Saturday, October 05, 2013

MBS Spanko Brunch #403

Happy October and welcome back! Our question this time is a simple one... Or is it?

Can a spanking be relaxing?

If you'd like to join our conversation, just enter your response in the form of a comment. At the end of the weekend, I will post an edited summary.

15 comments :

Hermione said...

Yes indeed. It's just what I need to unwind after a hard week.

CurtisG said...

Yes, depending on the type of spanking. There are spankings I give where my female partner can lie over my lap for more than an hour and I have on a rare occasion received a similar one.

sixofthebest said...

Bonnie, speaking for myself, when I am spanking a woman on her bare bottom. I find that enjoyment most relaxing indeed. Most heavenly relaxing, like floating on air.

SPANKEDHORTIC II said...

And the simple answer is Oh God Yes!

I can get so high on endorphins, from a well executed spanking, that it can take hours, if not the rest of the day to come down and I get very relaxed. I even get a reduced pulse rate, after a good spanking, most times.

Prefectdt

Dragon's Rose said...

Yep, it sure can be relaxing. But I find a gentle flogging to be more relaxing. My definition of gentle may not be the same as yours

Enzo said...

Yes! very much so.
I am the one giving the spankings and it is very relaxing for me.
It is my solace!

I have explained it better here:
http://everdayspankings.blogspot.com/2013/04/am-i-only-one-seeking-solace.htm

Belle L said...

The time after a spanking can be very relaxing, but I'm not relaxed during. I'm either wanting it to stop, or wanting it to lead to other things. The desire is not relaxing.

Anonymous said...

Depends. If I am draped over D's lap, and he is pat-a-caking my bare cheeks, with his hand, it is very relaxing, but that soon turns in to being exciting; needs which have to be satisfied. On the other hand, bent tightly over, bare bottom on high, to be dealt with by a big paddle or cane, is certainly not relaxing at all, S.

Anonymous said...

Sometimes its the ONLY thing that will relax me.

ronnie said...

Does depend on the type of spanking I'm getting but generally yes it can be very relaxing.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

DelFonte said...

From my perspective, the more I relax the less pain I feel, then in turn the more I want. By the end I am very relaxed. If I resist, struggle, that's a different story.

The Refined Dominant said...

Absolutely a spanking can be relaxing. I feel wonderful after I've spanked my Ella.

simon said...

Relaxing,painful,exciting, humiliating and erotic. The great thing about spankings and related activities is that they can be all of these sometimes at the same instant.

Anonymous said...

I find that dreaming about getting a spanking is very relaxing. While I'm being spanked, I'm not usually so relaxed. We are rather new to this, however, and I'm getting more relaxed lately. I'm finding the whole ritual soothing and comforting. Maybe that's because I'm getting used to it, and because he only uses his hand. I'd like to branch out with other implements, but he isn't ready to take that step.

Tori said...

The spanking itself is only relaxing if it's not done for punishment. After a punishment spanking is relaxing.

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