How do you reignite the spanking spark when time passes and it gets put by the wayside?
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I obviously have no answer, but I'll be reading what other have to say.
I hand him the paddle and tell him to get busy. A little topping from the bottom.
This happened to us a few years ago. After a prolonged absence of spanking, my husband set aside some time for the two of us to be alone. We went to a relative's unoccupied apartment and had some sexy fun that included spanking. After three day trips to the apartment, we both realized how much we had missed spanking and vowed never to let it fall by the wayside again.
I need some suggestions. Will be checking back in later.
My spark or even flame never goes out, it is always there. For my wife it is different because it does nothing for her but she knows it turns me on. We went through a long period of no sex or spanking because we drifted apart and i was not showing her any respect or giving her the love she needed. Once i sorted myself out and made her feel loved and cherished the red stripy bottom came back. I think it takes a very special person to put yourself through a spanking and caning because it enhances sex for your partner but she says because it turns me on it turns her on. I am a very lucky man.
BOB B
I have no real advice here, either. I have at times resorted to gentle jokes and reminders, but right now we are in a several-month lull. I'm not very inclined to "remind" him about spanking again, mostly due to my questioning of this lifestyle for us - first, because he is really a pure vanilla who only did this for me, and second, because of other bloggers who have apparently ddisappeared after saying that it saved their relationship ('Sara'). Makes me question the whole thing. Maybe it is just a fantasy that I am trying to live out in real life - and that may be asking too much.
Flaunt it ! Drum tight skirts, straining jeans, short skirts giving a flash of bare bot, a nicely timed bend over, will soon get your man's palm back in action.
That's a good question. We've gone in cycles where real life has postponed spanking action, and then eventually picked it back up. I don't really remember anything in particular as having reignited it.
I think it's one of those "out of sight, out of mind" things -- if we don't do it for long enough, we'll forget about it. As soon as one of us remembers, the flame is back on and the butt on fire again.
oh please do share...
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