and more effective than anything from a store. And there is the satisfaction of seeing a red bottom caused entirely from your own efforts.

Thank you, Anon, for joining us for brunch.

Faerie: I made a suede flogger that I absolutely love. Musicman just made a wooden paddle for me yesterday that I am currently deciding how to finish. We also haven't decided yet whether or not to add holes. Any recommendations?

Like Anon above, I find it very satisfying knowing my flogger was handmade by me just for Musicman's use.

I prefer to skip the holes. If you do drill holes, I encourage you to bevel them so they won't be as likely to cause cuts or blisters when applied to a bare bottom.

Saoirse: We haven't made implements for spanking. He prides himself on creative use of native household objects. I'm in love with the belt. Do the eye bolts in the ceiling beams count?

Perhaps not, Saoirse, but we have one of those right above our bed. I never have concocted a plausible vanilla explanation.

Mrs. Soft Bottom: I have made two floggers out of para-cord. One is frayed with about 60 falls. It's very, very soft and sensual. The other is again made from para-cord and has 10 falls, each with a monkey's fist knot at the end.

Red: I have zero talent in these type skills.

Sadey Quinn: I made a flogger out of clothesline once.

*shudders*

Wicked.

Buttwed: I've made several paddles from wood. One is a traditional 18" long model with holes made from 5/8" plywood [very effective]. Another is 15" and made from 1x2 board with 1/8" holes. It has a small sweet spot on the end that will heat your seat. I also have a 12" bun warmer with a 3x3 square with a 1" hole in the center. It lives up to its name.

Another is in the shape of a ping pong paddle, but 1" thick with 4 1/2" holes. This paddle has its own unique feel. It spreads the blush and sting quickly on the cheeks.

I took a new belt, cut off the buckle and halved it. I then glued those halves together and have a great strap. All of these implements have padded handles and wrist lanyards. I really enjoyed making them, but having them put to use on my own bottom is the real thrill.

Hobbes: We have one implement made with minimal effort and with no cost. Years ago, an auto mechanic left a length of rubber hose behind on the floor of my wife's car when it was in for new brakes. It's very soft and supple, black, about three-eighths inch diameter, and twenty inches long. It is perfect. I just added a six-inch piece of quarter-inch dowel on one end for a handle. It delivers a very nice sting. It's also extremely quiet, leaves nice purple parallel traces, and can be used for many, many licks. This was especially good for when the kids were little and still at home and we wanted to be quiet but still play hard.

The legend of the parochial school I attended had the principal keeping one in his desk and using it occasionally, though I never got to verify that. For those who are looking for maximum sting, minimum skin damage, and a quiet, but effective implement, I highly recommend a trip to your local auto parts store for two feet of brake hose.

Ticcers Aloud: We haven't quite gotten there yet, but my old wooden chopping board finally fell to pieces a few months ago. He said keep it and he would make a paddle out of it.

Enzo and Charlotte:We love making our own instruments of BDSM. In the southern hemisphere winter, the cold does not prevent us from having a little creativity. In the Spanish language, we call it BRICO-SADO. That I suppose, would be something like DIY of BDSM.

Recently, there was a special whip, with a bamboo cane and a rubber band tied to the end. We use it like a common whip, whipping with intensity for a long time. The result can be seen in these pictures. The red marks on Charlotte's body last only a couple of hours.

Kurt: Yes, I have made a number of paddles through the years (36) using different woods and thicknesses (including wooden fan blades. LOL). I often cover one side with leather for a softer effect, but it's hard to beat the old, oft used ping pong paddle. The most deadly is still the Vermont Store brush! My wife's usual preference is a light cedar paddle.

Ah, the dreaded Vermont County Store bathbrush. Deadly is right. We actually have two in case something ever happens to the one in the drawer. I guess I'm not the only person who has ever looked up at spinning ceiling fan blades and wondered how they would work as paddles. Thanks for sharing your experiences, Kurt.

Loki Darksong: Let's see. I have made floggers out of clothesline, suade, and even denim. I also made a cool paddle by gluing three paddleball paddles together.

I did this way back when purchasing implements was expensive. I am impressed by them and I still have them in my possession.

Bonnie: Randy is inclined to try to use or adapt almost anything for a spanking implement. Some experiments are more successful than others. He's made quite a few wooden paddles over the years. So many, in fact, that we refer to his stash as “the lumberyard.” They hurt when applied, or at least most of them do. He's learned how to construct paddles that don't split or break, even when swung forcefully. My bottom remains intact as well, but not for lack of effort on his part.

Thank you for participating in our community brunch. I hope to see you all next weekend!

Sunday, April 29, 2007

Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch for Apr 29


Our final brunch in April examined homemade spanking implements. Here are your thoughts and experiences:

Mike: Yes, we have a few homemade implements. I'm a novice woodworker (bookcases, toy boxes, a bench, etc) and pretty handy around the house. So while working on some projects, my mind naturally wandered to the spanking realm.

My favorite is a small, hairbrush shaped paddle with a longer than normal handle. It’s basically a medium-sized hairbrush that looks as though the handle was stretched. The interesting part is that one side is flat, while the other side is rounded like the back of a spoon. I came up with it after we played with a spoon, and I really liked the results.

I also created a couple of paddles. One is a long ruler paddle made of white oak. It's got some weight, so it delivers a good thump.

PK: Nick actually started making spanking toys very soon after I came out to him. He made a beautiful paddle, complete with varnish. It's pretty big and a little scary, but I love it because he made it. He also braided some leather shoe laces and attached then to a dowel rod for a version of a flogger. It’s very stingy, but quiet. He also made a larger one with some strips of leather he had. He made me a crop early on. He used the frame of a metal flyswatter wrapped in leather and a leather flap at the end. He hasn't made anything lately, but I hope he will. Homemade spanking toys are truly the gift that keeps on giving!

Anon VII: I made us a broadsword that rivals Bonnie's MOAP. It's over half an inch thick, more than 24" long, and made of oak. It is over 4" wide at its business end and tapers to a little over 2" just above the grip, which I reinforced with metal straps to keep it from breaking. In the edge of the business end, I drilled two holes each about 2" deep and dropped long fishing weights into each hole, then capped the holes with dowel plugs epoxied into place.

The distribution of the paddle's mass (towards the outer end) produces tremendous momentum. The fishing weights float loosely in their holes. The forward swing drives them toward the back (non-swatting) surface of the paddle, but then on impact the weights snap forward, working with the momentum generated by the massive business end to give a tremendous wallop from only modest effort. The speed of the blow, with the width of the blade, produces a huge explosion on impact.

We use this one only occasionally for tension relief, and only through her jeans, Capri pants, or shorts. A mere one swat produces a vicious burn. Only two or three swats can draw tears, leave her tension thoroughly relieved, and leave her sporting two bright red cheeks with white impact points in their centres. Three swats, even when administered with a measure of restraint, have on occasion glued her panties to the skin. This one is no toy!

Anon #1: I've made a number of paddles. My favorite one was heart shaped. It had my wife's name engraved and would leave letters mark in the skin. I have also made a number with drilled holes that really hurt. I am always trying different woods and made a heavy one out of IPE from the Amazon that gets your attention.

Southern Angel: JD and I own so many toys, but none are home-made. But now I am motivated to make a toy. :) I'm not a woodworker so we will have to see what I think up.

Tigger: Yes, we do! My hubby made a heart-shaped paddle out of wood for me, and I love it! And yes, it's very effective!

Xandra: I didn't want to spend $150 for a suede flogger I saw online. I thought I could make one a lot cheaper and made 2 floggers years ago. One is 15 inches long one with a 4 1/2 inch braided handle and 10 inch strands. The other is 22 inches long with a 5 inch wrapped leather handle and 16 1/2 inch strands.

I used 1/8 inch thick suede so one side is soft leather. I folded the strands in half and braided them forming the handle and finished it with a strand of suede wrapped for an inch. They can be used gently all over the body producing a very relaxing and erotic sensation. Yummy! Or you could use then hard - we don't - like a whip.

Hugh used the long one on me last night (as part of a warm-up massage before spanking and sex) and this morning after S&S as a soothing treat.

Greenwoman: Yes! Years ago, I made a flogger out of a deer hoof (handle), leather shoe laces (falls, copper wire (holds laces to the hoof) and moose hide (covers the copper wire and finishes the end of the hoof). It's rather lovely. I've put up a picture of it on Honestly Speaking today. It's really enjoyable to read what others have made. Great question!

Anon #2: Given a jig saw and some half-inch plywood, I can make all sorts of fun paddles. If you cut the blade into a six inch circle with a two inch hole in the middle and then aim for the centre of each cheek, you end up with a glowing ring on each side. If you cut the blade into a large X, you get just that on her bottom. If you draw round your own hand, and then cut it out, you get a wooden spanking hand that is most effective and saves the wear on the real thing. There are plenty more possibilities!

Funny Brat Girl: Being an avid spankee in the scene for the last 5+ years, I've had many play partners who had homemade spanking implements. But then one day, one of my play partners was saying how he could never find a quality wood paddle. So, being ever so helpful and knowing that my dad loves working with wood, I asked him to craft one for me. Yeah, I kinda had to give a full blown explanation and all, but in the *end* he crafted a very nice paddle out of oak. The next thing I knew he was making ALL kinds of paddles. LOL! He made all different sizes, and colors from blonde to deep dark cherry. YIKES! I think I created a monster of a paddlemaker! LOL!!

At any rate, we started Whack Me Paddles, and so far, we've done pretty well.

Betina: We have a few homemade implements, and funny enough, I'm the crafty one, so I made them.

We have one thin (about 6 mm or 1/4" thick) oval paddle and the same model at 12 mm (about 1/2") thick. They are made from hardwood plywood that is cut out and then varnished to a smooth finish. We do not use them that often but they can be quite effective or erotic depending on use.

The latest implement I made was a leather strap. I found an old wide leather belt in a recycle store (about 2 inches wide). I cut it to a length where it's about 16 inches (doubled) and then made a thinner piece that was doubled from the handle end with a D-ring for hanging. The handle end was glued and fastened with two chicago screws. All edges were rounded and smoothed. It looks much like the Corporal Punishment Ruler Paddle from the London Tanners, except it's a doubled strap. The length is good for OTK as well as other positions.

It's a very special feeling to make a spanking implement that you know is sooner or later going to warm your bottom. With all the implements I had to work up the guts to give them to my husband. But I'm glad I did.

Edward: When Lisa first asked me about spanking, I made a paddle for her out of pine. It's 12" x 3" x 1/2 inch thick. Depending upon how much force is used, it can be intense fun or I can get her to cry within a few swats. Since then, we have bought all of the other toys we have.

Texas Spanko Girl: We don't have any homemade implements, but D has talked about making some. As we both live in apartments right now, he doesn't have a place to do any woodworking. I suspect that when we eventually move into a house together he'll make some nice things!

Carye: We don't have any homemade implements. However, some household items have been used because they were handy. I would love it if Papa Shrek made some spanking toys! That would be really, really cool!

Bonnie: We have several wooden paddles that were crafted by Randy. He enjoys selecting different woods, shapes, and dimensions and then gauging the effectiveness by paddling me. I refer to this part of his implement collection as “the lumberyard.”

As much as he enjoys his woodworking experiments, Randy is fonder still of finding new uses for previously vanilla objects. Many are ineffective, but every once in a while, he finds something surprisingly ouchie. Last week, it was the lid to a storage container. Who knew?

Jigsaw Analogy: Well, I'm crafty, but not so much with wood.

Back in the day, I learned how to make various floggers as part of a fund raiser for the Lesbian Avengers. My personal favorite was the plaid flannel one, although the lace one actually had a nice sting to it.

I've also made the evil loopy toy (stereo cord, split into separate strands, bound with duct tape). I keep meaning to play around with making a duct tape tawse, as well.

I think there are other things I've made, but those are the ones that pop into my head.

Teresa: Yes, we use the rod that opens and shuts the mini-blinds. It is a painful and effective tool that I have experienced. It is only used for punishments and it stings like crazy. It leaves welts, stripes and knots. I think it is more painful than a switch. I guess it is like a lexon cane.

Thank you all for participating! I hope to see you here again next week for another enjoyable spanko discussion.

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