Bonnie, I wish that Mel was around to answer some of these polls, she has a great sense of humour. While all the qualities listed are important in a D/s partnership, the most important in my book, and Mel would agree, is Overall compatibility, and that is what I voted. Warm hugs, Paul.
My initial reaction was to vote for overall compatability. I changed that to adaptability. I feel like more than likely if you're in a spanker / spankee relationship / situation, you're more than likely (I suppose not always, though) compatible anyway. So as a wannabe spankee, I think that the spanker being able to quickly and smartly adapt to any given scenario would be my preferable.
Everyone - Imagine that! The spankers and the spankees mostly agreed. I didn't expect that outcome.
Paul - I wish she were here as well, for many reasons. From all you've said I know she would fit right in.
Green - That describes me as well, but many readers have different interests and experiences. I am always interested to see the whole spectrum.
Maggie - I included that option for precisely the reason you describe. With this poll, I wanted to get to the heart of what we value in a partner. I'm not sure it completely succeeded, but the results do provide some interesting insights. Thanks for adding your voice.
• Yes, my husband SPANKS me!
• We have always had this interest
• It is the core of our relationship
• I want/need/crave/love all my spankings
• It is thrilling, sexy fun we enjoy together
• We explore our favorite spanking fantasies
• I am a bad girl who earns harsh discipline
• I receive traditional corporal punishment
• These are hard lessons delivered with love
• I fully consent and willingly participate
• I lift my skirt to expose my bare cheeks
• My thong panties provide zero protection
• He paddles me often & I totally deserve it
• He swats my butt until it is red and hurting
• I may scream or kick, but I welcome it all
• When it is over, I am humble and contrite
• I display my glowing bottom in the corner
• Photos and videos document my discomfort
• A great spanking is one I feel tomorrow
• Even when it is painful to sit, I still smile
• I am grateful to say "I got paddled today"
• I yearn to feel the wood caressing my skin
• Punishment spankings are my #1 turn-on
• The act of surrender replenishes my spirit
• Our aftercare reconnections are joyous
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Bonnie, I wish that Mel was around to answer some of these polls, she has a great sense of humour.
While all the qualities listed are important in a D/s partnership, the most important in my book, and Mel would agree, is Overall compatibility, and that is what I voted.
Warm hugs,
Paul.
Geez...you know I wouldn't let anyone spank me without relationship and I won't have relationship without all of the above in my Dominant.
My initial reaction was to vote for overall compatability. I changed that to adaptability. I feel like more than likely if you're in a spanker / spankee relationship / situation, you're more than likely (I suppose not always, though) compatible anyway. So as a wannabe spankee, I think that the spanker being able to quickly and smartly adapt to any given scenario would be my preferable.
Everyone - Imagine that! The spankers and the spankees mostly agreed. I didn't expect that outcome.
Paul - I wish she were here as well, for many reasons. From all you've said I know she would fit right in.
Green - That describes me as well, but many readers have different interests and experiences. I am always interested to see the whole spectrum.
Maggie - I included that option for precisely the reason you describe. With this poll, I wanted to get to the heart of what we value in a partner. I'm not sure it completely succeeded, but the results do provide some interesting insights. Thanks for adding your voice.
This was hard....I think a mix of all of these would really be the best!
Huggs
Theresa
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