Recap:MBS Sunday Brunch for June 3

Our topic of the week was insructions given before, during, and after a spanking. Here are your responses.

Joeyred: One of my favorite spankers makes me stand in the corner before I am spanked. She tell me that I am allowed to say only five things while being spanked: “No Ma'am,” “Yes Ma'am,” “I am sorry Ma'am,” “Thank you Ma'am,” and “No excuse Ma'am.” I must repeat all five phrases perfectly before I am spanked. Next, I am told to drop my pants and get in position.

This ritual is performed in a fun way and she will often giggle waiting for me to respond.

Dragon's Rose: It depends upon the kind of spanking. For a scene, he usually goes over safe words one more time and lets me pick the position. For punishment, first comes the lecture, then he undresses me and puts me in the position he chooses. After is always the same – Cuddle time!

Sadey Quinn: Counting! Counting makes a spanking completely different, at least for me.

Especially if I'm required to count each spank *before* it happens. I hate (love) that. ;)

Abby: It varies. Sometimes, I have to sincerely ask for the spanking. Sometimes, I have to count and thank Him for each swat. I always need permission before I may get up again.

Spanking Tube: It is very exciting, even more exciting than spanking. Before punishment, I like to a scold a little. I explain the reason for the punishment and fix a number of strokes. After the spanking session, I order my submissive wife to stay in the corner with hands behind her neck.

Public Spanking: We like the silence. We do not talk during a spanking session. In particular, I am delighted by the sound of whips and the moans of my wife when my hands impact on her ass.

Lolli: I'm new on the blog scene. I wanted to to introduce myself as I have been a "quiet" fan for a while now! Yes, I've been a "lurker," but I finally found the gumption to start my very own blog! It's a work in progress, but I would love for you to visit. I'm so very happy to be here!

We're happy you're here as well, Lolli!

Betty: What I have to do, and I hate, is to get the implement. My legs feel really heavy, then almost lame. It's strange, because I generally agree with being spanked and enjoy it.

Hermione: I am often told to be quiet during a spanking. I find this difficult as I like to express my appreciation vocally. This makes for a completely different experience as I struggle to stay silent.

After a spanking, I might be asked to do any one of a number of delightfully erotic things. I always comply enthusiastically.

S: I get spanked often. For D, giving me a spanking makes his day, and although I would not always admit it, I get quite a kick from it even though I am left with a smarting bottom, and sitting problems!

He does not always spank me on the bare, but sometimes over my skirt, jeans or panties. He does insist that my bottom is at just the right tightness. If it is too slack, such as lying flat on my tummy, my bottom wobbles everywhere, and does not absorb much sting. On the other hand, if it is too tight, such as grasping my ankles, my bottom is too tight to jiggle, and with my hip bones near the surface, my spanking can leave lasting marks. I have to bend over just as he wants me, so that my ample bottom bounces and quivers as each spank lands, and also absorbs a very lively sting.

I often spend time bent over awaiting my spanking as he orders, "A bit tighter please," "Pull your knees in," "Hollow your back," "Clench your cheeks," or "Spread your legs," until he has my poor bottom exactly as he wants it. If I move out of pose as he spanks, there is a pause whilst he repositions me. The preparations are exciting, as are the final results, and the "afters" are even better.

Riley: Each time is different for us, but I a, always to wait for his instruction. He tells me what position and when. He tells me to stop squirming or to prop myself up more. Often, he'll ask me questions during the spanking.

When he's nearing the end, he usually sets up some sort of formula in his head (he won't tell me what it is) and tells me to pick a number. He plugs the number into the formula, and that indicates many more I get. So yes, I am told what to do. After it's over, I'm told to get up and hug him. Sometimes, I then go back over his knee for lotion, depending upon the circumstances.

Ronnie: It depends on the type of spanking. Sometimes, I'm told to go up to the office, face the wall and wait for him. On occasions, I have to count each spank. For punishment, I'm told to face him while he lectures and tells me why I'm being spanked and how he's going to spank me.

Lea said: For punishment, I've had to stand in the corner prior to the spanking starting, and sometimes again afterward.

In general, I'm usually told to take my pants down before the spanking begins and what position to get into depending upon what implements might be used.

All of these ritualistic sort of things help me get in the right headspace for what is happening. If it's a just for fun spanking, some of these might still happen, but it's more likely we will just go with the flow of how we're feeling.

Daisy: It varies. We don't really have a ritual, as with the distance problem, spankings are few and far between. Sometimes, I have to count. More often than not, I have to place myself in position, almost always bare bottomed (We've never warmed up over clothes!). I sometimes have to fetch the implement and present it to him. I always have to stay in position. I can be vocal, but I am not allowed to move.

The rules he makes for each spanking, whether the regular rules or new ones, have the effect of conveying that he has control. This is not always appreciated by me, but it IS damn sexy!

Julia: Prior, I might be told to go and get "ready" (that means naked and in position). He has told me to go into the bedroom and just wait. This isn't quite like corner time, but it is pretty nerve wracking at times.

Afterward, I always have to thank him for my spanking and ask permission to give him a blow job. :D

Ana: A routine that I liked, but we don't do any more, is that I would be told to go take a shower, change into a special short white dress that we only used for my spankings, and then to come back for my spanking. I'd have to ask very nicely and politely to please spank me very hard... and D would do so. Afterward, I would be sent to the corner. Very ritualistic, we were. :P

Bonnie: The short answer is yes, definitely.

Before a spanking, Randy may instruct me to dress (or undress) in a particular way, shower, lay out implements and toys, or position myself per his specifications.

During a spanking, he tells me to hold still (not always easy), change position, fetch an implement, or temper my screaming. Occasionally, he wants me to count or answer questions.

After a spanking, he is quite fond of a particular sex act. That opens the door for all sorts of fun to follow. For a change of pace, I may be asked to stand and display his handiwork. But that's just more preparation.

Thank you all for participating!