Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch for Sept 8

We had two different questions this week. The first concerned other kinks that you or your partner like to combine with spanking. The second solicited a topic for next week's 400th brunch. Here's what you had to say.

Six of the Best: Here is an interesting spanking question. Will we ever see a 3 D spanking movie? Would you wish to see one? And who would you wish the stars to be?

I would love to see a 3D spanking movie made by writers, actors, videographers, producers and directors who understand consensual adult spanking. Most of the time, Hollywood gets it entirely wrong. Just once, I'd like to see a realistic portrayal of kink and those who practice it.

Fiona: Another kink with our spanking? There are so many to choose from. Frequently, spanking is paired with the power exchange of our D/s, sex, sometimes bondage and other lovely activities.

Question: what have you learned from Spanko Brunch?

Renee Rose: My husband's kink is threesomes. We have not yet combined it with spanking, but I'm thinking it will actually be easier for me combined that it has been separate...

Michael M: My wife probably regards our FLR and D/s as kinky enough. I have made nudges towards anal and pegging, but have been rebutted on these ideas. I am lucky enough I guess.

Hermione: My husband if fond of tying things up, like tomato plants and cucumber vines in the garden, and me in the bedroom.

I know that most of your readers won't have attended Brunch #1, but it might be fun for readers to tell you when they attended their first brunch. They could give the actual brunch number or topic by checking the archives, or just give the month or year. We could see who has been participating the longest in this weekly ritual.

Butt Stuff: I like to refer to it as "Butt Stuff," which to me includes spanking, enemas, anal penetration, figging and pegging. I have a penchant for all of these activities. I am a straight, married 50-something male who switches from top to bottom for all of these kinks.

Jenny: We don't combine anything kinky with spanking. My bf isn't very kinky. The things he likes that might have been kinky in the 1950s are now quite run-of-the-mill and would not shock anyone under the age of 65! My only real kink is spanking. Other fantasies are best kept as fantasy.

I like the "What have you learned from the Brunches?" question. I don't know what my answer would be. I'll have to think on that one.

Prefectdt: I'm not sure if this counts as a kink, but I find women far more attractive when they are wearing an appropriate pair of glasses. I also fantasise a lot about sexually stimulating partners up to and including the point of orgasm, whilst they remain fully clothed but I have only very limited experience of this in real life.

Suggested question - How much do yo think that our generation of internet brunchers have to teach the younger brunchers that are bound to appear in the next few years? And what would be your top tip for them regarding brunching and/or kink in general?

Elle: I don't think we involve anything really kinky... Yet. :) We are still less than a year in, so I'm sure that could change.

I like Hermione's suggestion for a 400th post question.. But I don't remember what my answer is! LOL :)

Lea: I like a little bondage. I don't get that often from my partners, but the few times I have been tied/handcuffed/blindfolded I really enjoyed it and it made me feel much more submissive towards the overall experience and spanking.

I really have no idea what to suggest for the brunch since I haven't been here for all of them to remember what's been covered!

Bonnie: As others said, we don't really consider any sort of sex to be inherently kinky. We assume that just about everyone enjoys those at one time or another. I guess light bondage would qualify as our second kink to be combined with spanking. We don't do anything elaborate or extreme, but a bit of restraint can make the entire experience more intense.

It sounds as though many of you would like some sort of brunch retrospective. I'll work on that for next weekend!

Thank you all for joining our weekly brunch celebration!

Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch for Oct 24

Our topic this week was complementary interests, practices or fetishes. Here are your thoughts.

Luna: Oh yes, most definitely. Here are two we do to spice up a spanking.

1. Rope bondage. KM and I love a bit of rope in every part of our play. Even if it's just some simple handcuffs, he can control it and that makes spanking that much more fun. And it generally leads to other kinkiness.

2. Lingerie. I love wearing lingerie and KM loves to see me in it. When I know a fun spanking is coming, I'm likely to put on a cute pair of panties and a matching bra or some stockings (or all of it together). It gets his juices going. I like the bit of humiliation and exhibition factor of modeling for him and then his penchant for pulling the panties between my cheeks.

Our Bottoms Burn: Bacall always likes bondage with her paddling. It boosts her fantasy of being forced to take the paddling.

Gabby + Andrew: Andrew also likes to have me tied up sometimes. Handcuffs, Japanese love rope or plain old rope work for us.

We also enjoy roleplay and costume, like naughty schoolgirl and secretary, as well as the more realistic bad wife.

We've begun to explore group play related to spanking. Sometimes, I get spanked by multiple people or enjoy getting spanked one-on-one by someone who isn't Andrew (usually Kevin).

Serving B: We enjoy some bondage and leather on occasion. I receive most of my spankings with both of us naked. However, on occasion, B dresses up in leather gloves, boots, and corset and ties me down. That's a lovely dessert on top of being ruled by the woman I love.

Make Mine Red: I love lingerie and have lots of it, particularly pieces that showcase my behind. :) I also like my naughty schoolgirl outfit complete with ruffled panties. I KNOW what's coming when I put that on. LOL If I need to be more direct, I have a tank top that says "Spank Me" on it. We have some silk bondage ties that I like, but he isn't much into it. We're still working on that.

Pink: What arouses us most is spanking. But we are also a D/s couple, so we often add other elements like bondage and submission into our activities.

It isn't unusual for D to pull out the restraints to hold me in place, or make me kneel in front of him as greeting. In fact, that has been a rule set in place since our second meeting. Having never really been in a D/s relationship before, I can say that, while it isn't for everyone, it is an extremely satisfying outlet for my spanking desires!

We also do the lighter things such as roleplay, funishment spankings (the majority of what we do), and lots and lots of lingerie (for me, not him!). Rawr!

Keiter & Jean Marie: Yes to lingerie and being restrained. We don't expect a lot of consensus on this one, but every so often, we really enjoy anal sex after spanking.

Ms. Betty: You can count pc and I among those who enjoy bondage as well. I think it's a classic combination.

Perhaps less commonly, he also enjoys the rules and structure that come with being a schoolboy again. It isn't quite a roleplay – because he is himself, not a character – but he quite enjoys things like being kept after, writing lines, serving detention, etc.

I shouldn't actually say “enjoys.” These things are done for punishment, but after the fact he does tend to find them arousing.

Prefectdt: My amateur history investigations have led to the discovery of several scenarios for play scenes.

On Her Knee: I have one unique fetish that rears it's ugly head every once in a while. It really adds to the experience of having control taken away and makes me feel extraordinarily close to her. It's not something she particularly enjoys, but she does do it to accommodate my desires. For me, being given a spanking jumps to a new level when she includes the surprise of an enema.

D&S: Bondage and lingerie both seem to be popular, and we are firmly into both. We don't really like the super exotic lingerie. Everyday undies like most girls wear are really more exciting. D just loves to turn up my skirt to reveal bottom hugging but not too brief panties, with suspenders and stockings. He even quite likes tights. He says they hug my cheeks into two firm globes. His ideal target is my bent-over bare bottom, framed by suspenders, lifted skirt and lowered knickers. Nude spanking is not for us.

We don't go in for the complex bondage sometimes seen, but enough to hold me securely and reasonably comfortably in just the pose. D has very definite ideas as to how my bottom should be presented for its spanking, very tight and spread. The bonds hold me just as he wants, and also prevent me from reaching back when my rear end gets too hot! Soft cords or handcuffs do the job, but we have some webbing straps, secured by Velcro. They are easy to remove after the spanking is over, but nearly impossible for me to escape from on my own.

D made a trestle with a padded top for me to bend over. My wrists and ankles are tied to the legs. My big thrill is lying there as he turns up my skirt, wondering whether he is going to take my knickers down and paddle my tightly spread bare bottom, or leave them in place to spank their thin taut seat, which gives little protection. And dare I say it, after my spanking, I am perfectly placed for what comes next. A good seeing-to, whilst still firmly bound after a good spanking, is just bliss!

Hermione: Spanking is the only kinky activity we both find enjoyable, and it provides enough variety that we don't include other enhancements. So I'm afraid we are in the minority here. Does that make us vanilla spankos?

I think you're half right!

A Moro: Hermione, I love your term "vanilla spankos." LOL

Whether my wife is acting as a top or bottom, I like her in lingerie ranging from simple to corsets. When bottoming, my wife sometimes likes to have her hands bound. The bondage thing is more for my wife than for me. At play parties in the past, I liked the excitement of being spanked in front of others. We have also added a bit of anal play at times. Due to our young family, our chances to play are limited and as such mostly are as Hermione put it, "vanilla" which is good too.

Wolfsmate: I have several play outfits I put together from bits and pieces found here and there. They work really good as an "appetizer." Lingerie also puts in an appearance, but I need to build that collection. We are still feeling our way around spanking. Bondage hasn't been considered yet, but maybe later.

Kingspan: One vanilla interest that enhances our spanking fun is drumming. It may sound funny, but the sense of rhythm really seems to add something.

Bonnie: We enjoy a variety of kinks, though nothing particularly extreme. Light bondage intensifies our spanking fun. We also like roleplay, ritual, costumes, lingerie, and a wide spectrum of sexual play. Spanking will always be the cornerstone of our sexual relationship, but we regularly build upon it.

Thanks to everyone who shared their responses this week!