Sunday, January 11, 2009

Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch for Jan 11


Our topic this week was desired spankings we’ve not yet experienced. Here are your thoughts.

Doc: I've been spanked in a lot of ways, but never, ever, in the over-the-knee fashion! Can you believe it?

I've been spanked in almost every other fashion. I would love to receive an over-the-knee spanking. After all, it's part of the spanker/spankee's canon.

Anna: Mine would be a stress-relieving, cathartic spanking. I seem to crave it more and more as I take on more responsibility at work. I would love to come home to a long, purifying spanking and then just be held for a long time afterward, maybe until I fall asleep. That would be perfect.

Andrades Girl: It is so early in our spanking life together that I really am not sure what that might be, but I can come up with a perfect spanking for now.

It is OTK (without being dizzy or uncomfortable or rolling off his lap) and he uses the belt. Each slap of the belt is perfectly placed with just the right amount of zing. So far, the belt is still my favorite spanking toy. And he is getting better and better with it each time we practice.

Maryann: I would like my man to initiate a spanking and take his time delivering it. It would be delivered OTK, by hand, with a nice slow warm up and lots of play along the way. I want him to like it as much as I do.

PM Duo: I really want a discipline spanking. I'm not sure how well I'd like it, but I really crave the idea. I want it to be for something I've actually done that he's told me not to do rather than a pretend “you've been a naughty girl” thing. I'd like it to be over the edge of the bed or the arm of a couch. He would definitely start with his belt, but then switch to something harder. I want him completely, no doubt in control, and making me obey him. I've only cried once during a spanking, but I want this to end with tears and NO sex. Discipline only. I kind of doubt I'll ever get it, but I'll keep wanting!

Jean Marie: I fantasize about getting a public spanking. They say that lots of people think about sex in public. I've had that at the beach. I want a full-on, bare bottomed spanking in public. I'd love to travel to some different city, where I feel totally anonymous, and have my lover take me out to eat in a swanky restaurant. He tells me over dessert to lie across the white tablecloth and pull my skirt up, and then demands that I pull my panties down off my ass. Then I have to ask to be spanked. He complies – hard! The management and other patrons are shocked. The police are called. My lover throws money on the table and whisks me away, back to our hotel. I'd thank him by doing any nasty act he desired.

Daisy: I have often thought it would be sexy if I and a/some girlfriend(s) did something that REALLY made Davey cross, so cross that he spanked us; with me being last. I would have to watch and hear the sounds of the spanking, see how red her/their ass(es)were getting, knowing it would be my turn next!

I think it would be scary, sexy, embarrassing, and I would know that my punishment would definitely be harder, because he would be so disappointed in me!

Waiting for my turn would be deliciously agonising....

As to whether I would want this fantasy turned into reality, I am not sure!

Prefectdt: I have always wanted a birthday caning, actually on my birthday. Unfortunately, every year it’s the same story, no playmate available on that day.

There are about a million different toys I want to try out as well. The world is full of interesting toys.

Penfold: I love it when Bear talks to me like he is a headmaster and that I’m his 'naughty school girl' and spanks me. So I think my dream spanking would have to be over one of those big old desks you’d find in a headmasters office. I would wear a school girl’s outfit and he would don the old school robes. That would just be fantastic.

BigBear: I would agree with Penfold’s comment. Schoolgirl and headmaster would be my favourite spanking. I'd be very strict as she's giggling cutely in her outfit. Then I would pull her over my knee and start telling her off in a more memorable way.

Jay: Well, I suppose I want the kind of spanking that leaves me completely worn out. I'm not one for crying. It wasn't allowed when I was growing up. We had to be big girls and boys. And we weren't allowed to show fear. That was unacceptable. I would like a spanking that scares me just thinking about it and to be allowed to show that fear. I would to like to be allowed to cry. I want to cry or sob my guts out.

I'm not talking about an age play spanking. I just want to be able to feel two of the most natural states. Yes, I will probably brat and whine, but I think that I need this. After I have been taken this far, I would like to be held and told that I am loved.

This sounds sooo stupid. I must be crazy to want this.

I would like to be held in a loving hug and not be teased or ridiculed because I showed my fear or cried. That is my fantasy.

Hermione: I have always wanted a real birthday spanking, but have never had one. Ron has never taken me over his knee and I dearly wish he would. Then, of course, there's the hour-long spanking that I dream of.

My idea of the ideal birthday spanking would be for Ron to lay out every one of our implements, then sit in the armchair and put me over his knee. He would give me ten strokes with each implement in turn. I would have to count the strokes (something else I haven't done). Once I reached my age, the count would start over again. Otherwise, I would end up being 200 years old! After each set of ten, my bottom would be rubbed and caressed.

When he got to the longer implements, I would bend over the back of the armchair – also something I would love to try. It's exactly the right height. After all of the implements have been used, Ron would gently but thoroughly rub arnica creme all over my bottom. Then we would move on to other activities. That sounds like an hour to me.

Anon: As a switch, I frequently wonder whether my spanking playmate would invite over one of her adventurous girlfriends, who would serve as both a spectator and participant. The women would sit in armless chairs facing each other, knee to knee, and I would go over the platform thus presented for what I'd alliteratively describe as a "Tandem Torrid Tushy Tanning."

Multiple implements would be employed, sometimes by both at the same time, other times by just one. They would certainly have their way with me, fulfilling all of the following elements in expert fashion:

          Ritualistic
          Unrelenting
          Maternal
          Punitive

I'm hoping this will one day be attainable. And that the advice "all you have to do is ask" will be the means to a glowing, fire engine red rear end – MINE!

Tiggs: I desire a true, honest to goodness, discipline spanking, given with love, for my benefit, and without me having to ask or being allowed even to ask or being mostly for "play" or a "scene." I want to be held and told I was loved afterward, and really and truly feeling that love and security. I seek to feel as though me and my utmost needs matter more at that moment than anything else.

Oh, and Jay, my little couz, your wish is not remotely silly, but most heartfelt and sensible. And we both know that you've indeed found just the right man to deliver such a spanking very, very soon!

Padme: I have always wanted an OTK spanking from another woman. I have only had one spanking from a woman and that was a brief cropping. I'd love to experience a very hard spanking from a woman. That is one kind of spanking I've always wanted and have not been able to get yet. :)

Zille: I’ve never been “horsed” – that is, put my arms around the shoulders of another person, who then bends forward so I am lifted off of the floor and helpless to avoid the blows. This was pretty popular in England for corporal punishment in Victorian times (and lasting for a while after in school discipline.) This is more a position for caning or birching than actually spanking, but I’ve been in all the positions for spanking that I would like (well, at least that I know about!). However, I haven’t been over all of the laps I might like!

Ronnie: I've been spanked in many ways and in lots of different locations, but I would like a real public spanking pulled over whatever is available, skirt up, pants down and delivered hard, no nonsense. Of course, it would have to be in some place far away. I’m glad it's in my mind and won’t happen.

K: Hubby has only been spanking me for the last year, so I'm sure there are many more variations that we will try. However, there aren't any particular positions or types of spankings that I've been dying to try and haven't. I have little trouble sharing ideas as they occur to me and Hubby is usually quite eager, or at least agreeable, to try new things with me. What I'd really like as far as spankings go, is to be able to enjoy them without worrying that our Angel will wake up before we're satisfied. We're looking forward to her sleeping through the night, or even just longer than a couple hours at a time.

Betina: I think I'll join the commentators who said that they would like to try a true and honest discipline spanking. It would be a spanking I knew for sure I could not get out of and one that would leave me in tears. The spanking would include stern talk and lecturing while I'm over his knee with my bottom bared. After it’s over (maybe with corner time), I would be held by the man I love and told how much he loves me.

I find it hard to actually accept that this is what I crave, and I have no clue how I'd truly react if it ever happened. I came close to a discipline spanking once, but honestly, I doubt it will ever happen for real. Until then, I'll just wish for more of the spankings that he initiates, which are very rare. And I will hope that he when he initiates, he will take me further without me having to ask for more.

Frank Spanko: If an imaginary spanko can have a fantasy spanking, mine would be to be spanked in front of an audience. I desire not just to be spanked in front of another person or couple, or while a few people watch, but on a stage with a fair number of people in attendance. I would be lead out, perhaps naked, perhaps wearing only a shirt of some sort. Someone would then read what my offense was and what my punishment was to be.

I would them be ordered to face the audience and assume the position. A stern but beautiful woman would then deal with me, using a wooden paddle or a very sturdy leather strap. I would be given a number of strokes, very hard, that I had to count out, while the audience was able to view the discomfort on my face. I would then be told to turn around so that the viewers could see the implement punishing my bottom, and given an equal number of strokes.

When the punishment was complete, I would again have to face the audience and thank my punisher. She would ask if my bottom hurt badly, and I would respond that it did. She would then ask if I had learned my lesson, and I would again respond in the affirmative. Properly chastised, I would be led offstage where I would be allowed to dress and leave, hoping that I would never have to return to that stage again, but knowing that I would.

Hmmm, this might make a good story, don't you think?

I think it already is.

Todd and Suzy: We've been very lucky and thus have been able to experience almost every spanking scenario we can think of. We would very much like to enjoy a spanking on the beach though. Say Maui... close to the water, a long and relaxed bare bottom spanking.

Lucy: I have always wanted to be spanked past my pain threshold. All of the spankings I have had so far have been tolerable. I'm curious as to what I am capable of taking. Plus, I would love having a Top who wasn't afraid to push my limits.

I would also like to experience the traditional "Six of the Best."

Michelle: I've been thinking a lot about a variety of implements. We have several prevertables (a wooden spoon, a ping-pong paddle, a ruler, a slotted spatula), but few purpose made implements (only a riding crop).

I've been thinking about being flogged of late. I think a cat o’ nine tails, with heavy braided plaits or one of the ones that has all the little, thin leather strips could provide a variety of interesting sensations.

I've also thought a heavy leather paddle might be interesting. Our current paddle makes a lot of noise, but doesn't pack much of a wallop. A nice thuddy paddle might be fun.

I'd like there to be more of the over the furniture, skirts up, panties down variety as well, but I do get them and there have been some very memorable ones, just not quite as often as I'd like.

Bonnie: I will stick with the answer I gave in my previous post. I would like to experience spanking (and lovemaking) in zero gravity. I think it would be mind-blowing to live, love, and spank in three dimensions. In this weightless environment, the number of possible positions, for spankings or sex, is almost endless.

Thank you to everyone who joined in today’s discussion. For those who thought about speaking up, but weren’t quite sure, I encourage you to let your voice be heard. We’ll all be back here again next week and all MBS readers are welcome to participate (yes, even YOU). Until then, may your week be positive, productive, enjoyable, and filled with all the spankings you desire.

3 comments :

Love4her said...

Sorry this is late. I have only had a couple of playful spankings from my wife in the past year. I crave more! I, like others, fantasize about a discipline spanking. I know I am far from a perfect husband and she must have plenty of frustration to work out on my ass.

A reoccurring theme is being punished with others in earshot. A fantasy like .........

It is summer, and she takes me out to the patio of the sixth floor condo we have rented that over looks the golf course and the ocean. She is visibly upset having finally had enough of my kinky desires and misdeeds. She pulls my shorts down only to find my bottom covered in a pair of her pink panties. It is one of my fetishes she does not understand, or like, and she verbalizes her dissatisfaction. She scolds, uses her belt, a wooden spoon and more stern words..... repeat. It’s just after 10:00 p.m. and her softly spoken yet firm, correcting words carry on the evening air causing silence to fall on the patios around us as they listen. A dinner party, card game and couples talking..... all go silent except her recounting my kinky proclivities and the sound of her belt, the spoon and her hand. I am embarrassed as she tells the world of my naughtiness. I express my sorrow between yelps and groans as I shuffle from foot to foot. “I am sorry Miss” I start..... but the tears and sobbing come as she bears my bottom and finishes my punishment. “Done” She proclaims and instructs me to stand at the railing with my bottom bare while I think about my behavior. “I’LL BE BACK” She leaves me. As regain control and my sobbing decreases, I hear the hushed tones of those unseen return to the patios around us knowing they must be discussing what they have just heard take place. I feel so ashamed..... and invigorated, ready to please her.

Anonymous said...

These wonderfully written detailed accounts of what could be but hasn't as yet been played out call for an "MBS Wish Fulfillment Retreat." I know, many complications loom for such a proposed gathering, so just add it to the "wish list!" ;-)

lil sam said...

Bonnie I just love your blog, I Could not get in on the discussion as I was working out of town with no access to internet. But I just have to add my 2 cents worth.

I have learnt so much about myself since I've been reading your blog. It is just so awesome that there are so many people that share the same feelings, and longings. There are just so many great people on this site.
I have yet to recieve a spanking, and at the moment I still do not have a partner. But if I did, there are a couple of spankings I would like.

Like you I have often fantasized about having sex at zero gravity, but that was before I started longing for a spanking. now I want both.

Like Maryann, I would like an OTK spanking, given by hand, with a nice slow warm up and lots of play along the way.I would like my partner to initiate it.

There have been many times when I have come home from work in a bad mood, stressed right out, snapping and snarling. I have wished many times that my hubby would have taken me by the arm and put me over his knee and give me an honest to goodness discipline spanking, knowing fully well that I could get away from him. He would give me a stern talking to, telling me that he had had just enough of my bad mood and it was time to stop it and he would give me a lecture while I was over his knee. I had even tried goading him into it many times, but my DL never would. If he had of,it sure would have put a stop to my bad mood a whole lot quicker.

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