Showing posts with label Bonnie Asks. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bonnie Asks. Show all posts

Monday, September 12, 2022

What Do You Think?

I posted for 46 consecutive days, 47 if you count this one (though I don't). I admit that those posts weren't all spellbinding, but I think a few broke new ground.

Today, my list of spanking blog post ideas is empty.

I always considered MBS to be a community blog. Perhaps we have an opportunity to more fully realize that vision. Have you, dear reader, some good post suggestions to share? Is there any topic about which you've always wanted me to write? Have you spanking questions you would like me to answer? Or just something fun?

I would like to hear what you think. I invite you to leave a comment below or send an email message.

Thank you in advance for your insight!

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Bonnie Asks ...and You Respond

Thanks to everyone who contributed thoughtful, clever, unexpected, and humorous answers to my questions. Here are some of my favorites.

Question #1: Why do many men assume that all women with large, round bottoms must be into spanking and/or anal sex?

Answer #1 (Daisy): It has nothing to do with SIZE. If a woman has a bottom, men want to conquer it.

Too much conquering makes me sore!

Question #2: Does our spanking community contain a disproportionate number of very talented writers? If so, why?

Answer #2 (Raven Red): Being part of a community where your desires and fantasies are understood and appreciated makes writing easier.

Yes, it sure does...

Question #3: What is so humiliating about men wearing women's clothing?

Answer #3 (Emily): As long as they're happy, who cares?

That's an excellent point.

Question #4: Why do trolls attack some blogs/forums and not others?

Answer #4 (Dieseldiva): Trolls are just like the naughty child who repeatedly gets into trouble because any attention is better than no attention.

That's why the best way to get rid of a troll is to ignore them.

Question #5: I know there is a large segment of the spanko population that appreciates mature female spankees. However, this interest is rarely reflected in commercial spanking videos. Why?

Answer #5 (Emily): Because not everyone has been fortunate enough to see Erica Scott in her element.

If any video producers happen to be wandering through, please know there are lots of us who love to see energetic, intelligent quadragenarian and quintagenarian spankees (especially Erica!).

Question #6: Why do men (yes, more than one) want to buy my panties? Do they intend to wear them, frame them, or use them to strangle some sort of domestic poultry?

Answer #6 (Wordsmith): We all have our little hobbies, Bonnie. Any pink ones left?

I am wearing a pink cotton pair as I write this. But I still don't get it!

Question #7: Why would a top/dom think he can give orders to a bottom/sub who he doesn't even know?

Answer #7 (Erica): The short answer? Arrogance and inflated egos.

There seems to be a lot of that going around.

Question #8: Why are most spanko blogs authored by female bottoms? I've attempted to answer this question before, but it was pure speculation.

Answer #8 (Lea): I think women can be better at expressing their feelings and putting things into writing in order to make a blog enjoyed by many.

My speculation was along those lines.

Thanks, everyone, for making this concept worthwhile and fun!

Monday, March 21, 2011

Bonnie Asks

I have a long running series of posts called Ask Bonnie where I respond to questions submitted by readers. Sometimes, the results are informative. Other times, the questions and answers can get downright silly.

Today, I propose to reverse this process. I'd like to ask several questions of MBS readers. These are questions to which I truly don't know the answer, or maybe I do, but think it can't be as simple as that. So, I ask you, dear reader, to help solve these puzzles.

Question #1: Why do many men assume that all women with large, round bottoms must be into spanking and/or anal sex?

Question #2: Does our spanking community contain a disproportionate number of very talented writers? If so, why?

Question #3: What is so humiliating about men wearing women's clothing?

Question #4: Why do trolls attack some blogs/forums and not others?

Question #5: I know there is a large segment of the spanko population that appreciates mature female spankees. However, this interest is rarely reflected in commercial spanking videos. Why?

Question #6: Why do men (yes, more than one) want to buy my panties? Do they intend to wear them, frame them, or use them to strangle some sort of domestic poultry?

Question #7: Why would a top/dom think he can give orders to a bottom/sub who he doesn't even know?

Question #8: Why are most spanko blogs authored by female bottoms? I've attempted to answer this question before, but it was pure speculation.

What do you think? You don't have to answer all of these questions, but any insight you provide will be appreciated. In the process, perhaps we'll all learn something.