Our topic was stress relief spankings. Here are your thoughts.
HAL: Yes, we do use spanking for stress relief. The main difference is that I ask for it, rather than being 'sentenced' to it! LOL I also get to choose the implement and position, which is never allowed when it is for discipline purposes. I can also say when it is enough. So I guess I have more power in that situation. There are times when my partner will tell me that I need a stress relief spanking. I usually agree.
Hermione: I like to be spanked when I am feeling stressed, and the benefit is either reduction or elimination of said stress.
The spanking itself isn't any different, although my mindset is. I am expecting to be purged of my inner turmoil, so that's usually the result. It also sometimes happens that I may request a stress-relief spanking during the week rather than wait for our regularly-scheduled weekend session.
Ken: Oh yes! We utilize a 'Notice of Discipline' form (much like a 'Detention Notice' still used in many schools). My Lady can issue a notice any time she feels that I have earned a spanking.
However, I too can fill one out and hand it to my Lady when I feel I need a 'stress-relief' spanking. It's sort of a variation on the classic Dorthea Spencer Spanking Plan!
Katia: I think stress reliever spankings rate with GG's. When I receive a stress reliever, it helps to release all of that pent up crap I was storing away. All seems right again. It differs from the other spankings because you usually ask for these types of spankings. It's your choice.
Anon: All of our spankings are stress relievers. I usually have to ask to be spanked as my wife is not into it as much as I am. This weekend she did start the process by bringing the implements to our couch. So maybe she is getting the hang of this fun time...
Prefectdt: I am not currently in a relationship, but I would say that nearly all of the spankings that I receive result in stress avoidance rather than relief. The spankings help me to cope better with life, anticipate stressful situations, and reduce the stress that any situation can cause.
Bonnie: For Randy and me, stress relief spankings are somewhat distinct in purpose and execution. Often, he decides that a stress relief spanking is necessary. I almost always comply because history has demonstrated that he is usually correct. Occasionally, I will ask.
I am usually positioned over furniture like the back of the couch. Sometimes, I will lie on the bed over a pile of pillows. In any case, it's not OTK. I associate that position with connection and ultimately, with erotic spankings. For stress relief, I want to be alone in my own head for a while. The spanking itself is always on my bare skin from the beginning. There may be a warm-up, but it doesn't last very long. Randy typically employs a heavy percussive implement like a wooden paddle or brush.
I need this sort of spanking to hurt. The immediate, intense pain is what it takes to reboot my emotions. The actual spanking can be fairly brief in duration (though it may seem endless to me while it's happening). When Randy determined the harsh medicine has had the desired effect, he gathers me up and embraces me. We usually make love, but sometimes not until later.
After a stress relief spanking, I feel light and energetic for at least the next day. I smile easily and aggravate slowly. Given the option, I'll gladly choose a throbbing backside over a worried head every time!
Wolfsmate: Though I am new, I have found that almost any spanking helps relieve some sort of stress. I don't sure I understand the "why's" yet, but I know some of what I feel.
Welcome, Wolfsmate!
Barely Pink: I feel amazing after a stress-relief spanking, all purged and cleansed and ready to take on more for the week.
It doesn't differ much from a "good girl" spanking except that he stops when he senses my complete relaxation. It sometimes lasts longer or shorter, depending on what's on my mind.
The funny thing is that I usually don't recognize that a spanking is what's needed. Dr. D prescribes and administers them as he sees fit – and he hasn't been wrong so far!
Loki: Stress relief spankings are something that I would like to do with my wife and housemate. There are many times when that would be needed, as we three are at most times pretty stressed out due to our jobs and such.
Thank you to everyone who joined in our brunch! For anyone who missed it, we'll be back here next week and every week.
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MOST of our spankings are for stress relief. Some are just playful, very few are punishment. Most often, I feel overwhelmed or stressed out and a spanking helps me to relieve that stress, and hubby is always more than happy to deliver ! :)
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