Happy October and welcome back! Our question this time is a simple one... Or is it?
Can a spanking be relaxing?
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Saturday, October 05, 2013
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Yes indeed. It's just what I need to unwind after a hard week.
Yes, depending on the type of spanking. There are spankings I give where my female partner can lie over my lap for more than an hour and I have on a rare occasion received a similar one.
Bonnie, speaking for myself, when I am spanking a woman on her bare bottom. I find that enjoyment most relaxing indeed. Most heavenly relaxing, like floating on air.
And the simple answer is Oh God Yes!
I can get so high on endorphins, from a well executed spanking, that it can take hours, if not the rest of the day to come down and I get very relaxed. I even get a reduced pulse rate, after a good spanking, most times.
Prefectdt
Yep, it sure can be relaxing. But I find a gentle flogging to be more relaxing. My definition of gentle may not be the same as yours
Yes! very much so.
I am the one giving the spankings and it is very relaxing for me.
It is my solace!
I have explained it better here:
http://everdayspankings.blogspot.com/2013/04/am-i-only-one-seeking-solace.htm
The time after a spanking can be very relaxing, but I'm not relaxed during. I'm either wanting it to stop, or wanting it to lead to other things. The desire is not relaxing.
Depends. If I am draped over D's lap, and he is pat-a-caking my bare cheeks, with his hand, it is very relaxing, but that soon turns in to being exciting; needs which have to be satisfied. On the other hand, bent tightly over, bare bottom on high, to be dealt with by a big paddle or cane, is certainly not relaxing at all, S.
Sometimes its the ONLY thing that will relax me.
Does depend on the type of spanking I'm getting but generally yes it can be very relaxing.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
From my perspective, the more I relax the less pain I feel, then in turn the more I want. By the end I am very relaxed. If I resist, struggle, that's a different story.
Absolutely a spanking can be relaxing. I feel wonderful after I've spanked my Ella.
Relaxing,painful,exciting, humiliating and erotic. The great thing about spankings and related activities is that they can be all of these sometimes at the same instant.
I find that dreaming about getting a spanking is very relaxing. While I'm being spanked, I'm not usually so relaxed. We are rather new to this, however, and I'm getting more relaxed lately. I'm finding the whole ritual soothing and comforting. Maybe that's because I'm getting used to it, and because he only uses his hand. I'd like to branch out with other implements, but he isn't ready to take that step.
The spanking itself is only relaxing if it's not done for punishment. After a punishment spanking is relaxing.
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