I am often musing about this question. However much I may want to meet other enthusiasts it wouldn't be prudent given my wife's attitude to the subject. Spanking isn't just something like flower arranging or sports is it? There are distinct sexual aspects to it.
As it is I've no idea how one would go about finding fellow spankos locally. I did receive an invitation to a small meeting recently, but it was hundreds of miles away, so it was impractical anyway.
The internet is a good way to reassure oneself that one is not alone, but it also reminds one of the part of one's life which is not being expressed, and thus despite the kindness of many "net friends", it can be depressing.
Although it started here on blogs Nick and I have loved getting to know Eva and Adam in person! Two years ago I would not have believed this would have been possible.
There is also a couple in our real lives that I KNOW are spankos. There are too many clues for it not to be true. We go out with them often and we have begun teasing one another with leading questions and meaningful looks. Well it is mostly the other husband and I saying thing. His wife just laughs and Nick tell me later "Will you quiet egging him on?" I can't help it! It's such a kick!
Bonnie, a couple of days ago I would have said 'no'. But I think one of my co-workers is that way (or similarly) inclined. She saw a sci-fi book I was reading (which I thought looked vanilla enough from the cover) and said she knew it was a kinky book with lots of S/M in it, had read the whole series, and recommended another author of similar books. I wasn't embarrassed but neither did I pursue the subject. We get along well and are working on the same project, but I will try to refrain from bringing up the subject for now. I do know she lives an alternative lifestyle.
We met other couples on several spanking events. Some people asked if we were interested in having closer contact. We said: "yes, sure. Like to mail". And we had our private party with some friends we met on the party. It wasn't only nice talking however.We had play too. Yes, with other partners and it was exciting.
• Yes, my husband SPANKS me! • This is an experience I know well • Bare bottom spankings really hurt • Sometimes I need an attitude adjustment • We explore our favorite spanking fantasies • I am a bad girl who earns harsh discipline • I fully consent and willingly participate • His thick wooden paddle reads ”BONNIE" • Hanging on our wall, its purpose is obvious • I hoist my hem to expose my ample cheeks • I take my position face down across his lap • He loves when I'm still pink from last time • He paddles me often & I totally deserve it • He swats my butt until it is red and sore • The impact of wood against skin jolts me • This is not play. My spankings are very real • I receive traditional corporal punishment • When he is done, I am humble and contrite • I display my crimson bottom in the corner • Photos and videos document my discomfort • I blush with embarrassment at both ends • Even when it is painful to sit, I still smile • Punishment spankings are my #1 turn-on • The act of surrender replenishes my spirit
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I am often musing about this question. However much I may want to meet other enthusiasts it wouldn't be prudent given my wife's attitude to the subject. Spanking isn't just something like flower arranging or sports is it? There are distinct sexual aspects to it.
As it is I've no idea how one would go about finding fellow spankos locally. I did receive an invitation to a small meeting recently, but it was hundreds of miles away, so it was impractical anyway.
The internet is a good way to reassure oneself that one is not alone, but it also reminds one of the part of one's life which is not being expressed, and thus despite the kindness of many "net friends", it can be depressing.
Although it started here on blogs Nick and I have loved getting to know Eva and Adam in person! Two years ago I would not have believed this would have been possible.
There is also a couple in our real lives that I KNOW are spankos. There are too many clues for it not to be true. We go out with them often and we have begun teasing one another with leading questions and meaningful looks. Well it is mostly the other husband and I saying thing. His wife just laughs and Nick tell me later "Will you quiet egging him on?" I can't help it! It's such a kick!
Hugs,
PK
Bonnie, a couple of days ago I would have said 'no'. But I think one of my co-workers is that way (or similarly) inclined. She saw a sci-fi book I was reading (which I thought looked vanilla enough from the cover) and said she knew it was a kinky book with lots of S/M in it, had read the whole series, and recommended another author of similar books. I wasn't embarrassed but neither did I pursue the subject. We get along well and are working on the same project, but I will try to refrain from bringing up the subject for now. I do know she lives an alternative lifestyle.
Hugs,
Hermione
We met other couples on several spanking events. Some people asked if we were interested in having closer contact. We said: "yes, sure. Like to mail". And we had our private party with some friends we met on the party. It wasn't only nice talking however.We had play too. Yes, with other partners and it was exciting.
I meet them quite often. With luck, my hand ends up as sore as they are by the end of the meeting!
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