Any suggestions on how to encourage my spanker to spank harder? We are pretty new at this, maybe it will come with time? I want to be sure not to make him feel he's doing it wrong. Thanks for any ideas. Your web site has been SO helpful.
Hello Bonnie, I was hoping to get some advice from the spankee point of view. I have a very good friend who was previously vanilla. After hearing some of my ideas and experiences as it relates to spanking, she is very eager to try spanking for herself. Do you have any ideas or tips that might help make her first adult spanking experience a great one?
DESCARTES, the renowned French philosopher once wrote, " I think therefore I am". I admire your blog Bonnie, because not only do you 'think', with thought. But you love the 'spanking scene'. May your blog last a hundred years.
Hi Bonnie! I have two questions, actually. The first is the same as Jane- my bf is very sweet and happy to indulge me as a spanko but I can tell he worries about hurting me. It's complicated by the fact that I have an exceptionally high pain tolerance so light swats don't even register. Any thoughts on how to encourage him? My second question is out of your experience, but I'd like to get your take on it: in a relationship where both partners are switches how do you think would be best to have both partners in both roles within the same session without awkwardness? This is also something we're playing with and I just wondered about your thoughts.
Thanks so much for sharing your experience- your blog has helped me out in embracing this side of myself so much!
LOL... Any ideas on how to stick a rocket up the ass of the passport office and/or get them to do their job properly and efficiently and stop assing around? No, thought not.....
Is it possible for me to OVER communicate with her about TTWD? Me and my wife have been talking alot about this and I'm beginning to feel that I'm letting her in on all of my new found secrets when it comes to spanking. I'm beginning to feel that it might be less effective if she knows what to expect.
Any advice on preventing spanko blogger burnout? No easy task keeping a blog going and going! [though obviously blog burnout is applicable to any blogger, not just a kink blogger....]
• Yes, my husband SPANKS me! • This is an experience I know well • Bare bottom spankings really hurt • Sometimes I need an attitude adjustment • We explore our favorite spanking fantasies • I am a bad girl who earns harsh discipline • I fully consent and willingly participate • His thick wooden paddle reads ”BONNIE" • Hanging on our wall, its purpose is obvious • I hoist my hem to expose my ample cheeks • I take my position face down across his lap • He loves when I'm still pink from last time • He paddles me often & I totally deserve it • He swats my butt until it is red and sore • The impact of wood against skin jolts me • This is not play. My spankings are very real • I receive traditional corporal punishment • When he is done, I am humble and contrite • I display my crimson bottom in the corner • Photos and videos document my discomfort • I blush with embarrassment at both ends • Even when it is painful to sit, I still smile • Punishment spankings are my #1 turn-on • The act of surrender replenishes my spirit
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Any suggestions on how to encourage my spanker to spank harder? We are pretty new at this, maybe it will come with time? I want to be sure not to make him feel he's doing it wrong. Thanks for any ideas. Your web site has been SO helpful.
Hello Bonnie, I was hoping to get some advice from the spankee point of view. I have a very good friend who was previously vanilla. After hearing some of my ideas and experiences as it relates to spanking, she is very eager to try spanking for herself. Do you have any ideas or tips that might help make her first adult spanking experience a great one?
DESCARTES, the renowned French philosopher once wrote, " I think therefore I am". I admire your blog Bonnie, because not only do you 'think', with thought. But you love the 'spanking scene'. May your blog last a hundred years.
Bonnie: Have you ever experienced, or considered, being the spanker as opposed to the spankee? Just curious!
Hi Bonnie! I have two questions, actually. The first is the same as Jane- my bf is very sweet and happy to indulge me as a spanko but I can tell he worries about hurting me. It's complicated by the fact that I have an exceptionally high pain tolerance so light swats don't even register. Any thoughts on how to encourage him? My second question is out of your experience, but I'd like to get your take on it: in a relationship where both partners are switches how do you think would be best to have both partners in both roles within the same session without awkwardness? This is also something we're playing with and I just wondered about your thoughts.
Thanks so much for sharing your experience- your blog has helped me out in embracing this side of myself so much!
-S.
How do you find time to do all the things you do on your website. You're amazing. Are you sure you weren't cloned and there are two of you.
FD
LOL... Any ideas on how to stick a rocket up the ass of the passport office and/or get them to do their job properly and efficiently and stop assing around?
No, thought not.....
Hugs, Daisy xxxxxxxxxx
Could you share with us your most embarASSing spanking moment... ??
Hello Bonnie:
Is it possible for me to OVER communicate with her about TTWD? Me and my wife have been talking alot about this and I'm beginning to feel that I'm letting her in on all of my new found secrets when it comes to spanking. I'm beginning to feel that it might be less effective if she knows what to expect.
Any advice on preventing spanko blogger burnout? No easy task keeping a blog going and going! [though obviously blog burnout is applicable to any blogger, not just a kink blogger....]
Thx!
Dave
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