Saturday, May 21, 2011

MBS Spanko Brunch #279

Happy weekend! It's been a long week for Randy and me and this respite is most welcome. For reasons that have nothing to do with kink, I have not been spanked in over a week. That makes me sad. Our question this week deals with similar situations.

It has been one week since you last spanked or were spanked, what are your feelings?
  1. I'm thrilled that I spanked/got spanked just a week ago!
  2. I'm proud that I've made it through an entire week without needing to spank/be spanked
  3. I'm glad because that last week's spanking was horrible for both of us
  4. I'm confused because I thought we would be spanking more often
  5. I'm disappointed because I miss our spankings
  6. I'm anxious because we've had no stress relief
  7. I'm apathetic because we haven't had our motivational sessions
  8. I'm unhappy because we didn't get what we need to function as a couple
  9. I feel none of these because this schedule is normal for us
  10. I feel something else...
Please tell us how you would feel by entering your thoughts in a comment. Once everybody has shared their answers, I will post an edited summary.

27 comments :

Sara said...

Hmm, I think I will go with:

8. I'm unhappy because we didn't get what we need to function as a couple

We have a whole lot of work stress and family stress going on all at once, and while I think (?) I was spanked maybe 4 or 5 days ago, there's no spanking able to happen for the next few days. It's become such an important tool for connection for us,and it's hard when we can't do what we need to.

I hope YOU get what you need soon!

sixofthebest said...

If I don't spank a naughty lady on the bare bottom once a week, I feel my week was at a loss. But I try my best to double the pleasure the following week. Which jumps my sexual erotic pleasure greatly.

HEDONE said...

Up until the last 10 days or so, I was not getting regular spankings. I craved them. My partner wanted to spank me badly but our situation, timing, and commitments left us no time. I would for two weeks or three without a spanking. So I will answer based on those feelings. Now I get a spanking 2 or 3 times a week. KinkyGent would like to spank me daily.

Answer:

8. I'm unhappy because we didn't get what we need to function as a couple.

-H

Steel Rose said...

Work, life and other commitments have interfered with spanking. This isn't the end of the world, because I'm learning that DD is so much more than spanking when a few words from him brings obedience... but still, I would say I'm a 6: I'm anxious because we've had no stress relief.

Nick said...

9. Our schedule is varied but a week between spankings for the girl is about a minimum. Last time was Thursday. Next time I see her will be Thursday. The girl is worth waiting for. I just need to find a way for the pain to last all week :)

Rogue said...

For me, it's a combination of 6) anxious because I've had no stress relief which leaves us both 8) unhappy we didn't get to function as a couple.

Velvet said...

Combination of 5 and 9 for me.

9 because we rarely see each other more than once a week and spanking may not be on the cards when we do meet as we enjoy lots of other fun things too.

5 because although it's normal for us to be apart I do still feel disappointed as I love the physical contact, and I miss both him and the spanking.

Velvet <3

Uncle Nick said...

Probably feeling pleased that I have had a quiet week without madam being her usual provocative self.

Raven Red said...

Number 10 for me.
I had a paddling last week - and I fear the paddle the most. So I am relieved that it is over, but seeing that it is attached to a diet - I am already panicking about not making target this week. I truly do not want to be paddled again soon...

Hermione said...

9. This schedule is normal for us, but

1. I'm thrilled that I spanked/got spanked just a week ago,

and I'm looking forward to the next one, which will happen very soon.

Anonymous said...

It's about time for another spanking! :)

S.N.M. said...

Well, that certainly made my week. Let's see if we can try for at least twice over the next seven days.

just a girl said...

Although this schedule is rather normal for us it makes me pout and we try to get together more often. When it is a week or more I am a combination of 5) disappointed and pouty, 6) because I feel lost without his physical control and 8) because we connect so well.

I'm heading into another period of drought that may last more than a week and I'm already anxious. Boo!

Daisychain said...

I am afraid its 9 and 10 for me. We are still living in different countries, so 9 is the one; as a result, I feel other things... disconnected, lonely, sad, adrift, but I hang on to the hope that it will not be too much longer...within another year?? xxxxxxx

Anonymous said...

#11 I feel something else - intense grief for the unexpected death of my dear lover. He spanks me almost every night as a prelude to sex. If I have a late after-school activity, and we can't squeeze in a brief tanning and a quickie, we make up for it the next night with a barn-burner of a session. I'm a lucky, happy girl who is convinced that sitting confortably is vastly over-rated.
Jean Marie

Lea said...

1.I'm thrilled that I spanked/got spanked just a week ago!

5.I'm disappointed because I miss our spankings.

And this week I'm really feeling 6.I'm anxious because we've had no stress relief.

Mockingbird said...

Definitely 6. I get very anxious and moody if I go a whole week without my husband spanking me. It's a huge stress relief for him too.

Anonymous said...

6
definitely 6

i find i need the stress relief a spanking gives both of us. i asked him last night when he thought he might spank me again, but he was very noncomittal :-(
Anne

Anonymous said...

It would mostly be #5 "I'm disappointed because I miss our spankings" for me. That definitely sums it up. I like 2-3 a week, so once a week is disappointing & I definitely miss it!

Make Mine Red

bree512 said...

Number 1 for me.

Anonymous said...

I would worry that my partner had found another woman to spank!
So when I next saw her I would have to confront the bitch.

ronnie said...

It would be a combination of number 5 and 8 for me.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Pink said...

Mine is a combination of 1 and 9: thrilled that I was spanked just a week ago, but also that it's normal for us. I won't ever take my relationship for granted. I always feel fortunate to have been spanked, and look forward to the time that D & I can be together. Would I like it more? Of course! But it's just not possible, with our distance and schedules.

sixofthebest said...

Bonnie, I would like to ask a question of you, which is not related to that question above. Are we in the 'Golden Age', of 'Spanking Blogs'.At the Zenith of such blogs, or do we have a lot further to go, when having a 'spanking good time.

SPANKEDHORTIC II said...

I have to go with number 1.

Spankings do not happen that often for me. Four times in a year is pretty average. More than that and I am a very happy bunny indeed. One week is not all that long and usually I have played hard enough to still feel a few twinges when I sit, after only one week, which is nice.

Prefectdt

Michelle Carlyle said...

5) I waaaannnnnaaa be spanked!!! Where is he??? Actually, I was on vacation with my cousin, he's been working hard and playing hard. But not fucking me hard. BUMMER. Soon, hopefully, and definitely something to look forward to. Yay! Sex and spanking in my future! (wish is was NOW)

Anonymous said...

I totally miss it when I don't get my spanking so I'll go with #5. Having my bare bottom over his knee and feeling the much needed discipline is what I crave. The long lasting twinges that go on all evening are even better. Reminds me why I was over his knee in the first place.

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