The post is aimed at the gentlemen out there. In particular, I’d like to direct my comments to the reluctant spankers. You know who you are. Your partner expressed an interest in being spanked, but she’s having a difficult time convincing you to do it. Your concerns – chivalry, lack of comprehension, potential impact on your relationship, or a desire to protect her – are quite understandable. Her request was unexpected and you probably weren’t prepared to answer the question at the moment she posed it.
Let’s take a big step back and look again at the subject from a slightly different vantage point. I can offer you fifty reasons why you might want to take her across your lap and indulge her dreams.
- The lovemaking afterward is often sensational
- Romantic spanking opens lines of communications
- There’s a community of spankos to provide support and advice
- Adult spanking is the most common of all kinks
- It can strengthen your relationship
- Just picture those beautiful globes over your lap...
- She's eager for this, really!
- Compared to childbirth, the pain of a spanking is trivial
- This is not punishment, think instead about spanking as foreplay
- Spanking builds trust between partners
- It's really OK to hit a woman, but only if she enjoys it
- This isn't weird or unusual, it's just another kind of sex
- You can be the strong, decisive man of her fantasies
- What's not to like?
- Do the initials B. J. hold any significance?
- Many couples include erotic spanking in their lovemaking
- Her dream can be your pleasure
- It's something fun you can do together
- You could make it a game
- Spankings can relax her
- If you don’t believe me, ask any other dedicated spanko
- Role play spankings are great fun
- If something doesn’t work, you don’t have to repeat it
- It isn’t about the pain, it’s about a shared experience
- This opens an exciting new chapter in your relationship
- Spankings promote greater physical and emotional intimacy
- Your willingness to try demonstrates your love for her
- It's wonderful to feel completely in love again
- With a safeword, she can tell you before things go truly wrong
- She's your lover - It's OK if your fingers wander southward
- The process of experimentation allows a couple to grow together
- It’s with you she wants to share this secret
- Spankings don’t have to be serious – You can laugh and joke
- Most women’s bottoms are well padded - real damage is unlikely
- Consensual spanking is not abuse
- Spanking is a huge turn-on for her – That can only be good for you!
- She won’t think that you’re mean if you’re doing as she asked
- You could get her to dress up for her spanking
- With a few simple rules, adult spankings are safe and fun
- Women are tougher than you think
- You can be her hero!
- You'll love how her skin grows warm and pink
- Hugs and kisses
- It’s wonderful to spoon after a spanking
- Make her smile – tease her about future spankings
- You can start small and simple
- She'll adore you all the more for listening to her needs
- Haven't you always wanted to threaten to "tan her hide?"
- It’s fun to collect and test various spanking implements
- If she didn't agree, she wouldn't have shown you this list!
Do you see what I mean? Adult spanking is hot stuff!
If you're ready to learn more, you might want to read a couple of brief tutorials such as Your First Spanking or Ten Newbie Spanko Suggestions. If you communicate with one another and follow a few simple rules, spanking your wife or girlfriend can be safe, fun, and fulfilling.
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