I find talking about it to be so emotionally-charged that it's usually difficult to get the words out. And timing is everything, because if my husband isn't in the mood for talking, then bringing up the subject can be counter-productive or frustrating.
The best time for me to talk is right after lovemaking, which happens right after a spanking when we are snuggling close, relaxed and happy, still in our own private world and glowing from recent activities. It's easy and natural for me to comment on what we have just done, and make a request for something specific - an implement, say - for next time. Chances are I'll get whatever I have asked for during the next.
My husband seems able to bring up the subject at odd moments, out of the blue, for no apparent reason. I really enjoy that, and am always ready to join in the discussion. His remarks are usually humorous.
It is easy to say we are spankos, but sometimes it isn't as easy to find the time to talk about it with our partners - seems that sometimes it just happens without thought so not always talked about....
How about "All of the Above?" I generally try not to bring anything up right after making love or a spanking because I don't want it to seem like criticism.
• Yes, my husband SPANKS me! • This is an experience I know well • Bare bottom spankings really hurt • Sometimes I need an attitude adjustment • We explore our favorite spanking fantasies • I am a bad girl who earns harsh discipline • I fully consent and willingly participate • His thick wooden paddle reads ”BONNIE" • Hanging on our wall, its purpose is obvious • I hoist my hem to expose my ample cheeks • I take my position face down across his lap • He loves when I'm still pink from last time • He paddles me often & I totally deserve it • He swats my butt until it is red and sore • The impact of wood against skin jolts me • This is not play. My spankings are very real • I receive traditional corporal punishment • When he is done, I am humble and contrite • I display my crimson bottom in the corner • Photos and videos document my discomfort • I blush with embarrassment at both ends • Even when it is painful to sit, I still smile • Punishment spankings are my #1 turn-on • The act of surrender replenishes my spirit
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Bonnie I've voted, do you build the polls?
Warm hugs,
Paul.
I find talking about it to be so emotionally-charged that it's usually difficult to get the words out. And timing is everything, because if my husband isn't in the mood for talking, then bringing up the subject can be counter-productive or frustrating.
The best time for me to talk is right after lovemaking, which happens right after a spanking when we are snuggling close, relaxed and happy, still in our own private world and glowing from recent activities. It's easy and natural for me to comment on what we have just done, and make a request for something specific - an implement, say - for next time. Chances are I'll get whatever I have asked for during the next.
My husband seems able to bring up the subject at odd moments, out of the blue, for no apparent reason. I really enjoy that, and am always ready to join in the discussion. His remarks are usually humorous.
Thanks for this poll, Bonnie.
Hugs,
Hermione
Nice thought provoking post Bonnie...
It is easy to say we are spankos, but sometimes it isn't as easy to find the time to talk about it with our partners - seems that sometimes it just happens without thought so not always talked about....
I was intrigued by the range of votes.
How about "All of the Above?" I generally try not to bring anything up right after making love or a spanking because I don't want it to seem like criticism.
Jess
That answer is easy for me. We talk about spanking any time Mollie (aka big ears) is not around!!
PK
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