Good Advice #2: Sara

Periodically, I like to give you the opportunity to hear from a talented blogger who you might not know. Today's Good Advice segment comes from Sara. She recently published an well written and thought provoking essay entitled This Thing We Do.

Sara examines her own efforts to define a relationship in terms of the broader spectrum of human sexual behavior. She considers the role of power and control as it relates to spanking. Finally, Sara explains how this quest for understanding has evolved into self-discovery.

It's a great read and I hope you will take a look!

Good Advice #1: Introducing Spanking

I've written a number of tutorial articles. You can find them using the drop down box in the right column. The purpose of these posts is to share what I've learned about spanking and assist readers who are just getting started.

I enjoy writing these articles, and my mail and comments suggest that many visitors enjoy reading them. However, there are a few important topics about which I feel ill-prepared to write. The intent of this new Good Advice series is to help bridge that gap by linking excellent articles in other blogs.

In this inaugural Good Advice post, I direct your kind attention to a tutorial written by Michael from the Bare Bottom Spanking Blog. Michael provides four simple rules that will assist a gentlemen in convincing his female partner to try erotic spanking:

1. Be creative and have a plan


2. Be ginger


3. Hand spankings in the beginning


4. Be confident (NOT cocky), considerate, and communicative

I really like how Michael achieves a delicate balance that holds her interest without scaring her away. The sensitivity he describes is precisely what is needed to calm a partner's fears and build her trust.

I hope you'll check it out!