Have you used a mirror or mirrors to enhance or intensify your spanking experience? If so, how did it change your perception of the spanking? If not, is this a practice you might consider trying?
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I have had that experience a few times. I found it arousing and enhancing the spanking experience. Would love to outfit my house with them, but it wouldn't go with the rest of the decor.
We have not purposely done this, however we have had a lot of sessions in the bathroom where we have a large mirror (by coincidence mainly). I admit I enjoy seeing the look on her face in the mirror during the festivities.
I have not used a mirror during a spanking, but I would like to have that experience in the future.
Never used a mirror. But now that you mention it. It could be a nice experience.
Have not used a mirror but it's something I've been wanting to try. Maybe soon.
Yes, occasionally rather than on a regular basis.
J, my other half and spankee, has a particular penchant for doing so when away from home, usually staying in hotel. Apparently becoming a DIY voyeur 'makes her feel naughtier', heightens the intensity of the experience and is 'a massive turn-on'.
Have not used a mirror, but I think it would be interesting...I would like to see not only my reactions, but also the look on Mater's face.
abby
Mirrors...yes, have used them..for some reason, watching myself be spanked, I find it kind of freaky. Other watched mirrored acts don't bother me..*shrugs* just one of those things :o)
Like several of the others, we have not used a mirror but it might be fun to try it someday.
I was just thinking about that the other day, how intense that would be. And No, we have not. Yet.
I have been on the receiving end whilst in front of some large mirrors. For hand spanking and the like I did not find that it made much of a difference but during a hard but slow paced caning it did up the adrenalin levels, before impact, as I watched the impending stroke coming in.
Prefectdt
My first reaction was " why would you want to do that?" It never has occurred to me that Mr. FH cant see my face when he is spanking me- or at least spanking my ass. It may be fun to watch him spank me. Another item for the bucket list.
Um...no and I don't think I would want that visual. Not because of my bottom, its okay considering its age......but it is bad enough feeling a spanking......for erotic spanking that might be different......no, I don't think I am on board for that one.
There must be a Puritan in my family tree hiding somewhere. :)
Oooo good idea. I shall add that to the Want To Do List. :)
Oh gosh...I would hate that. It would be very embarrassing for me. I do often use a mirror to check damage afterward, though.
On a ski trip last year, we were surprised to find the wall behind the bed was one large mirror and there was a sink and mirror withangled side panels off to the right side of the bed. I saw a great opportunity here! I enticed him to spank me, erotically, while I was draped over his lap and facing the headboard of the bed. I can't remember exactly, but I do recall that if I got up a bit on all fours looked up at the mirror behind the bed, I could see my bottom turning pink! I really liked this!! Btw, I would not have liked doing that a few years ago, but over time I've become more accepting of my love of spanking and I like to inspect the aftereffects.
I also have thought of bending over and resting my arms on the counter in the bathroom so that I could look up and watch my own reaction to a spanking. A side benefit would be that he could see my facial contortions, too. I'd like to try it this way one day, especially for a paddling caning, or belt spanking.
This is making me think of pictures and videos, too. Have you ever asked how many people take pictures or video of a spanking or its aftereffects?
I love mirrors! Ludwig and I have used mirrors in our play, so that I could watch what was going on. Watching what is happening in a mirror can enhance the anticipation and add an additional sexiness to a scene. I also love to use mirrors in pictures and clips. In my opinion a mirror can offer very special and unique perspectives. This is an example of a setup which I liked very much. (I hope it is okay to post a link.)
I love being punished while being able to see various perspectives of my ever-reddening bottom! Though I usually detest corner-time after I've been spanked, once my lover made me stand with my hot butt pressed against the cool surface of a full length mirror; the lovemaking afterward was spectacular!
Jean Marie
Yes, two homes back, we had one entire wall of the DR mirrored to make the room seem larger. It had other benefits. We mirrored a whole wall in the BR in our last home. Even more fun. Missing our reflections in the new place.
Somewhat like Spanky we have a dresser with a large mirror on it. If I am bent over my side of the bed in the right spot then I am staring into that mirror. So, it has happened just because of time and place..not planned. There is something a little erotic about it when it happens:)
I've been spanked in front of a mirror, not really on purpose, but the room had those mirrored closet doors. It makes me really self conscious and I don't like looking at myself so didn't care for it.
Many, many years ago I visited a lady for punishment and her entire wall facing the caning bench was mirrored. It was a surreal experience, watching this thigh-booted lady swinging the cane - so much so that I was engrossed watching her, rather than concentrating on my painful experience. Mistress and I have no mirrored walls in our home. We wouldn't wish to detract from the severity of a punihsment session, lol!
Last year was the first time P made me watch myself being spanked. Haven't done it again since but would like to.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
Davey has made me watch as he has spanked me on more than one occasion. He finds it sexy, and interesting, he can also gauge better how much impact he is having on my attitude that way!! He can always tell the impact on my bottom while spanking, but seeing my facial reaction apparently is even more enlightening in other ways!
I found it too embarrassing for it to be sexy though! xxx
Ive never experienced this, but for me it would something that would be effective for discipline. I dont think id LIKE it, but cant say I dont think it would make an impression.
The thought had crossed my mind from time to time. But I never acted on it. Although, due to the recent video done by Pandora Blake involving a mirror, I am giving the idea a more serious look.
I was given a reminder spanking in the bathroom once, bent over the counter. I looked up and caught our reflections in the mirror over the sink and it was WAY too intense...I had to close my eyes.
Sounds exciting, to be able to watch my nice white bottom turn into a nice red bottom, and it would give me warning of the approach of the hand, paddle or whatever just before it landed, so I could make sure my naughty cheeks were nicely presented. S
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