Bonnie, I wish that Mel was around to answer some of these polls, she has a great sense of humour. While all the qualities listed are important in a D/s partnership, the most important in my book, and Mel would agree, is Overall compatibility, and that is what I voted. Warm hugs, Paul.
My initial reaction was to vote for overall compatability. I changed that to adaptability. I feel like more than likely if you're in a spanker / spankee relationship / situation, you're more than likely (I suppose not always, though) compatible anyway. So as a wannabe spankee, I think that the spanker being able to quickly and smartly adapt to any given scenario would be my preferable.
Everyone - Imagine that! The spankers and the spankees mostly agreed. I didn't expect that outcome.
Paul - I wish she were here as well, for many reasons. From all you've said I know she would fit right in.
Green - That describes me as well, but many readers have different interests and experiences. I am always interested to see the whole spectrum.
Maggie - I included that option for precisely the reason you describe. With this poll, I wanted to get to the heart of what we value in a partner. I'm not sure it completely succeeded, but the results do provide some interesting insights. Thanks for adding your voice.
• Yes, my husband SPANKS me! • This is an experience I know well • Bare bottom spankings really hurt • Sometimes I need an attitude adjustment • We explore our favorite spanking fantasies • I am a bad girl who earns harsh discipline • I fully consent and willingly participate • His thick wooden paddle reads ”BONNIE" • Hanging on our wall, its purpose is obvious • I hoist my hem to expose my ample cheeks • I take my position face down across his lap • He loves when I'm still pink from last time • He paddles me often & I totally deserve it • He swats my butt until it is red and sore • The impact of wood against skin jolts me • This is not play. My spankings are very real • I receive traditional corporal punishment • When he is done, I am humble and contrite • I display my crimson bottom in the corner • Photos and videos document my discomfort • I blush with embarrassment at both ends • Even when it is painful to sit, I still smile • Punishment spankings are my #1 turn-on • The act of surrender replenishes my spirit
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Bonnie, I wish that Mel was around to answer some of these polls, she has a great sense of humour.
While all the qualities listed are important in a D/s partnership, the most important in my book, and Mel would agree, is Overall compatibility, and that is what I voted.
Warm hugs,
Paul.
Geez...you know I wouldn't let anyone spank me without relationship and I won't have relationship without all of the above in my Dominant.
My initial reaction was to vote for overall compatability. I changed that to adaptability. I feel like more than likely if you're in a spanker / spankee relationship / situation, you're more than likely (I suppose not always, though) compatible anyway. So as a wannabe spankee, I think that the spanker being able to quickly and smartly adapt to any given scenario would be my preferable.
Everyone - Imagine that! The spankers and the spankees mostly agreed. I didn't expect that outcome.
Paul - I wish she were here as well, for many reasons. From all you've said I know she would fit right in.
Green - That describes me as well, but many readers have different interests and experiences. I am always interested to see the whole spectrum.
Maggie - I included that option for precisely the reason you describe. With this poll, I wanted to get to the heart of what we value in a partner. I'm not sure it completely succeeded, but the results do provide some interesting insights. Thanks for adding your voice.
This was hard....I think a mix of all of these would really be the best!
Huggs
Theresa
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