Yeah, all three but honestly, when I had to actually pick one, I closed my eyes and tried to recall any number of spankings I've received... as the spankee, it is actually the auditory... not the whacks as much as his words, the sounds of his voice, his breath on my ear, the brush of air as he walks past me as I bend over the pillows... yeah, it's the sound of it all that gives me the biggest shivers and quivers.
As spanker, it's the touch, definitely the feel of that ass, the stroke of my hands first soft, then not so soft...
Thanks Bonnie, I wondered how I could answer this but managed to find out something new about myself that I didn't know...
Bonnie, for me touch is the touchstone, the sound and the view add flavour, but I could rhapsodise about touch, but not here and not now. *G* Warm hugs, Paul.
I really is all 3, but auditory is probably the most significant. Not the sound of the whack (although that can be rather nice too!) but more what is said to me and how it is said. It depends on the moment and it could be words of encouragement, justification, or simply a bit of kinky dirty talk.
• Yes, my husband SPANKS me!
• This is an experience I know well
• Bare bottom spankings really hurt
• Sometimes I need an attitude adjustment
• We explore our favorite spanking fantasies
• I am a bad girl who earns harsh discipline
• I fully consent and willingly participate
• His thick wooden paddle reads "BONNIE"
• Hanging on our wall, its purpose is obvious
• I hoist my hem to expose my ample cheeks
• I take my position face down across his lap
• He loves when I'm still pink from last time
• He paddles me often & I totally deserve it
• He swats my butt until it is red and sore
• The impact of wood against skin jolts me
• This is not play. My spankings are very real
• I receive traditional corporal punishment
• When he is done, I am humble and contrite
• I display my crimson bottom in the corner
• Photos and videos document my discomfort
• I blush with embarrassment at both ends
• Even when it is painful to sit, I still smile
• Punishment spankings are my #1 turn-on
• The act of surrender replenishes my spirit
• I'm proud to be his very well spanked wife
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From a Spanker's viewpoint:
All three!
I had to go with visual, that's all I have experienced. Maybe soon with the touch. Maybe soon. lol
Yeah, all three but honestly, when I had to actually pick one, I closed my eyes and tried to recall any number of spankings I've received... as the spankee, it is actually the auditory... not the whacks as much as his words, the sounds of his voice, his breath on my ear, the brush of air as he walks past me as I bend over the pillows... yeah, it's the sound of it all that gives me the biggest shivers and quivers.
As spanker, it's the touch, definitely the feel of that ass, the stroke of my hands first soft, then not so soft...
Thanks Bonnie, I wondered how I could answer this but managed to find out something new about myself that I didn't know...
Bonnie, for me touch is the touchstone, the sound and the view add flavour, but I could rhapsodise about touch, but not here and not now. *G*
Warm hugs,
Paul.
Paul said it just right.
Very hard to say. I'm not sure I can separate them, but I had to pick one, eh? hehe
I really is all 3, but auditory is probably the most significant. Not the sound of the whack (although that can be rather nice too!) but more what is said to me and how it is said.
It depends on the moment and it could be words of encouragement, justification, or simply a bit of kinky dirty talk.
Everyone - My choice was touch. From my position, I typically can't see much. I like the sounds, but the feel is what does it for me.
Master Fitz - That's what Randy said too.
Maggie - Here's hoping you soon get to enjoy all three.
Padme - I really wanted everyone to pick. Had I offered an "all of the above" choice, it would probably have won overwhelmingly.
Tiggr - That's really interesting. You make a grrrrreat argument for the auditory aspect.
Paul - Though coming from a different perspective, I agree. Thanks for adding your insight!
Marcus - Thanks!
Kay - That was the design, but do as you like.
Scarlett - That's a good point too. Between you and Tiggr, you make a compelling case.
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