Meme: Spanking Preferences

I haven't done a meme in ages. I've seen this one all over SpankoLife.

1. Would you rather be spanked outside in a cold woodshed or inside by a cozy fire? Light my fire!


2. Would you rather be spanked in public or in private? There is so much more than can be explored in private.


3. Would you rather fantasize about spanking or actually be spanked? It don't mean a thing if it ain't got that sting!


4. Would you rather be spanked for your humiliation or for your spanker's pleasure? I am spanked for whatever purpose Randy chooses.


5. Would you rather be spanked by hand or by hairbrush? Yes, please.


6. Would you rather be spanked by belt or by cane? Neither would be my favorite, but I generally accept whatever gifts my man decides to share.


7. Would you rather be spanked by paddle or riding crop? Perhaps a little of each?


8. Would you rather be restrained or unrestrained during your spanking? We play with restraint sometimes, but it's not on the menu every time. Both are enjoyable.


9. Would you rather be spanked until you cried or until you are aroused? Probably neither. I almost never cry during a spanking, but I am often aroused by the time the first swat lands.


10. Would you rather have just a red bottom or welts/bruises? I think it depends upon the spanking. I don't bruise often and I would rather not have my skin broken, but short of that, he is free to whack away as he deems appropriate.


11. Would you rather be spanked for the naughty things you have done or just because you enjoy the experience? A big part of being submissive is letting someone else decide.


12. Would you rather be spanked with pants up/skirt down or pants down/skirt up? I like the progression of a gradual unveiling.


13. Would you rather be spanked with panties up or panties down? Same


14. Would you rather be spanked somewhat clothed or entirely naked? Both have their place, sometimes even within the same session.


15. Would you rather your spanking be strictly disciplinarian or sexually attractive in nature? All spankings, regardless of purpose, are sexual for us.


16. Would you rather be spanked by a male or by a female? Male, and one particular male at that.


17. Would you rather be cuddled or scolded after your spanking? Cuddled, of course.


18. Would you rather be spanked OTK or bent over a table/chair? Either is fine, but I bend over where I'm instructed. It heightens that whole delicious feeling of submission to allow my husband to spank me as he pleases.


19. Would you rather your spanker have physical contact with you? Yes, absolutely!


20. Would you prefer to be spanked in the woods with a tree branch, bent over the hood of a car, or in a school with a ruler bent over the desk of your teacher/principal? Each of them has it's own appeal, but the teacher roleplay is a classic.


21. Would you rather be a brat to your spanker to deserve a spanking or simply ask your spanker for a spanking because you know you needed it? I don't brat. It's not my style. I sometimes ask, but more often, Randy takes the lead on his own.


22. Have you received a spanking in the past week? Happily, I have.


23. Would you rather be spanked for the physical pleasure or the emotional release? I think they go hand in hand.


24. Would you rather tell your best friends you enjoy be spanked or keep it secret? Unless I know they are spankos, secret it must be.


25. Would you rather spanking be a lifestyle choice or just something you dabble in? I've written over 1,100 posts on the subject. I think that qualifies as a lifestyle.


26. Would you rather your lover be a vanilla or a spankoholic too? My lover is a spanko and I am grateful every day.


27. Would you rather be spanked by a stranger or by someone who knew you well? One particular someone who knows me really, really well. :)


28. Would you rather be spanked by despotic, mean person or by a compassionate, benevolent person? How about a compassionate and benevolent man who can act mean and despotic when the situation calls for it?


29. Would you rather be talked to while you are spanked or no talking at all? I love that talk. We recorded some of Randy's spanker monologue. Watch for it in a future post as soon as I get time to transcribe it.


30. Would you rather get one swat at a time with pauses to let the sting set in or a continuous tanning to build up the fire? I usually get a combination of both. Each has its place.


31. Would you rather be forced into a spanking or willingly submit into a spanking? I'll submit. I know the benefits outweigh the temporary discomfort of having a sore bottom.


32. Would you rather have a safe word or be pushed beyond your preconceived limits? I have a safeword and it is always honored, but that doesn't mean we can't push my limits sometimes.


33. Would you rather your spanker know your spanking history or is ignorance bliss? Randy IS my spanking history.


34. Would you rather be spanked by multiple people at one time or just by one person at one time? Just one.


35. Would you rather be spanked once a day or once every few months? One a day is probably too often for any extended period of time, but the other option would be unbearable.


36. Would you rather your spanker be deeply in tune or be totally unaffected to your experience as a spankee? I prefer a beautiful harmony.


37. Would you rather a closer physical relationship or a closer emotional relationship with your spanker? I need both.


38. Would you rather your spanker ice your bottom down after a spanking or send you to the corner to display his/her accomplishment? It's all good.


39. Would you rather your spanker be the person you wish to live the rest of your life with (i.e. marriage) or the person you can call on when your tushy tickles? My spanker is my husband and I cannot imagine a better arrangement.


40. Would you rather spanking be a part of love making or not a part of love making? Oh, yes. Spanking and lovemaking each make the other more enjoyable.


41. Would you rather your spanker have total control over you when you are being spanked or do you still want to have some control while you are being spanked? He can have control. If I need to bail out (a very rare occurrence, but it has happened), I have my safeword.


42. Would you rather be humiliated or respected during your spanking? While I think every human deserves a degree of basic respect, neither of those words describe how I wish to feel during a spanking. I want to feel loved, cared for, submissive, and connected.


43. Would you rather spanking become part of a bigger BDSM alternative lifestyle or spanking just be spanking for spanking sake? We're spankos. We sometimes spice up our play with some of the milder elements of BDSM, that doesn't change who we are.


44. Would you rather be filmed during a spanking to share your exhibitionist naughtiness or are you too modest to show your bum to the world? That wouldn't be our thing, though I have great respect and appreciation for those who do record and share their spankings.


45. Would you rather your spanking be gentle and gradual or painful and abrupt? It depends upon the spanking.


46. Would you rather be defiant or fearful going into a spanking? It's rare that I am either.


47. Would you rather be spanked exclusively in your own bedroom or anyplace else other than your own bedroom? Wherever we can clear a space!


48. Would you rather be spanked exclusively on your bottom or other places could be interesting too? I would prefer that he stick to spanking my bottom, but Randy sometimes likes to venture down onto my upper thighs where I'm not quite so well padded (ouch!)


49. Would you rather a spanking be a surprise or be something you have to look forward to? I look forward to Randy's surprises.


50. Would you rather spanking be a part of role playing kinkiness or a response to events that have happened in reality? Both, I think. We don't do discipline, per se, but real events will sometimes cause me to need a stress relief type of spanking. As for play, we live for those!