Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch for Oct 28

Appropriate to the season, this week’s brunch dealt with Halloween celebrations. Here are your thoughts.

Padme: We do have special plans for Halloween. My daughter is hosting the haunted house at her school, so I plan to spend the day helping her with that. I do plan to dress up, but am still trying to decide what to wear. I have many costumes to choose from. :)

We are going to a Halloween party with a big dinner and everyone is dressing up. We went last year and it was a lot of fun. The people's house is huge and they always decorate it all up and play Halloween music. They also have some games for the kids. I can't wait. :)

I hope to get a spanking later in the night when our children are in bed and we have some alone time. There is nothing better than a spanking on Halloween. :)

Dressing up is the part I love best about Halloween. I also love going to the pumpkin patch and carving the pumpkin. :)

Raheretic: Approaching five years ago now, before we bought our condos, we lived in two side by side apartments in an upscale apartment complex. They used to host complex parties every month or so in the complex community house. Of course in October they would have a Halloween party with tenants encouraged to come in costume, etc. We won the costume contest three years in a row.

We would deck ourselves out in BDSM fetish clothing and gear. T and sue with their collars, lead by me on leashes, and me with plenty of paddles, floggers, and whips dangling from my belt. We astonished most of our neighbors. You see, most of the tenants were young (twenty-something), recently graduated, aspiring business executives, mostly single, and generally very pretty. But they were remarkably traditional and conservative (Just what the hell is wrong with these kids today!).

They thought it was kind of funny to see us 50-year old range codgers and codgettes (?) hanging out at their party. I remember once when we joined in one of their conversations and they were amazed that my T had a better grasp of rock group names than they had... But I digress.

T would be dressed as a pussy cat, and would have mittens safety pinned to the back of her costume (a take off on the old "three little kittens, had lost their mittens" nursery rhyme.) She would tell people that she needed to find her mittens to avoid getting spanked. She also would carry a Halloween pumpkin-like candy container filled with red licorice Twizzlers. As each guest would enter the party, she would offer them a Twizzler (very "twisted" licorice candy), telling them, "My Master says I have to offer these to everyone because I am so twisted." Sue would just play the role of the humble slave led about on a leash by her Master.

We got lots of interesting reactions. Many people would tell us how very real our costumes and props seemed to them. DUH! We would tell them that we were not in costume at all, and that the rest of the year, we had come to the parties in costume. This month, we had come as we were... which would cause some of them to go away confused. Some folks would pursue their curiosity enough for us to launch into an impromptu workshop on our D/s polyamorous lifestyle. No one ever offered to have me spank them, dammit. :(

It was fun to fly in the face of these young yuppies' ageist stereotypes and to give them a little first hand experience with some of the trappings and even information about our alternative lifestyle. It is so rare for us to be able to be out about who we are, and our lives, other than in very intentionally constructed Lifestyle events, parties, etc.

We haven't had nearly so much fun on Halloween since.

Jean Marie: Halloween holds a special, special place in my heart, and not just because I'm such a Harry Potter fan. It has to do with knowing my orientation as a spanko for so long growing up, but keeping it secret. It still resonates with me, who presents the image of a proper school teacher to world, when I'm a libidinous, lascivious spank-maniac/sex-fiend underneath my conservative clothes. On this magic night, I like to unmask the hidden, let the monster in my closet out to run wild and free.

That said, because the magical holiday falls in the middle of the week this year, we sadly have no party to attend. I'll hand out candy at the door dressed as Marie Antoinette with hair piled on my head, a corset squeezing my tits up and my ass out, and a floor-length satin dress hiding the fact that I'm otherwise naked underneath. I bet it won't take long for my lover to unwrap my goodies and get us both sticky... Last year I went to a party as Cruella de Ville, with half of my blonde hair dyed black, and my body tightly encased in a skin-tight polka dot dress. It was such a dramatic change from my everyday persona, some acquaintances didn't recognize me. I hooked-up with a young hunk in a Freddie Krueger mask, and made-out in the host's master bedroom on all the guests' coats for a couple hours. The guy wouldn't take my hints that I wanted/needed to be spanked. If he had, I might have lost my head and had unsafe sex with him. As it was, we just kissed and dry-humped and let our hands explore.

I've had some phenomenal times on Halloween. Easily one of the most memorable was when I lived in L.A. and was invited to Hefner's Playboy Mansion for the All-Hallows Eve Bash. I was a struggling actress/model then, so couldn't afford much of a costume. I wore my English equestrian outfit of helmet, boots, tight breeches, and open blouse without benefit of a bra. I was out back by the grotto around midnight, where all kinds of erotic goings-on were transpiring in plain view, when a well-known producer took my riding crop from my grasp and gave my bottom a smart smack. I feigned indignation as I pulled the stretchy pants and lace panties down to inspect the damage. "You left a mark!" I exclaimed. I bent over fully, revealing all my charms, and informed him that I was a very naughty thing, and that just one lick wouldn't suffice. He verified that he could use the thin rod very expertly, followed by a session with his thick one. We were an item for several months after that.

I truly believe that all kinds of spirits are loosed on this special night. I can attest to being possessed on more than one occasion. I hope everyone will be wickedly bold and nakedly honest with who they dress-up as and how they (mis)behave.

Mthc: We go all out for Halloween as we live in a neighborhood of 140 houses. We get around 300 or 400 trick-or-treaters. We have an outdoor fireplace, torches, a real cow skeleton, decorations, and lights. My mom hands out candy.

Here’s David in his costume.



Yeah, I think David has a Halloween spanking on his mind.

Terpsichore: My husband and I have been married for eight years. Our relationship has always included an occasional spank here and there and some light playful spanking during lovemaking. However, it was never more than that. Last month, I expressed to my husband my innermost fantasies of being spanked and he responded with love and acceptance. I am still waiting for that spanking. We have two small children who we love so much and who bring smiles to us each day. On Halloween, we will enjoy taking them trick or treating to a couple of houses and seeing their sweet faces in their costumes. Most likely, my husband and I will not wear costumes, though quite possibly our children will choose costumes for us by giving us cat ears or a firefighter's hat or other such accessories from their dress up box. And who knows, once the children are sleeping in the quiet of the night, maybe my spanking fantasy will come true. Only time will tell...

Dove: It's only just really starting to take off here in Australia and, in fact, the last two years is the only time we have had kiddies turn up at the door to 'trick or treat.' I make sure I have something for them now, but I didn't think of dressing up myself. I will have to think of something, but whether I'll get a spanking for my trouble is anyone's guess.

Mary: Halloween is one holiday that we have yet spent together. It always seems he is out of town. But I can see some ideas from the trick or treat theme. I loved Tom's story of saying they were in costume at all the OTHER parties!! How fun!

Emily: I don’t have any major plans this year. My ex is taking our youngins trick or treating so I may have to come up with something. Get some friends together to go see a spooky movie or go to a haunted house or something. I don’t have any plans to dress up this year. For the past couple of years my coworkers and I have dressed up for work. We did pajama's one year and another it was 60's attire... You know, poodle skirts and such. I have lots of outfits I could wear but definitely not appropriate costumes to wear to work or out trick or treating with the kiddos. LOL

Morningstar: Halloween has lost its appeal for me specifically. Oh, there are costume parties we could attend here in the Great White North. But since most BDSM parties already greatly resemble a Halloween masked ball every weekend, Halloween holds no special thrill…

A few years ago though, Sir and I went to a private BDSM party and I dressed up as an angel, which raised more than a few eyebrows, trust me…

This year, I did find some interesting "Halloween" accessories (so to speak ) for Sir. I presented them to Him on Friday night. He dressed me up in them and took loads of pictures... If anyone is interested, I should be posting pictures of the result on Monday. It’s just a little introduction to Halloween fun in our condo in the Great White North!

Paige: Yup! I always dress up in something naughty! In fact, I dressed up for my hubby yesterday as a sexy cat! He absolutely loved my costume, and I absolutely loved the spanking I got!

Oh, BTW, I have a picture of the costume on my blog!

Hermione: I've put together a semi-kinky costume to wear to work. I'm going as "The Enforcer." Over black slacks and red sweater, I'll wear a sequined devil's tail and horns, plus a spiked leather collar and leather wrist bands. I have a small leather flogger to carry. This is pretty much in keeping with the job I have, and my work persona. At work, I would be perceived as a domme rather than a sub.

While costume shopping I also picked up a red and black feather boa and a serving wench costume of black velvet dress with a red bodice that laces up the front. I'll store these with the rest of my interesting play outfits.

We'll be going out for dinner on Halloween, and who knows what devilment we might get up to after.

LynLass: I went to a Halloween spanking party earlier this month dressed as Elphaba, the Wicked Witch of the West from the musical Wicked. Because I had the witch's hat that said "Wicked" that was purchased at the show, I really expected someone to notice what it said and decide that I needed a spanking because I was "wicked," but nobody did. I did get some very good spankings, just none because I was "wicked!"

Bonnie: Randy and I attended a (vanilla) costume party last night and it was great fun. I dressed as an elf. It was a real hoot. I wore a dark green leotard over lighter green tights. I then wrapped some green material around my hips to create a little skirt. I even found some pointed ears!

Randy, deciding to play off of my idea, donned a Santa suit. Apparently, they’re not at all difficult to rent in October. He made a very silly Santa, but it was good for a lot of laughs. More than once during the proceedings, our lecherous old soul felt the need to grope his trust elfin assistant.

When we returned home, playtime commenced almost immediately. I knew he would adore my costume. In his testosterone-clouded brain, tight spandex plus curved flesh equals spanking time. There was lots of rubbing, plenty of spanking, and a fine after-party celebration. At our house, Santa delivered his gifts a couple of months early!

Dave: I like dressing up as a Ninja for some reason. I’ve seen too many Kung Fu films perhaps. I guess it lets out my inner Bruce Lee.

Thank you all for your spooky spanko contributions! I hope you’ll all stop back next week.

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