Saturday, June 04, 2011

MBS Spanko Brunch #281

It's time for another weekend discussion about our very favorite topic. Our question of the week was contributed by our good friend Season.

During and after a hand spanking, do you think that the spanker's hand hurts more, about the same, or less than the spankee's bottom? Does the duration or intensity of a spanking have any bearing on your answer?

If you would like to share your response (and I hope you will), just add it as a comment below. As usual, I will post an edited summary of our conversation on Sunday.

21 comments :

morningstar said...

Personally I think it has a lot to do with the spanker's hand - and how "tough" it is. I have had a number of different people spank my ass.. by hand....... and only one person said his hand didn't hurt afterwards. In most of my spankings the hand gives out before my ass (cheeky grin)

morningstar

xantu said...

Oh Master complains... says sissy things like my bottom is hard? hard??? But I am not buying it. There is no question that my ass hurts worse than his hand. I know this because I have often offered to switch places with him and he has never once taken me up on that offer.

Uncle Nick said...

The palm tingles after a good walloping, but nowhere near as much as the bottom that has just been corrected. It isn't that tingling which leads me to bring a spanking to a close, rather it is that my arm invariably starts to ache and grow tired form all the exertion.

Raven Red said...

I am sorry, but I believe that Uncle Nick's hand is made out nothing else than iron. There is NO way that his hand can even come close to what my bottom is feeling after he has gotten hold of it.

After reading his comment here - I think I will propose a game of squash or tennis before the spanking. Maybe would assist in the arm tiring thing, and a lessor ouchy bottom afterwards.

sixofthebest said...

Hot diggerdy dog of a question Bonnie, So here is me 'biting' on that yummy, yummy, question you so beautifully depict with musturd and sauerkraught. If I use my hand to spank my naughty lady, I find it would soon hurt my hand, so I switch to my old-reliable cane, and parden this expression with satisfying 'relish'.

Rob said...

My spouse starts out with her hand, but says it stings too much after a few minutes and switches to some other implement (typically the paddle) to finish up.

CurtisG said...

I am a switch. But I only use my hand as a spanker and I only let my partner use her hand when spanking me. Since my approach is to deliver (and receive) stinging pleasure, the level of spanking as a spanker very much depends on my partner's desires. Most of the time it's at a level that I can go all day and night without damage to my hand. But I did play with a woman who wanted to be spanked very hard and after about 20 minutes I developed a blister on my hand -- long before she was sated.

Hermione said...

I would expect that the pain is the same for both parties. The only difference is that the spankee seeks that pain, while for the spanker it is a necessary evil. It's hard to say for certain since everyone perceives pain differently.

When a spanking continues for some time, my bottom becomes dulled to the pain and doesn't hurt as much. I don't know if that same numbing effect would happen to a hand. Ron sometimes complains about hurting his hand on my bottom, but lengthy spankings are done with implements, so I can't ask him whether his hand hurts more or less with increased duration.

Michelle Carlyle said...

I have no idea because I've never spanked anyone. Do I care? No. I want what I want. I think I'll tell Hubby this. I think a saucy look in my eye combined with a nasty grin and the words, "I don't care if your hand hurts, suck it up," should earn me an extra good whacking. HEEEE!!!!! I'm a baaaad girl.

Kingspan said...

One of the things I enjoy about spanking with my hand rather than an implement is the shared sensation. However, I think the bottom gets the much larger share of the sting, despite the old cliche that "this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you."

Michael said...

I would say it depends on the individuals involved because if the spankee is Erica Scott her bionic butt, as Devlin O'Neill has christened it from personal experience, can wear out the most ardent spanker's hand. For me I would say Season's bottom hurts more than my hand because after a while my hand numbs up and while I can still feel the spanks they no longer hurt my hand. KInda makes it like the Energizer Bunny where I can go on, and on, and on...

Anonymous said...

I have a JLo/Kim Kardasian bubble butt that can take a lot of spanking. My lover has a touch of arthitis in his hands, although he's a youthful man in his 50's. We both like hand spankings over using implements for the mutualality of the experience (though I get it with implements frequently too). All that said, Keiter is a maniac, who can always spank me into submission (pun intended). His hand wins out over my backside every time, and I love what his hand does to my bottom!
Jean Marie

Daisychain said...

My bottom definitely hurts more that Daveys hand!
One time he spanked me with just his hand, and I had quite beautiful bruises that lasted several days...his hand was fine!
(We don't usually like bruises, but there was a particular purpose to that spanking and I was quite proud of them!)xxx

Anonymous said...

BBH has never complained about his hand hurting, even long after I've said my bottom does!He normally changes to an implement after the warm up, so probably doesn't have to worry about any tenderness on his palm.

dd

bree512 said...

Well, it depends on the spanker's use of the hand, intensity and duration. It also depends on the spankers strength in their hands, how big their hands are and what they actually do with their hands for a living. I can go pretty hard and long into a spanking with the hand. I have never had anyone who has spanked me said their hand was tired. It also depends on the soreness of the bottom before the spanking has started. I have only given in once. I was too sore to have agreed to be spanked. That has never happened again.

For me, as a spanker, my hand never has hurt but my arm ususally does after a while. Good thing I can spank with both hands then. Hehe.

All in all, if the technique of the spanker is correct for that particular bottom, the bottom will definitely hurt more.

You are making me hungry! I hope the menu was not inspired by Senator Weiner.

Lea said...

I'd say my bottom hurts much more than the top's hand would. I'm not a very hard player so would usually be worn out sooner than they had the chance to do much damage to their hand. But I don't really have much sympathy for a top with a sore arm/hand anyway. :-P

Mockingbird said...

Pssht I'm in so much pain at the end I never even thought about *his* hand. I'm pretty sure my bottom hurts worse.

SPANKEDHORTIC II said...

One that I can answer from both sides of the coin.

I think it very much depends on the spanker and what they do with their hands in normal life. I have been hand spanked by women who could go on for ever and seemed to suffer no ill effects to their palms and I have been spanked by women who had to give it up for a toy, after less than five minutes, as their hands where very sore.

I do not switch often but when I do I have no great ill effects from giving an extended hand spanking as so many years of hands on horticulture have left me with palms that have been compared to leather, on a few occasions.

Prefectdt

Emily Winters said...

Never spanked anyone..sure would like to! Any volunteers?
You know that saying This is going to hurt me more than it hurts you? All I can say is I hope so, because I have had some seriously painful hand spankings. Those glancing swats designed to sting, and the more thuddy ones that sink in way down deep. Of course I have a tiny bum so that could explain it...at any rate,I have to admit to a certain feeling of satisfaction to see Nigel wringing his hand during and after a particularly lengthy one! Hehe
Emily

Season said...

Here's an experiment to try. Smack your bare bottom with your own hand. Which stings more? In my case, my hand hurts more. Maybe I just have a wimpy hand -- good thing I'm not a top! *grin*

Pink said...

Well, he's never spanked me 'til he was crying, so I'm going to have to go with "the butt hurts more".

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