Welcome back, one and all, to our weekly spanko brunch. I'm glad you chose to join us.
Our topic this week was inspired by a question I found in the mailbag.
Do you or your partner ever experience discomfort when sitting the day after a spanking? If so, how does the spankee feel about residual soreness? Is it a sensation to be relished, one to be avoided, or simply a part of getting spanked? If you or your partner have not experienced this next day twinge, would you like to do so? Why or why not?
If you would like to add your voice to our discussion, I invite you to type a comment below and let us know about your experiences. Once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will post an edited summary of the proceedings.
29 comments :
It takes Alot for me to get sore,usually more than one spanking in a day to feel anything residual the next day but when I do I Love it. Makes me want to jump my husbands bones all day long, lol.
I usually feel somewhat sore after. I need a pretty harsh spanking to have much of an effect the next day, but I usually feel a little twinge for several days. I love it too. I would love to feel as though I need a pillow, but I don't know what it would take. My husband doesn't hold much back!
-Jess
Hi Bonnie,
as my bottom really doesn´t mark easily, there were just a few situations like this. :)
I remember a very hard spanking, my husband gave me once which left a bruise as big an egg on my butt; it still hurt 2 days after it; at least!!
I wasn't very amused about it but my dear husband smiled every time he saw my bare ass.
We could see the different colors my backsite went thru as it healed.
But in general both of us love to check my bottom the day after a spanking; for us it a part of it and if there are any marks my husband is proud of his good work ;))
If you would like to see some marks of mine, check here
http://marksandstripes.blogspot.com
Kisses Apple
PS: Maybe you could link my new blog on your list, please ? :)
Bonnie, Mel certainly enjoyed sitting sensitive the following day.
But as the years passed this got harder to do as her cheeks toughened, if she was feeling particularly needy, she would ask for a top-up in the morning, by bratting, sticking her tongue out or whatever.
If she knew she had a hard day ahead she would ask for a hard spanking in the morning, this made her feel loved, cared for and self confident, so she handled her day much better, rarely, a stress buster was needed in the evening.
Warm hugs,
Paul.
Dear Bonnie,
I often get very bruised by a beating - but I hardly ever feel anything after a few hours or even a day. When a bruising is swollen, I feel it, but it is not pain, just the swelling I can sense. Often, I go home from my boyfriend´s on my bike - and I am sad not to be in pain even when sitting on the saddle. I would love to have the nice, soft pain that one has right after the beating for a longer time. Because the pain when the cane actually hits me always seems too harsh. Sometimes my boyfriend does very mean things, like e.g. beating the anus, and the pain last for several days. I love those days and am constantly aroused. But I must admit I am rarely in the mood to bear the agony of going through such an unbearable spanking just in order to make the pain last for more than a few hours.
Thanks, Bonnie!
Tina
Today is the day after a hard spanking and yes, I am feeling it. Most of the time I do not but the wood paddle used last night was harsh. I will never feel anything the day after when leather was used but wood and the bathbrush usually give me an extra day of sensitivity. I do like to feel spanked the day after. It's a treat nowadays.
i love the feeling the day after. As a college student it helps me to concentrate and reminds me to focus on my work. i can get better grades with the knowledge that my bottom will pay if i do not work hard. my grades 2A's and 2 B's are proof that it works.
Bonnie,
I crave the bruises and the sensitivity that accompany a hard spanking. He enjoys seeing the remnants of His efforts as well. When that does not occur, or the marks fade quickly, I am a bit disappointed and left wanting another spanking as soon as possible. Since there is some distance between us and our time together is limited, He tries to leave me with this reminder of the time we share.
Alice
It's got to hurt the next day, that's the best part.
RPT
I'm sitting on a bruised..swollen..black, blue and purple butt now..That's the way i prefer it.and i think it makes both David and i very proud..and the fact that it leads TO MUCH BIGGER THINGS just makes it BETTER!
I'm sure the memorial day cook out we're attending later will be a bit painful but i'll have a smile on my face !!
My bottom usually stings the day after a spanking. It's a comforting reminder that I am loved, especially on days that are challenging. I can enhance the soreness by wearing scratchy lace panties, or a thong that gives me no protection from denim jeans or coarse wool pants. Sometimes I absently rub one of my cheeks to ease the residual burn.
At the end of the day I always tell Ron how sore my bum still is because of the good spanking he gave me. It makes him smile.
Sometimes I feel phantom pain days after a spanking, when I know another one is due. But maybe that's a topic for another brunch!
Hugs,
Hermione
In the beginning I would mark and be sore afterwards and I loved it. I would intentionally poke and prod the sore areas to feel them again, and for but a moment, take me back to the delicious torment.
Now though it takes a lot to get anything more than sore a few hours afterwards. The next day I'm back as pale white as I ever was and just as normal. A spanking the second day would probably have to be shorter in duration because the endurance would be lower but other than that I doubt it would make me sore either.
Sore is good. Very good.
Feeling sore the next day is absolutely something that I relish.
The morning after being spanked the first thing I like to do is look in the mirror and see that I have marks...running my finger over these and feeling how tender my bottom still is makes me blush reliving the embarrassment of it, and also makes me feel very loved and strong for the day ahead.
As I go about my day, if I feel the soreness as I sit down, and especially if I am with other people, the trying not to wince or show any signs of discomfort, is also a part of what I love about being disciplined. Knowing that I am sitting their with a sore and marked and very well taken care of bottom in a business meeting, or having some wine with friends, and imagining that it would never occur to them that the day before I had been across my Disciplinarians knee with my knickers lowered is a very lovely feeling. The soreness helps to take me to those feelings!
I also like my Disciplinarian asking me " How is your bottom today?" on the telephone, when I may be sitting with friends, and him keenly wanting me to describe how it looks and how it feels and my having to try and divert the conversation through utter embarrassment! Pink cheeked knowing that he will be thoroughly enjoying knowing how much it will be making me squirm!
So, yes, yes, yes please - to a sore bottom every day!
Olivia X
I love the feeling of my bottom the next day. It serves as a reminder that I am loved and to focus. As I sit, I have a twinge or a burning sensation, its very wonderful feeling. My man loves to ask me to send him pictures of my marked bottom as we are in a long distance relationship. The sting also as he says serves as a reminder to not do what got me the spanking in the first place.
I agree with the rest yes, oh yes please let my bottom feel it for a few days!
It make a boring Monday meeting so much easier to sit through when you secretly have trouble sitting!
Good morning, Bonnie, and everyone else.
Great topic this week. I spank several different men on a regular basis, so I get to see a nice cross section of reactions.
I always aim for them to still be sore the next day, or the next few days, rather. Since most don't see me that often I think that lasting soreness helps the experience last.
I've found that while they all tend to feel good about soreness the next day those feelings tend to be influenced a bit by the reason for the spanking. For the ones who were spanked for a real disciplinary reason, the soreness brings up a reminder of his misbehavior and what it earned him. Among those spanked for fun it's usually just a nice reminder of what happened.
Oddly enough, the reason for the spanking does not tend to influence whether or not they try to avoid sitting. Big tough guys that they are they tend not to want to admitting their sore bottom is bothering them that much. You can usually tell, though. I have one that will go so far to avoid sitting after a spanking that he'll stand their trying to balance on one foot to put his shoes back on rather than sit down, even on a well padded chair. lol.
Ms. Betty
Usually not, unless I have had a very sound and prolonged spanking, but with two exceptions:- A long hard spanking with a big wooden paddle,like your MOAP makes sitting very uncomfortable next day, my bottom feels oversize, tender and glowing, and makes me feel vey sexy; luckily David is only too pleased to help with this problem. A good caning also produces even more difficulty with sitting, especially if he has concentrated low down on my underhang, which as someone has already said makes for an interesting time at a next-day meeting, as I try not to fidget on my sore bottom too much. But the real thrill is taking any opportunity to inspect my stripes in a mirror; David likes this too, and that soon gets him going. I like going through the day with my striped cheeks bouncing beneath my skirt; I only wish I could show them around more ! Sadly they only last a few days.Susan.
I got my very first real, hard spanking yesterday. The afterburn and tenderness today is fabulous! My sweetheart is a really big, strong man who can very easily overpower me. (I love that!) So, he started slow and easy. Then, throughout the day he tested every implement he could think of, including twisting up the damp dish towel and snapping it on me. Even through jeans, that left definite bruises! ouch
The day ended with me bare bottomed over his lap with a firm hand spanking. He says I only got about half of his force, but he stopped because my behind looked like hamburger. Today I have bruises of every size, shape, and description all over my bottom and thighs. Who knows which thing caused which bruise? But above it all is a very clear hand print, complete with each distint finger! Mmmm-mmm-good!
I love the pain the next day and hope it lasts several days. I love this man!
Maryann
I like a sensitive bottom following. I dislike seeing heavy bruising on me and every Dom in my life has disliked seeing my skin disfigured that way too. They want to see pretty skin, only reddened after the spanking....and I have learned that a spanking done skillfully can be incredibly painful but never leave a visible mark once the initial reddened moments are behind me so to speak. *smiles*
Although our spankings have gotten heavier over the past while, even the burn doesn't seem to last past snuggling into his front as we go to sleep. I had hopes the other night as he tried two different paddles, one small plastic paddle and another large wood one, and it did hurt and my 'fundament' did seem a lot more sensitive for quite a while but still no discomfort the next day. I think I would like it, but maybe I should be careful about what I wish for.
Hello everyone!
I adore some soreness the day after a good spanking, but there have only been a handful of occasions where I was sore the next day. And really the only way I could tell was when my husband smacked my bottom the day after and it hurt more than usual, or the hot shower water stung a lot. Here's hoping tonight's spanking leaves a lasting impression!
River
Great topic Bonnie!
In the beginning I would definitely be sore the next day - unfortunately it didn't take long for my bottom to toughen up. I loved the sensation of sitting on a sore bottom the next day!
I think if he'd been willing to spank harder I would have continued feeling it but while I enjoyed the bruises he didn't - oh well.
I bruise so easily that just about any contact leaves a mark, so any time my husband uses anything other than his hand, I'm sporting decorations, which I'm quite fond of it. The marks and the little twinges which last for a day or so (sometimes longer) remind me of the fun we had together.
Hi, Bonnie, I enjoy your blog!
I too like the reminder the next day, but it is rare for me.
BUT, we have a new implement (delrin rod) that seems to deliver a deep, lasting soreness! The first time it was used, it was a pretty short, light session (a trial, so to speak) and although it didn't sting all that much during, it left a soreness well into the next day. Well, the next time (which was the only other time I've had it so far) was for a real discipline, (my husband used it in combination with other implements) and I could not believe how sore I was!! It actually left a slight bit of bruising (not much), but I could feel it for the next 4-5 days!! We have concluded that this implement needs to be used with care and caution, but it does seem to give a lasting impression.
Thank you for addressing this Bonnie. I am eagerly awaiting the chance to use your advice. Daisy and I dont see each other often, she is in England. I really do believe the next day ouchie would be a great help, Thank you
OH, dear! My bf is planning on delivering such a spanking at the next opportunity, and though I will enjoy that tender feeling the next day, I'm not so sure I will enjoy what puts it there!!!
Especially since the Vermont Country Store bathbrush has been recommended to him for the job in hand.....
After all, I dont bruise easily, so quite some force would be needed.....eeeek.....lol
Dasiy you naughty girl, you are to be asleep by now. Sorry Bonnie, obviously more discipline needed here. LOL
I bruise easily, and I LOVE when it stings the day after. I'm sitting here wishing for a spanking just thinking about it!
For me it doesn't happen often, but I really really relish it when it does. I just LOVE that feeling, the longer the better! Just wish I could figure out how to make it last all the time!
Carye
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