Sunday, August 16, 2009

MBS Spanko Brunch #187


I hope you are prepared to have some fun this week because our topic promises to be a classic. Thanks go to T for suggesting it.

We all know that spanking can be a lot more than just swatting someone's bottom. How do you and your partner add spice to your spanking experiences? Have you a secret technique or activity that you can share?

If you would like to offer your favorite spanking suggestions (and I really hope you will!), please enter them in the form of a comment below. Once everyone has had a fair change to answer, I will post an edited summary.

12 comments :

Hermione said...

Well, our spankings do happen to be mostly swatting someone's bottom - mine. But in between sets of swats, I get some very nice rubbing, both on my bottom and in more intimate areas. The break is welcome, and it keeps me guessing whether there will be more spanking or if Ron is moving along to another activity. Sometimes the caressing goes on for so long that I assume the spanking is over, then whack! More swats, and I have to shift mental gears in a hurry. There's never a dull moment during a spanking.

Hugs,
Hermione

Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Park said...

I can't just have a spanking. I need some control, as well. And I do like when Rad punishes me for something "real," like going to bed too late, or, worse, leaving the house late in the morning.

Handsdown said...

My husband and I are new into this, but the way we actually got started was in the bedroom. He loves anal play--I don't. So one day I just told him that in order to get what he wanted, he had to spank me until I agreed to it. Let me tell, you I didn’t cave easy--even for a first time--I really don‘t like anal. My bottom was well reddened before I conceded. It was wonderful--for both of us. Afterward, I whispered into his ear, "See, you can get whatever you want, if you spank me hard enough first."

Other than that, we like taking little strolls together down the kitchen gadget isle, and sometimes even in the hardware department for thrills, ideas and toys. It can get the juices flowing--and I don't mean for flipping flapjacks. LOL

Red said...

Every once in a while we generate two calenders for the month. These are based on a random number generator service (we use random.org).

A roll of the dice determines how many days are at risk. Calendars are compared every morning. If both indicate a spanking day, pants go down immediately and then as many times as directed for the day.

If not, oh well...maybe something else will happen.

We do have fun with it. We hope you will too!

Greenwoman said...

I haven't had only one partner over the years, so there's a variety of approaches shared with me surrounding a spanking. With one of my spanking partners, a spanking was foreplay before moving on to other things. It was a very focused activity. Its all we did until we were done and then we moved on while the heat was in my skin.

With other partners, it was a spice added to Tantra or to normal sex play. Often more than one each time intimacy was shared.

Sometimes it has included various forms of bondage. Sometimes OTK, which brings a very specific head space to things. Sometimes there's role playing involved such as Daddy/lilgirl stuff.

And sometimes its just used to remind me about who is in charge or as a reward for pleasing a partner in some particular way...because I do love spanking. Its a terrific reward for me.

Anonymous said...

Role playing for us is very big and came immediately to mind when I read the question. I'm a teacher in real life, so to switch roles and be the naughty student called before the principal is very sexy for me. I've also been the cheerleader punished by the coach, a patient with her doctor, harem girl with pasha, captive wench with pirate...
We've done bondage on occasion and anal play often. Besides being fingered, licked, and loved back there, we've experimented with ginger figging - talk about spicey! God I hate it at the time and love it afterward
Jean Marie

Maryann Sloan said...

A lot of our spanking play happens verbally as we are long distance from each other. I act sassy and get in trouble a lot between visits. Then I pay the piper when he arrives. Yikes!
Maryann

ronnie said...

Bonnie,

Spanking, like many enjoyable pursuits including sex, has an obvious repetitive aspect especially in long term relationships and it does need a bit of thought from both sides to keep it fun.

I like the change of location, especially on trips, change of implement or how it's applied and best of all I like the real situation spankings when they occur naturally not just as starters or desserts with other hanky panky. Or should that be spanky.

Ronnie
xx

luna said...

Well, Master likes to make me count, and while I've not done it yet I'm afraid of 'Chicago count'. For those that don't know that's keeping a count on each cheek, so if your Top switches you have to remember the count separately. Ugh.

Master's favorite technique to spice things up is the smack and pinch. After each set of spanks he pinches or scratches my ass. It's quite a strong sensation.

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Heartzlady said...

His hand landing on my bottom is just the beginning of a spanking for us. Between us we have alot of impliments in our 'war chests' and at least 3 or 4 get used each time. When he just dumps them all on the foot of the bed I know things are about to get very ouchy on my end (pun fully intended lol)!

His hand always opens and ends a spanking... and sometimes more than that ;)

LU said...

thought i would chime in for once. i am a lurker... and my partner and I are rather new to this but very open with each other abt what we like. for us it is strictly erotic at this point. we are also long distance so we get each other pretty worked up, by text's mostly, right before we see each other. we share different scenarios and he always promises that he has something in store for me. That in itself is a great precurser. one of our favorite things seems to be dress up. for example, the last time he was in town i put on a fashion show for him....complete with roller skates....there was great music, pictures, short skirts.... i saved his fav outfit for last (i knew he would pick it) and yes, as soon as i emerged .... it took abt 3 mins and he ready to spank my bottom....which he did. it was fabulous fun.... we like dress up and tend to look for new outfits occasionally. i am sure this will eventually lead to more elaborate roll play. but like i said, we are new to this. We really just try to have fun with it and tease each other as much as possible abt it, which drives us both wild!

Marie said...

Max always holds me the same way, and lifts me onto his lap for a hug afterwards, whether it was punishment or just plain fun. And before I got over his lap, he always reaches out to take my left wrist to "help" me over. Little things that make a spanking from him different from a spanking from others.

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