Hello again, my friends. After a long winter, nothing is more welcome than bright sunshine and beautiful flowers. Since we have plenty of the former today, I'm planning to get out and plant the latter!
Our question of the week was submitted by an MBS reader. I thought at first that we might have discussed a similar subject before, but a quick check revealed that we have not.
Do hormone changes influence you or your partner in terms of spanking needs, desires, or sensitivity? If so, how? Do spankings provide any relief from hormonal symptoms? If so, are there any techniques you find particularly effective?
If you would like to share your experience and insight, I invite you to leave a comment below. Once everyone has spoken, I will post an edited summary of our discussion.
10 comments :
I think hormones affect how erotic I find spanking. Spanking is always intimate, sometimes highly emotional and occasionally sexual. I used to see it only as a sexual turn-on, so I'm now beginning to differentiate various aspects. I attribute the ups & downs of spankings erotic appeal to my hormones. Meow
We always seem to find the time and energy to play the weekend I get my period! Annoying, but I've learned to just deal with it. I used to not want to play during my period (not for any reason dealing with blood, just because of general crankiness/emotionality) but now I figure if he doesn't mind, there is no way I can really complain!
Other than that, my only thought is that I otherwise always have randy hormones running through me, and I always want to play!
i am lucky enough to be past the whole hormone thingy.........
BUT......
when i first met Sir.. i did have massive overdoses of hormone crap - what usually happened was Sir would pick up the sweetest softest flogger in the world.. hit me once and i would be yelping and dancing the subbie jig.
We came to the conclusion that when the hormones were running on high i was much more sensitive ... and i cried more too...
The first time actually that i cried ...Sir stopped thinking something was terribly wrong.. i can still see myself hanging from the chains.. tears streaming down my face.. and shaking my head frantically and saying.. "no no don't stop"... it was such an amazing stress reliever !!
morningstar (owned by Warren)
Some times my life partner will get very tense around the middle of her cycle. We find that a soft, sensuous spanking helps her to relax.
For me hormones definitely play a part in how needy I become. For some reason, towards the END of my period I'm so eager my partner almost needs to hold me down or I'll "meet" the spanks too vigurously. I could literally stay in bed getting spanked for 24h! If only I could...
/ Sarah
i find that as i come closer to my period. spankings are hard to take. hurt more. emotions are right on the surface. everything is like an overload to my senses. i still want to be spanked... need to be spanked... have to be spanked...
Hi Bonnie,
With the onset of menopause, the decrease in some hormones caused others to become predominant, and I experienced a large increase in libido. Since spanking turns me on, my interest in that activity also increased. What provides relief? Why, spanking, of course, and Ron is only too happy to indulge me in my treatment. It's a lot cheaper, safer, and more fun than hormone replacement therapy.
Hugs,
Hermione
Hi bonni,
We had a simular post last month.
First of all I quite often end up earning myself DD just befor or during my peroid. Never a good thing. So when it comes round the the DD it's self, I find that it hurst much much more than when im not hormonal, Bear has often said he thorght that I sound like im being murderd when he is spanking me.
When we spank for pleasure and im due on, I still cant take much of a hard spanking, and we end up cuddling and moving on alot quicker than when im not on my peroid or due...
thanks
Bear and Penfold x
Hormones and spanking -- oh yes, for me there is a link. Right before that tiie of the month, I feel so on edge. I am fairly lucky as far as PMS goes - but there is this irritability or sensitivity that arrives. A good spanking really helps. (caution though, the pain sensitivity rises too)
What I like about a spanking at this time is that if I feel overly on edge, then being spanked gives me an excuse to yell, kick, pound my fists into the bed and act out. (Lucky for me, my partner allowed the acting out as long as I stayed put.) That physical expenditure relaxed me in the end, eventually I would just give into the spanking and feel calm. If I was overly sensitive, tears might come and then the crying and comforting soothed my wounded soul. Mary
For sure, being a woman is full of angst that a spanking cures.
All of that angst gets worse without my spanking...which just like Hermione is my cure.
Which technique is effective? Don't take no s#$% from me, just gimmee a spanking and a cuddle afterward. Don't get mad at me about my moods, just take me to the bedroom and take care of me.
Cause I'll be your sweetness again as soon as my butt burns. Swear it!
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