Sunday, February 22, 2009

MBS Spanko Brunch #162


Have you ever wanted to be a star? Do you wish you could appear on the big screen, or perhaps just a small one? If so, this week's topic is just for you.

Have you ever participated in video recording a spanking? If so, how did you feel about the experience? Did you share your video with anyone else? If not, would you consider recording a spanking in the future? Why or why not? Under what circumstances would you consider this activity?

If you would like to share your perspectives, I invite you to leave a comment below. Once everyone has had a chance to register their viewpoint, I will post an edited summary of our discussion.

18 comments :

dragonmage said...

Luvbunny and I have video recorded a few of our spanking sessions. At first, it was strange (I really don't like to see myself on the video, and luvbunny didn't either) but watching the video together can be very erotic.
We have shared a couple of the videos with some close friends, but we are rather careful who else gets to see them.

Daisychain said...

Hi, Bonnie,
No, I have never been videorecorded during a spanking; however this is something we have talked of doing. We have agreed that IF we do, it will be for our eyes only...STRICTLY for our eyes only. We have both thought it could be quite sexy to watch it over again, but we would both feel very uncomfortable for anyone else to see it.
Hugs, xxxxxxxxxxxx

Irelynn said...

Being a spanking model, my views on this don't actually count! I didn't film any spankings before I started modelling though. I think I was mainly worried about privacy, since I didn't have a regular play partner that I could trust not to go public with the film.

I always wanted to be a "big screen" actress though. If only I were a bit more gifted in that department, I could have been the next Kate Winslet. ;-)

lil sam said...

Hi Bonnie
I have often thought that being video recorded while being spanked would be exciting and a real turn on,
I have often fantizised about my very first adult spanking (if that ever happens) being video recorded, It would of coarse be just for my beloved partner (when I find one)and I to see.I really don't think I would want anyone else to see it.
Hugs Lil Sam

soma said...

I have had a spanking that was videotaped that was actually part of my punishment. My spanker said he was going to record part of my next spanking and then would have me watch it as part of my punishment. It definitely was effective in making me feel a bit embarrassed and getting his point across. Though I was a little uncomfortable about being recorded and even moreso being made to watch it later, I trusted him and was fine with him doing that. It definitely was effective in having me watch and agree that it is another good form of discipline and such if spanking is done for discipline. The recording is not something I normally I think would ever agree to but like I said I trusted him...plus he made sure it never showed either of our faces and he said I could keep the date. We erased it once it served it's purpose though I'm sure if he felt it was a good idea we'd do the recording thing again.

Anonymous said...

This is a really great question!
My lover suggested that we film a spanking session about half a year ago. I was game for it, but wanted the "actress" experience, so dressed-up as a cheerleader. He set up a tripod, and we role played. It was even more fun knowing that it was being taped, but when we watched it afterward, the tape was so static, being stationary, it didn't capture the thrill I felt inside. So my lover took the camera in his left hand and spanked me right-handed. The camera shook with every swat. (I think in Hollywood they have some kind of shock-absorbers on hand-held cameras.) Ever since then I've had a fantasy of inviting a girlfriend over to film us. In my mind it's super sexy to think of her watching me take a good, hard spanking, getting turned-on, and joining us for a three-way love-making session after the shoot. But all of this is just a fantasy, I could never live that out in real life. But I think about it a lot!
Jean Marie

SPANKEDHORTIC said...

No I have never participated in the video recording of a spanking.

Yes I would like to have a spanking videoed. Firstly to satisfy my own curiosity as to what it looks like when I am under the lash.n Secondly I would like to post a couple of amateur clips, of one of my plays, on the blog and see how that goes down with the readers.

Prefectdt

roguebfl said...

The closes I've come is one or two "directed" spankings via webcam form when me any my partner where far apart.

They could have been recorded.

I would love to have a spanking recorded, so that I could watch from the point of view of a witness

Jflame said...

Hi Bonnie.
I have never been filmed during a spanking but it would be cool. I'm not really a shy person so I would have no problem with being filmed or even do a proper spanking film.
If I can put pics of my battered butt on my blog, its only one more step to moving pics right?
Hugs, Jay

thisgirl said...

i did some spanking modelling stuff a few years ago, and prior to doing it ithought that it all might feel a bit clinical like it was more for the audience than the people taking part or that i might have to fake things to make it look good.

But then, it turned out it wasn't like that - just a lot of fun with the added bonus of showing off a bit! I suppose it depends on the circumstances I think if its filmed by someone who wants to portay a realistic and fun spanking then its going to be good fun and brilliant all round..but i guess there's also people out there doing it only for commercial reasons...and i guess if it was for that reason only then i wouldnt enjoy it so much. Like any form of BDSM it has to be fun ...no point otherwise.

I suppose there's concerns when doing stuff you know other people are going to see - and i feel this same way about when I do pictures on my blog is to whether people might think negative things about my body when there are far hotter people out there or they might think i'm kidding myself that i should be doing it. But, mostly, I've only played with people who make me feel good about myself. I wouldn't let anyone capture anything on photo or film if the people involved were making me feel worthless or ugly.

TG xx (oh sorry that was a ramble!)

Penfold said...

hi bonni,
sorry I havnt posted for a long while, its been rather annoying that my stupid laptop has been refusing to work properly...... (blooming tecnology)

As to your question, like Soma, Bear has also recorded one of our DD spankings. I found it really embarrassing to have the camra on my peach and the rest of me for that fact, and it made for a rather intresting DD session. But unlike Soma, I have yet to watch it....... (althoug Bear tells me it is a very good watch) I hate watching myself, and havnt had the courage to watch this yet, but bear has told me that if I dont watch it soon, then there might be trouble.................... EEEEEEEEPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!

penfold.....

ps. your silent "toy" is the devil!!!!! lol xx (Bear wishes to extend his thanks to Randy for such a good idear. *penfold grumbles to self "yer thanks Randy"*)

x

Anonymous said...

I have often fantasised about what it would be like to have a spanking recorded on video. Just to see what I loke like in that situation. But in the end I think I'm just to shy, and no doubt that my husband would never agree on that. He agreed to spanking me ever so often, but taping it is just taking it a step to far for him. Maybe one day we will and if so it will be strictly private. So for now I'll just enjoy clips of others brave enough to do that.

Tiggs said...

I've only had one video recorded of me being spanked... it was by Dante, of course, and it was a punishment spanking and the video was meant to be part of the punishment. It definitely added to the angst of the spanking, lots more nerves on my end.

But afterwards, it was interesting that I wanted to replay it and Dante didn't even want to look at it. He got rid of it after replaying it the one time for me. But I really, really liked it, in a way that kinda scared me at the time.

Now, though, I don't feel nearly as pretty or attractive as I once did (not that I ever saw myself as gorgeous or anything even close before)... there's no interest at all on my end these days to video tape it. It's for me and Dante's pleasure alone!

Big hugs!

Ms. Betty said...

I did the once, for the express purpose of showing it to the members of my Yahoo groups.

I don't think I'd do it again, though.

Correction, I would not do it the way we did it.

I didn't mind being on film or having others see it, but since it was just the two of us we ended up managing the camera ourselves and I found that distracting. When I spank, I like to have all of my attention focused on the task at hand, rather than divided between "am I swatting hard enough" and "is the camera staying on?"

I didn't much care for the headaches of preparing the video for web use, either. Technology is not Ms. Betty's strong suit. It came out grainy and a bit warped looking.

So I can't say I wouldn't do it again, but I can say I'd only do it if someone else (not the bottom) were handling the technical aspects.

Ms. Betty

P.S. (slightly off topic), It may amuse you all to know that the word verification I'm getting for this comment is "rumpo".

Make your own jokes. :)

Our Bottoms Burn said...

We were early adoptors of the VCR camera, so we have some "ancient" recordings from that era. We also have a few modern digital recordings. Sometimes, we like to see how we were.

Hermione said...

Never have.
Never would.
No way.
No how.

Zille Defeu said...

Being another adult model, I get to help skew the results! ;)

Obviously, I've made a number of videos in which I've been spanked or flogged or what-have-you. I've also done any number of them where I was the spanker! I know -- strange to consider, huh? But I think that being a spanking bottom most of the time, I can dish out a very satisfactory spanking when the need calls for it! ;)

They were all very good experiences except for one video I did where the producer/director did not respect me at all, and I had to really fight for my rights as a model/and "bottom." (This is actually one of the videos that is out there on the internet. I won't say which, but I will note that the producer was *female*, which will probably come as a surprise to most people!)

Most recently, I did a spanking video in Australia (how cool is that?!) and that was pretty much the most fun you can have without actually exploding from pleasure!

I'm really looking forward to doing some more spanking videos, both for my own blog, and for spanking sites. But I have a long career of making adult content (photo and video) behind me, and I really am trying to focus more on *being a photographer* nowadays!

padme amidala said...

Hi bonnie,
I have participated in several video recordings of my spankings. We shared a few short videos of a few spankings on our blog, Journey to the Darkside. We have shared them with many friends and our readers.

I think it's fun to have a recording of the spanking so I can watch it and remember what it was like. :)
Hugs,
padme

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