Bonnie's Mailbag

I believe it's high time we investigated the contents of my mailbag. Wow, look at all this mail! I guess we ought to open it.

Please note that some messages have been paraphrased for brevity. Others have been left in their original pristine form so that you might enjoy them as much as I do.

Question: I can no longer get to your blog at work. It seems to be blocked. Do you suppose that it's been categorized as porn?

Response: I certainly don't consider MBS to be porn. I believe my content has artistic merit and is tastefully presented. There's no nudity and few naughty words. Nevertheless, the topics discussed are aimed at an adult audience. I know that some content filters consider this blog to be objectionable and therefore block it.

Regardless of filtering issues and how you choose to classify this blog, it's not a good idea for anyone to visit even borderline adult sites when at work. Whatever you're viewing, the chances are excellent that someone is logging your activities. Why take a chance? Be smart. Be safe. Go home and browse.

Comment: I hope you don't give up the blog as you mentioned in one of your posts. Maybe you are a little burned out and just need a break?

Response: Obviously, I haven't given up the blog. But I am constantly reminded that my energy is not unlimited. It's a balancing act and that won't change as long as I publish this blog. Someday, I will walk away, but today is not that day.

Statement: me and my wife Been spanking each other for a year and love it. at first I was not OK with spanking her and she really gets more turn on spanking me because I have a great body I an a marathon runner with six packs abs. this is how we spanks but does it give you a sore butt. 35 whacks on each side at a time with hair brush then 3 very hard whacks with a paddle with hole then you move to the other side.you do 4 set of this. then the final set you get 35 with wood hair brush follow with 5 whacks with a paddle with hole follow with 20 with a hair brush follow with 5 hard whacks with paddle with hole. then 10 very hard whacks with classic paddle then end with 5 hard whacks with a paddle with hole. the whacks are not hard just leaves you behind very red. she the one who wanted this so I went with it.

Response: Thank you for sharing your very complicated routine.

Question: Accidentally have seen your blogsite which is very interesting and applealing. The point is how i am lucky enough to meet you to get a good spanking. Can i have any clues about your location? Looking forward to seeing you.

Response: Here's your first clue - Planet Earth.

I have to wonder how anyone can read this blog at all and not recognize (a) I'm already in an exclusive relationship, (b) I don't spank, (c) I'm not looking to meet people for play, and (d) spelling is important to me.

Question: Would you ever consider selling your thongs?

Answer: The stores are full of them. Go buy some frilly underthings of your very own. You can tell the cashier that they're actually for your hot model girlfriend.

Question: A while back I was reading this conversation talking about real discipline and one person described a spanking routine that will guarantee the person will be crying after it is done. I have had a few hard spankings and wanted to try this one out. I like to be forced beyond the point where it hurts too much & I truly want it to stop and this one made me very curious and excited. I dont have a true Discipline lifestyle but do have a disciplinarian I visit occasionally that will give me one that is as close to real as you can get.

Response: I don't think it's possible for any spanking routine to induce crying in everyone every time. I do know one couple who managed to go overboard in their quest for tears. There was no permanent damage inflicted, but it was enough to derail the spanking part of their relationship for a while. So I would urge caution when testing limits.

In any such undertaking, honest communication between you and your disciplinarian is essential. You should discuss limits beforehand as well as what you seek to achieve. I strongly recommend a safeword and you should not be afraid to use it. It is very possible to be seriously injured if the swats stray away from the soft, fleshy tissue. If you are truly hurt, there is no glory in continuing. Live to play another day.

Question: May I write a guest post?

Response: If you want to write about some aspect of spanking and you can offer MBS readers an interesting perspective, I would welcome the chance to work with you.

Comment: Must write to say that the pic of your behind is very nice

Response: Thank you. I hope you had a chance to sample my writing as well.

Statement: I have just reviewed your lovely site and I share the same interest as you related to Adult Spanking. My interest probably began as a youngster and became my favorite subject as an adult, related to Adult Spanking.
I would appreciate discussing/sharing this exciting subject with you at your convenience? My profile can be found on many Spanking sites...

Response: I'm pleased to meet you. I hope you will understand that the majority of my free time is devoted to this blog. The good news is that most of what I have to say about the subject of spanking can be found right here. The bad news is that I don't get as much time as I would like for conversations with readers. Consequently, the best way to engage me in discussion is to drop by the blog for Sunday brunch or comment on posts that interest you.

Comment: I haven't written before, but I now feel as though I should. Your blog has helped me to make a change in my life for the better. I asked my husband if he would spank me for fun and, to my surprise and amazement, he agreed! I am now getting spanked every week and our love life is simply amazing! Thank you. Thank you!

Response: That's wonderful news. It's gratifying to read stories like this one. Spanking is obviously not for everyone, but for those of us who love it, it can be pure magic. I wish you and your husband many years of spanko bliss.

Question: Would you do linktrades with my blog?

Response: I get one or two of these messages every week. As you can see, I give links to a large number of blogs. My guidelines remain unchanged. I'm generally looking for spanking-related content created by real people. Beyond that, I don't care for blogs that are exploitive, offensive, blatantly commercial, extremely explicit, purely derivative, or interested solely in gaining traffic. Within these bounds, I'm pretty flexible.

Question: Do you know what it feels like to have a thumb up your ass?

Response: Do I really have to answer that? Wait a minute. This is my blog. I respectfully decline to answer that question. But I do wonder why he needs to know...

I think that's enough for now.