Friday, July 13, 2018

Incredibly Personal Q&A Part V

Some of you may remember one of my correspondents named Tom who loves to ask me lots of very personal questions. In the past, I turned these queries and my responses into four popular posts. You can read them here, here, here, and here.

So here comes good old inquisitive Tom once again. My purpose in sharing this information is to provide our fellow spankos with a benchmark. The way Randy and I do things is certainly not the only way or necessarily the best way, but it's worked for us. I hope these answers will provide useful new ideas, confirmation, or topics for conversation. In many cases, I edited questions and answers for brevity.

So with further ado, let's get personal!




Q81. Do you like knowing that you are scheduled to be spanked every week.

A81. Yes, I do. I think about it a lot in advance and the anticipation is fun. There is also something reassuring about knowing that, barring some catastrophe, we will have our intimate time.

Q82. What color bra are you wearing. How many rows of hooks are there in the back?

A82. It's peach colored and two.

Q83. Do you ever put on your bra backwards, hook it, twist it around and then put your arms through the straps?

A83. Yes.

Q84. Do you ever do the trick where you remove your bra without taking off your top first?

A84. I guess we're talking about bras this time instead of panties. Yes.

Q85. What do you think about transgender people?

A85. I think about them as people first and transgender second. Everyone should have the right to define themselves.

Q86. Do you consider yourself a "girly girl?"

A86. I'm not sure I understand what that means in today's world. I'm female and I wear dresses, so maybe I qualify.

Q87. You've described yourself as a small woman with a big bottom. How do you think your life would be different if you had a small bottom instead?

A87. My first thought was that it shouldn't make any difference. However, Randy freely admits that the first time he saw me, it was from behind and he knew then he had to meet me. So who knows? Even now, I catch guys in public places checking me out. I doubt they are admiring my hairstyle. Sometimes I feel self-conscious, but mostly I ignore them.

Q88. Do you think that women with cellulite on their bottoms experience greater pain when spanked because of the additional surface area?

A88. I have no idea.

Q89. What is your spanking bench made of?

A89. The bench is wood held together by metal bolts. The top has a padded vinyl cover. The four restraint cuffs are a synthetic material with velcro closures.

Q90. If asked, would you present at a spanking conference?

A90. Probably not. We can't be that out.

Q91. Do you ever purposely wear clothes that show off your bottom?

A91. We have a running joke where I ask, "Do these jeans make my butt look big?" and his response is always a delighted yes. If I wore a burlap sack, I'd still have a conspicuous protrusion in back. Knowing this, I wear what feels comfortable and looks good to me.

Q92. What does it feel like to get a spanking wearing just a thong?

A72. The same as a spanking with no panties.

Q93. Do you think you would enjoy life as a spanking model?

A93. I can't say because I've never done it. This would be a better question for someone who has.

Q94. Do you hate cornertime?

A94. Yes and no. The last thing I want to do immediately after a spanking is stand with my nose in a corner while Randy snaps embarrassing pictures of my throbbing bottom. However, there's a submissive element to it that turns me on and gets me primed for what happens next.

Q95. Will you do anything Randy tells you?

A95. No. I always have a choice.

Q96. You've talked about having a punishment fetish. Can you talk about that?

A96. I love love love traditional corporal punishment scenarios and discipline rituals. For whatever reason, this presses my buttons like nothing else. When Randy uses that authority figure voice and commands me to lift my skirt and get over his lap, my heart does flip flops. When I am fully in that headspace, I am ready to accept almost anything.

I have no interest in real discipline because I never want to do things that are wrong or hurt someone's feelings or disappoint anyone. But that feeling that comes from a punishment is one I relish.

Q97. Do you ever get spankings in the morning?

A97. Sure, it happens. Typically, it's on the relatively rare weekend day when we both have a chance to sleep in. It starts with touching and kissing and massaging and rubbing. Eventually, I end up over his lap as the grateful recipient of a sleepy, amorous hand spanking. Lovemaking ensues thereafter.

Q98. How many spanking implements do you own now?

A98. That depends upon what you consider an implement. There are probably a couple dozen designated spanking implements like paddles, canes, crops, straps, and so forth. Add to that a lesser number of pervertibles such as hairbrushes, wooden spoons, cutting boards, and belts. There are enough of both types that Randy doesn't have to search when he decides to beat my bottom.

Q99. Can you have an orgasm without getting a spanking?

A99. Yes, but it's not as fun.

Q100. You say that spankings make you happy. Do more spankings make you happier?

A100. I think so, at least within any practical bounds. We have other real life commitments that limit our time together. Our energy is finite. But we make the best of our opportunities.



That's all, at least for now. I hope you enjoyed learning more about me than you ever thought you wanted to know.

7 comments :

abby said...

I loved reading these....your answers were great! Thanks, abby

Roz said...

Hi Bonnie, I really enjoyed reading this, great answers! Thank you for sharing :)

Hugs
Roz

Eric51 Amy49 said...

Hey Bonnie,

I've been singing the blues lately. I think more spankings do make me happier and since the surgery it's been a dry spell. Loved your answers.

Amy

Hermione said...

Hi Bonnie,

This post was a very interesting read, and I enjoyed your answers. But I still think Tom's last name is Parker, and He is overstepping the bounds. However, I suspect you would not answer a question you truly felt uncomfortable with.

Hugs,
Hermione

NoraJean said...

Hi Bonnie ... great answers! ... I'll have to go back and read the ones that came before ... nj

Bonnie said...

Abby - I'm glad you enjoyed this post.

Roz - You are very welcome!

Amy - Sorry to hear that your dry spell continues. May renewed health and the spanko fairy visit you very soon.

Hermione - I see your point. My thought is that if he is curious, there are probably other readers who are equally so, but are too shy or too polite to inquire. I'm willing to share, up to a point. As with past installments, there are questions that I will not answer. Rejected topics include details of my work, our vacations, groups with which I am involved, and feminine hygiene.

NJ - Thank you!

Terpsichore said...

great answers...spankings certainly do make me feel happy and more balanced... Hugs

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