Aftercare: Doing It Right

A dedicated reader recently posed an excellent question:

"The first [question] is 'aftercare.' I've seen this mentioned, but I'm not certain what it means."

In my mind, aftercare is soothing kindness. The objective of aftercare is to bring the spankee gently back to the here and now. Spankers often fail to recognize just how totally unnerving a spanking can be. Beyond the obvious physical distress, the recipient may also feel emotionally drained. Aftercare is the final step in re-establishing normalcy.

Aftercare can take many forms:

Aloe cream Aromatherapy candles Back rub Brushing hair Bubble bath Chocolate Comfy nightgown Compliments Confidence building Dancing fingertips Drying tears Flowers Foot massage Gentle touch Holding hands Hugs Lovemaking Massage oil Soothing music Supportive shoulder

Effective aftercare often requires the spanker to change roles from being a harsh disciplinarian to a loving partner. This sudden transition may seem incongruous, but it is precisely what many spankees desire once the spanking has concluded.

Gentlemen, if you want your woman to love you with all her heart, I invite you to try some of these aftercare suggestions. Watch and see if they don’t make you feel good as well.

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