Fifty Reasons to Ask Your Husband or Boyfriend to Spank

One of the most popular MBS posts ever was a list entitled Fifty Reasons to Spank Your Wife or Girlfriend. According to my statistics, it has been viewed over 322 thousand times since April, 2007.

I've never worried too much about people borrowing my ideas, especially when I'm the one doing the borrowing. So, in this spirit of creative cloning, I present a new companion list directed at our interested but reluctant spankees.

1. It's an activity you can enjoy together


2. It's fun to have a secret passion


3. Many spanking implements can double as unique decorations


4. His expression of manliness is a real turn-on


5. Lots of real people enjoy this kink (look at the blogroll --->)


6. It only hurts for a while, then it's sexy!


7. It's nice to follow rather than lead once in a while


8. His hand. Your bottom. Enough said.


9. You'll never feel more connected as a couple than after a spanking and lovemaking


10. Spanking is the perfect foreplay


11. Every once in a while, it's good to be bad


12. You've been interested for years and this feeling isn't likely to go away


13. This is a way to show him how deep your trust runs


14. You can at long last share your wildest dreams and fantasies


15. He can help you bring those fantasies to life


16. If there is sex involved, he won't say no


17. You can share your discoveries and triumphs in this wonderful cyber-spanko community


18. It's fun to tease


19. You can go toy shopping together


20. Like many activities, spanking is even better when you're naked


21. The warm feeling afterward is fantastic


22. There are lots of blogs and sites to help him understand this interest of yours


23. It can be another delicious flavor of lovemaking


24. Don't you love his commanding voice?


25. Many spanking positions are also fine lovemaking positions


26. Maybe he'll ask you to sign the paddle


27. It's fun to go out on the town with a secret glow


28. Speaking of glow, a slow, sensuous spanking by candlelight is amazing


29. There's no good reason to put this off any longer


30. You can surprise him by dressing up for your spankings


31. Spanking Poker sounds like a good time


32. It's fun to check in the mirror afterward


33. Lots of cool people are into spanking


34. It's an aerobic exercise


35. Pink is so your color


36. It's exciting to unleash his inner beast


37. This can be a shared learning experience


38. That knowing look while in a public place is the best


39. When you give him that little hip shake, he'll know exactly what you mean


40. Adult spanking when done properly is quite safe


41. Spankings can be a tremendous stress reliever


42. It's fun to experiment and discover what you like


43. Snuggling has never been better


44. This innovation could open a whole new chapter in your relationship


45. Get your money's worth out of that hairbrush


46. Best pillow talk ever


47. He might surprise you in a very good way


48. Every time you sit afterward, you'll be reminded of his wicked touch


49. Those romance novel heroines always appreciated a good spanking


50. If you've read this far, you must truly want to be spanked

If you're now convinced, I invite you to browse some of our tutorials in preparation for sharing your secret. Good luck and happy spankings!