Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch for Sep 28

Wow, thanks, everybody, for the great birthday celebration suggestions. During brunch, I don’t generally interject my opinion with each comment. I prefer to allow the conversation to progress on its own course. Today, however, I feel the need to provide feedback, so I have added some supplemental thoughts.

So far, I have received a very pretty necklace and earring set, new drop-seat PJs(!), and several impromptu spankings. Randy tells me there is more to come.

I am very grateful for your well wishes and creative ideas.

Anon VII: Hey, surely this question isn't really necessary, except in terms of details, now is it? (Evil Smile) Have a good one!

It is definitely all about getting the details right.

Sara: HAPPY BIRTHDAY BONNIE! :)

Thank you, Sara. It’s been quite happy so far.

Carly: Oh, what would be a delicious birthday treat? Let's see, it definitely requires a complete, beautiful, private space (sound-proof, of course), a bottle of champagne for the celebration, a new sexy outfit, and lots of long, intense, personal attention to your backside from Randy!

OK, that sounds fantastic. Hon, are you reading this?

Anna: After being crowned "Queen for the Day", I think you should be treated to a fabulous breakfast in bed, an extended trip to the day spa of your choice, a five star dinner, where you will be informed that your birthday gift is your dream vacation, a perfect birthday spanking and sex that makes fireworks on the 4th of July seem tame. And Randy should blog it all for us.

I love it! I knew it would be a good idea to ask our readers.

OliviaManners: Happy Birthday Bonnie! I was thinking...

However many years are marked by your birthday today should determine how may wishes you get to make. Each wish is something that will involve Randy (and perhaps a hand or a hairbrush) So, for example, if you are 41, you write down 41 wishes (whatever they may be!) on separate pieces of paper, folded up, and placed in a jar. Over the next 41 days, Randy would pick one out of the jar and make your wish come true! Each day you wouldn't know which one he had picked, so each day would have a lovely air of surprise to it!

It would be a lovely extended celebration and lots of what you wish for. ;-) I hope you have a very special day today.

That’s a great suggestion, Olivia. But Randy might not go for it. He thinks I have expensive tastes.

Daisy: Happy Birthday, Bonnie!

Queen for the day?
Absolutely NO WAY!
Bonnie is Queen
Of the spanko scene
Randy's her king,
Giving great spankings!
And for her special day,
He must go all the way.
The spanking of the year
Really wail her rear...
The spank that beats all other
For our beloved spanko mother!
She’s our queen forevermore
Respected, loved, adored!
There must be a super celebration
For the Queen of the spanko nation!

Well, I never claimed to be a poet... So spank me! ;) ha ha

Go, Randy! Give her the birthday spanking to surpass all others, then a night to remember... ;)

Hugs, Bonnie, have a wonderful day! Love and feather pillows to you, my dear friend!

This suggestion is probably pretty close to what Randy had in mind. Thanks for the rhyme!

DG UK: Happy Birthday, and what a fun idea. Your way of celebrating shows your and Randy's openness and generosity, and all I can offer as a suggestion, is that however you celebrate, you are left feeling as your blog has often left me feeling... Smiling, known, and laughing.

Whatever Randy decides to give you for your birthday, I hope you have a fantastic time!

DG, that’s very sweet. Thank you!

Jessica: Happy birthday! You have posted a few fun creative birthday spankings. I don't think I can top what you've already done. Perhaps a stroll down memory lane? A few smacks with different implements in ranges of years of your life. My husband did that for his birthday (I got the spanks, of course). Easy spanks for the first ten years. A different style when we met. A harsh spanking during the times we had stress etc. Fun!

Thanks, Jess. We’ve done that one before, but it might be fun to repeat now that there are more years to recount.

Prefectdt: Happy birthday Bonnie and may you have many more. I have three suggestions.

1. The obvious one (well that’s going to happen whatever else you choose to do, isn't it?).


2. You can switch for the day and Randy can find out what he's been missing out on.


3. You could relax for the day while Randy takes the burden of answering all the annoying emails that you don't want to be bothered with. He can take breaks to bring you coffee/food/champagne etc.

Whatever you do, enjoy your birthday.

Thanks for your suggestions. The first is a indeed a given, though the circumstance, setting, and technique are yet to be determined. I can say with certainty that Randy has no interest in learning about what he’s missed. I think the third idea is downright hilarious. I don’t think I could convince him to answer my e-mail, but I’d love to see some of his responses.

Michael: Probably one of the nicest birthday presents you could receive from your top would be for him to become the bottom for the day. That way, you can bring to the surface all those things that you would like him to do when he is topping you, but which you, as the bottom, have been unable to request. You can get him to do those little service jobs that you would so enjoy being told to do. You can lecture and admonish him in the way you would like to be spoken to and you can give him that style of punishment or harshness of strokes which you crave, but have been unable to ask for without embarrassment. As the bottom, he has to take it all in good humour and with fortitude and respect.

Once the day is over, you don't discuss it in any detail, but in, say, couple of day’s time, you resume your position as the bottom and he gives you the topping session you have always wanted, but didn't dare ask for. Whatever you do, have a good one.

Michael, that would certainly be different! However, as I say, our respective roles really define our relationship in many ways and they fit us well. There isn’t much for which I would hesitate to ask if I truly wanted it.

Jim (switch): Linda Goodman wrote, “A Libra's best quality is the art of conversation. They are fantastic conversationalists. Although, when discussing any subject, you may find the conversation leading back toward their favorite topic of interest...”

Fits like a glove!

On your birthday you deserve the best things in life, for people like us: sparkling champagne and stinging love.

She really nailed my personality, didn’t she? Thanks for your suggestions and your well wishes!

Girl: Hmm, what to get for Bonnie's birthday? Well, I think Randy should be nice and exclude the Mother of All Paddles from your b-day shenanigans. I would call on my own spank-tastic previous birthdays for celebration ideas, but I've only had one and your arrangement somewhat differs from mine.

But, as to your butt... Well, this is terrible, I'm sure Randy will do something spectacular. Perhaps he could pick a shade of icing on your cake to match the colour he aims for on your bottom with? I do so enjoy things that match.

I do like the idea of Randy having to record the event though, and give your weary blogging fingers a rest.

Thanks for your suggestions. I’m all for skipping the MOAP, but if history provides a guide, that probably won’t happen. As it turns out, Randy is good at coordinating colors as long as they are reds and pinks. That idea could work. I’m not sure whether I could get Randy to write up the event, but he just might. I know it would be fun for our readers.

Hermione: Since spankings and chocolate are your favourite things, I suggest, in no particular order: a chocolate birthday cake, a massage with chocolate-scented oil, some fun with chocolate body paint (I hope Randy loves chocolate as much as you do) and a spanking with a giant Hershey bar.

Have fun celebrating!

How well you know me! Those are my favorites!

Terpsichore: Happy Birthday and however the two of you decide to celebrate, whether a night on the town, candle lit dinner, day at the spa... followed by lovemaking and the spanking of your dreams. Have a wonderful time! :-)

Those are some lovely thoughts, Terpsichore. Thank you!

Roissy Fille: Happy Birthday Bonnie! I wish you a wonderful year ahead.
Love and many delicious spankings

That’s very sweet. Thanks!

Mike: Happy Birthday, Bonnie! I think Randy probably knows better than any of us what a perfect birthday would be for you.

I just hope it's something you can't help to think about everyday until your next one.

He does know how to make a birthday special, but in the name of trying new things, he wanted to place this one in the hands of the MBS readership. Both of us are delighted by the initial results.

Paul: Happy birthday, Bonnie. I have no doubt that Randy knows exactly what to offer you on your birthday. Our birthdays took Mel to just a little past her expected limits and left her crying with happiness and many orgasms. Have a good one dear friend and many more.

It’s been a great birthday so far and the celebration has not yet concluded.

Anon #1: May your birthday be sweet and spicy exactly as you like it.

I sure do like sweet and spicy! Thank you!

I-Gal: Happy Birthday, Bonnie. Have a great day!

Thanks!

Raheretic: We practice a slightly enhanced birthday commemoration tradition that harkens back to the origins of the use of C. P. as a birthday ritual. In early times, whippings were administered around special holidays, including birthdays, because they blessed the recipient with fertility, or health, or good fortune in the year ahead.

I believe that the intensity of the spanking one receives surrounding his/her birthday correlates directly with the amount of good fortune the birthday celebrant will experience in the year ahead. Now in that we all certainly wish you nothing but greatest good luck in the year ahead, we could wish you too nothing but the most severe whipping ever to create the happiest and best of fortune for you in the year ahead.

Have the happiest of happiests.

Fertility? Eek! I’d prefer to stick with just health and good fortune. Anyhow, on that scale, this is shaping up to be a pretty fine year ahead. Thanks!

Daisy: To those suggesting a switch, I definitely get the impression, folks, that this is not something either Bonnie or Randy enjoy. They have the best communication channels between them of anyone I know. Bonnie can always tell Randy what she wants, and on the other hand, Randy knows Bonnie so well, I bet he already knew what she wanted! They are soulmates. Randy is indulging our egos. I bet he already has his surprise planned. He wouldn't have left it this late to plan her special day!

Have fun, you two, and may many happy years lie ahead!

No worries, Daisy. I’m not offended by suggestions that we switch. It just isn’t our game.

Randy has shared some birthday presents and fun already, but I believe his main plan really was to hand the question over to our brunchers. I anticipate we will follow through on the selected suggestion(s) within the next week or so.

Morningstar: What more can I offer after all these wonderful suggestions? Except, may you have a spanking good day and 'wail' of a year ahead.

Aw, thanks!

D & S: We would not have the cheek to ask your age, but birthday spankings usually mean a number of spanks equal to the number of years. We are sure that would not alone do justice to that oh-so-spankable bottom of yours. Why not make a day of it? When you arose, you would go over Randy's knee for a birthday spanking (the full number!) with his hand. At lunch time, it would be a glass of champagne with another birthday spanking with a hairbrush this time. The, before you go out for your birthday dinner, you could touch your toes for the thin cane on your skirt. When you get home, it's over the sofa back, skirt up, knickers down, for your final birthday spanking with a paddle (not the MOAP). After all this, you will be perfectly placed for your final birthday gift from Randy.

Have a great and glowing day.

I’ve gotten it good today, but not quite that good, at least not so far! Thanks.

Our Bottoms Burn: I think you should get exactly what you want from Randy.

What I want? What do you think this is, my birthday? Hey, wait…

D: Happy Birthday, Bonnie!
Here’s an idea. Rent a suite at a swanky hotel and let the hotel guests wonder what's up with all that noise? ;)

Good wishes and many happy spanks!

Thanks, D. I think something similar happens almost every time we travel. We try to be discrete, but sometimes we get rather involved in what we’re doing.

Kimmy: Randy should get Bonnie a spanking bench as Bonnie has even said she wants one, but doesn't have one.

I *love* that idea! Strap me down, honey!

K: I don't have any new suggestions for how to celebrate, but have a wonderful birthday and enjoy your birthday spanking.

Thank you!

Marcus: Happy Birthday!

Thanks. It’s been mighty happy so far.

HMG: I suggest a trip down memory lane together. Remembering the best of the best times together would be fun for both of you. Maybe it could be along the lines of the old TV show, “This is your Life.”

I really like the idea of Randy blogging about this particular celebration of your life. Maybe even either a joint blog or both of you sharing each from your own perspective.

I think also that since you recently celebrated an anniversary for the blog that you should get two birthday presents 1) what he already has planned for you which I'm sure will be yummy, and 2) Him choosing three of the best suggestions and surprising you with them at his discretion. It would be nice to catch a glimpse of his mind concerning how he comes up with such wonderful plans for you.

I like the concept of “This is your (Spanko) Life.” I’ve never had much luck with getting Randy to blog though. He is much more interested in doing things than writing about doing them. But all he can say is, “No, thank you.”

We did enjoy a blogaversary spanking. True to his word, leather was the theme of the evening. He will choose one or more of these suggestions for an upcoming celebration.

Terpsichore: Wow! I want all of you to whisper ideas to my husband when my birthday comes around :-) Hope you are having a great day, Bonnie :-)

If he reads this blog, you can considered the whispering done.

Blogger Greenwoman: *grins* Happy Birthday Bonny. You've got some great suggestions here, don't you?

I imagine a very soft romantic dinner, a little dancing, and a very intense spanking ...and well, I'm sure you can figure out the rest. *grins*

Have a lovely day!

These are marvelous suggestions, yours included. Thanks!

Papa Woodie: Congrats and Happiest of Birthday Wishes!

Hopefully, he has already decided just what you need and desire.

We're just hoping you'll share some of the delicious delights with us all in an upcoming post!

Actually, Randy’s primary plan was to allow all of you to suggest a proper celebration. He likes to try a new approach every year. This year’s idea is a participatory plan.

I do plan to blog about whatever happens.

Radha: Happy Birthday, Queen B! I'm sure whatever you choose to do will be great!

Thank you!

Maryann: Happy birthday. How about another moving spanking like the limo story? Boat, plane, train...?

As far as I know, this isn’t going to be one of those planes, trains, and automobiles sort of birthdays. But with Randy, I can never be entirely certain.

Skellos: Happy Birthday, Bonnie! I hope you enjoy Bonnieday! Here are a few suggestions for you and Randy.

1. Have him take you to your favorite place, or better still have him make your favorite meal and dessert.


2. I'm sure it goes without saying that you two will be enjoying some quality intimate times, but I had to throw it on the list of things to do. LOL


3. Have him light a few candles and give you a bath while you enjoy a glass of wine.

Once again, Happy Birthday!

Thank you, Skellos. Those are all favorites and I appreciate you suggesting them.

Dragonmage: I have nothing to add to the list of ideas already here, but I certainly want to wish you a wonderfully happy birthday from myself and luvbunny.

Thanks to you both!

Well, I guess the next move is Randy’s. I posted the question. You answered it. Now, he gets to figure out which suggestion(s) he likes best. As I say, I will be blogging more about this subject as I learn more. Thanks, again, to one and all!