Saturday, February 11, 2012

MBS Spanko Brunch #317

Valentine's Day is a time for lovers to rekindle their romance and set the night ablaze. Our discussion this week deals with the role of spanking in this celebration.

In your relationship(s) and experience, can spankings be romantic? If so, what elements of spanking contribute to a romantic evening? If not, could you imagine a spanking being given in this context?

In case anyone is new to brunch (welcome!), here's how it works. Everyone who wishes to answer our question enters their responses as comments below. Anonymous contributions are welcome, so long as they are respectful and on topic. Once all of the thoughts are recorded, I publish an edited summary of our conversation. I look forward to hearing what you have to say.

16 comments :

Country Spanker said...

We like a romantic spanking, Mrs CS dictates this one (and only this one) we both have to be naked she goes over my knee while I am sat on the bed. Have to start off slowly and there has to be alot of rubbing which she does not usually get.I have to carry until she is ready. Don't worry there will be no pics x

sunnygirl said...

Spankings are most always part of our foreplay. It can be butt spanking, nipple spanking, pussy spanking - all done with lots of touching and kissing. Talking about and anticipation of can also be very romantic.

CurtisG said...

All of my spankings, mostly giving and some taking, are either romantic or playful. That's spanking's allure for me.

Riley said...

Spankings are a big part of our romantic life. Sometimes they are playful, he'll pat me as I'm cooking or walking by him. He'll even make it into a game sometimes, I have to do something challenging and he usually makes it 100% impossible for me to carry through, it's often something like "balance this on your head and then jump up and down." Of course it ends in a spanking! ;) Other times it's less of a game and I go over his knee and get a combination of gentle spanks and caresses which is lovely. It's enough to show that he's the dom but still a very nice and soothing atmosphere.

Anonymous said...

All of ours are for foreplay so, yes, definitely romantic & always a turn-on!

Make Mine Red

Hermione said...

For us, spankings are an expression of love, and every one has some element of romance about it.

OldFashionedGirl said...

Spanking is foreplay and fun, but not romantic. For me they oil and water. Or do I mean oil and vinegar?

R Humphries said...

Hi Guys … … As MBJ and I’s spanking life is predominately of a role-playing, theatrical, and erotic nature I believe that we both find our play-times entirely romantic … Wishing y’all a Happy Valentines day … Cheers … RH

Daisychain said...

Our spankings are sometimes fun, sometimes downright hilarious, and sometimes serious- either maintenance or punishment. Even some maintenance ones are fun.... Maybe its me and my definition of romantic, but simply because the whole spanking thing came into being from my request, I consider there to be romance in every one. There is ALWAYS aftercare, which is so romantic; depending on the severity of the spanking, the aftercare ranges from rubbing and kissing and just gentle touching, to cool washcloths, lotion, reassuring cuddles and pillowtalk with many I love yous..... Oh, I LOVE ttwd!!! xxx

Anonymous said...

My good girl spankings are pure foreplay and so are the epitome of romantic!
Jean Marie

Spanky said...

Most of our spankings are of the erotic or romantic variety. Spanking brings about a real feeling of closeness with all the touching, stroking, etc. And the endorphins it produces are very beneficial as well, I think.

Poppy said...

I think romance is about reconnection, understanding and he kind of unspoken moments of love that pass between two people and I think spanking often has this kind of romance. It about being accepted, loved and understood for being just who and what you are. It is about the other person wanting to be the best they can be for you. It is about finding a home in another person's arms that you never knew you missed. I think spanking is very often romantic, for all these reasons but messy, real romance, not the Hallmark/ all for profit kind.

ronnie said...

Our spankings are a mixture of erotic, fun and serious and I would say all of them are in some ways romantic especially after with the cuddling, rubbing of the lotion, touching and stroking.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Loki_Darksong said...

Oh yes! Very much so! Spankings can be very romantic. For example, after an evening out, I love it when my wife dresses up in nothing more than an over-sized men's shirt and a pair of panties. Our play begins with her over my lap with a long spanking that begins over her panties and progresses to her bare.

It is sometimes difficult to put the emotions of that spanking into words. There is passion behind it. Not the type found in play spankings. It is hard. It is lengthy. But there is a warmth that goes with it. You can feel her arousal with every yelp and squirm and jerk of her body. The cooing sound she makes when I stop for a moment to stroke her rear. And then the look in her eyes when her clothing is removed.

You can use your imagination for the rest, but I believe that you can see my point. And lest we not forget that there once was a fertility holiday that spanking of a sort played an important role. The Lupercalia. A very interesting holiday indeed. Look it up an you will see why.

Saoirse said...

It is always romantic. An alpha wolf, He demands my submission and writes His dominance on my flesh.

Lea said...

Spankings can certainly be romantic and sensual. It's really the tone and headspace of the spanking that changes that for me, the physical intensity of it can still vary from light to harder. If implements are used, I definitely prefer leather to wood. :-)

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