"The first [question] is 'aftercare.' I've seen this mentioned, but I'm not certain what it means."
In my mind, aftercare is soothing kindness. The objective of aftercare is to bring the spankee gently back to the here and now. Spankers often fail to recognize just how totally unnerving a spanking can be. Beyond the obvious physical distress, the recipient may also feel emotionally drained. Aftercare is the final step in re-establishing normalcy.
Aftercare can take many forms:
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Effective aftercare often requires the spanker to change roles from being a harsh disciplinarian to a loving partner. This sudden transition may seem incongruous, but it is precisely what many spankees desire once the spanking has concluded.
Gentlemen, if you want your woman to love you with all her heart, I invite you to try some of these aftercare suggestions. Watch and see if they don’t make you feel good as well.
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3 comments :
Very informative Bonnie. :) As always, thanks for sharing your expertize. :)
Little - Thanks. I'm glad this article was helpful (you know how I am with lists...)
This is too true about after care. I love the fact we cuddle after a spanking, just as much as I love the spanking.
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