Saturday, April 30, 2011

MBS Spanko Brunch #276

Happy weekend, my friends, and welcome back! Our topic for this brunch was suggested by Kingspan.

How would you define the term "spanko?"

I would like to hear what you think. To respond, just enter your thoughts in the form of a comment below. Once we're finished, I will post an edited summary.

18 comments :

Hermione said...

A spanko is someone who derives sexual pleasure from the act of spanking. It may include giving spankings, receiving them, seeing them, reading about them, other spanking-related activities, or all of the above.

Uncle Nick said...

I don't like the term, but then again I don't like being called a dom or a top because that suggests that I am akin to an actor playing a role and I am not. That caveat aside, a spanko is a chap who upends women when they need taking in hand. Next question please!

James said...

Hermione said it perfectly, nothing else to say. I guess it's the same for Males as Females, we all have that common bond.
Great question, great answer!!

OnHerKnee said...

Hermione describes it well. The only thing I would add is a spanko is someone who's brain runs to different, interesting and possibly wild tangents when we here the word 'spanking' and consider it far more than what one sports team gave to another with a lopsided score.

morningstar said...

A spanko - for me - is someone who enjoys receiving a spanking on the occasion. To be truthful - until I started to look for definitions for different sorts of things I didn't realize there were "spankos" in the world.......

I guess (in my warped mind) a spanko enjoys an over the knee spanking and nothing more (in the way of pain I mean)

Anonymous said...

Hermoine said it concisely for me. I hope no one has to feel isolated and alone in this fetish anymore, as I once did before discovering this community. Go spankos!
Jean Marie

xantu said...

Not a lot to add... though it is not a term I use often... spankable... spankish... spankisms... spanktastic... spanker... spankee... we need to create a whole new lexicon.

sixofthebest said...

I agree with Hermoine 100% percent

ronnie said...

Can't really add anything, Hermione said it perfectly for me.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Daisychain said...

Yup. Hermione answered it pretty comprehensively! Though I don't compartmentalise what we do by giving it a name...I feel I am just an ordinary, normal person, not a "spanko"....
I actually don't consider spanking as a fetish, or anything like that. It is just an activity/way of life that brings a couple closer and more intimate with each other, and strengthens the bond of trust and communication. What's kinky about that? xxxxxx

Raven Red said...

Oh, that would be me! Hermione basically got it all down, eh...typical me, I have even found the "formal" definition in support on the web. (GRIN)

Spankos - Erotic spanking is the act of spanking another person for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spankos

or

Spanko - A person with a fetish for spanking, usually but not exclusively sexual.
en.wiktionary.org/wiki/Spanko

SPANKEDHORTIC II said...

As a (mostly) non sex player I have to disagree that it always has to be about sexual pleasure (OK, I'll admit it, I'm in it for the endorphins). I think that my definition goes like this.

Spanko = anyone who derives any sort of pleasure from giving or receiving spankings or other sorts of corporal punishment between consenting adults.

Prefectdt

Lea said...

I agree with Spankedhortic, it's certainly not always sexual.

Michelle Carlyle said...

Deferring to Hermione.

Spanking Desire said...

I think I would define 'spanko' as someone who is into spanking, whether it be pleasurable or disciplinary.

Michael said...

Hermione and Prefectdt sum it up best. It is pleasure and fulfillment which satisfies physical, emotional or psychological needs in combinations unique to each individual.

Kingspan said...

Bonnie, I'm beyond flattered that you chose to use my question for your brunch topic.

For me, last week's question called to mind two women I dated long before I'd heard the word "spanko" (or the word internet, for that matter). "Sally" hated pain, but loved the idea of spankings – the quickest way to arouse her was to tell her how naughty she'd been and how I was going to have to punish her, or make up a story about someone else who needed a spanking. Foreplay often found her across my knee, pretending she was getting the hiding of her life while I gave her "spanks" that wouldn't hurt a fly. "Jane" was very physical, and liked an enthusiastic bite, pinch or very hard slap on the behind, but any suggestion of discipline or spanking squicked her completely.

Sally didn't enjoy having her bottom slapped. Jane did. Sally was a spanko. Jane wasn't. I had fun with both of them, however you categorize it.

The biggest sex organ really is the brain.

Poppy said...

Someone whose heart beats faster when they hear the word "spanking" and somewhere mixed in with the excitement is anticipation.

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