Sunday, June 03, 2007

MBS Spanko Brunch #72


Welcome back to our regular Sunday get together. I'm glad you dropped by. This week, we will consider spanking time. By this, I don't mean the amount of time spent spanking, but rather the time of day when spankings occur.

Have you a favorite time of day for spankings? If so, when and why? To what extent does your answer depend upon the the nature and purpose of the spanking?

If you have thoughts you would like to contribute to our discussion, I invite you to leave a comment below, send me an e-mail message, or post a response on your own blog. Once everyone has provided their input, I will publish a summary.

20 comments :

New Beginnings said...

No contest! My hands down favorite is afternoon. For me this has a lot to do with knowing the days that we will have complete privacy. We are both fully awake and their is no need to rush. We take out time, we play we talk and we take cuddle afterwards. Early mornings before work can be fun -- but for the best time, I will go for afternoon.

Hugs,
PK

FlinchFlower said...

Yes. I prefer a spanking in the morning if it is related to behaviour at work, or before class if it's related to school. I'd like a hard spanking then, so the sting lasts through the whole day, setting me up for meditation upon my errors. Otherwise a spanking just before dinner, so that it's necessary to sit on a wooden chair and squirm, or a spanking before bedtime - that's preferred when it's going to be very serious, hard discipline, so there's time for reassurance afterwards, and the ability to be put to bed if it wears me out badly.

Reesa Roberts said...

I get a bedtime spanking at least 3-4 times a week, so that's when it's most often. I prefer first thing in the morning, though - really gets your blood flowing and fills you with energy you didn't know you had! D sleeps as late as possible, though, and then rushes around in a hurry to get to work, LOL. I don't know why a spanking can put me to sleep at night, but wake me up in the morning, but I love it either way! Great question, Bonnie!

Huggs,
Reesa

Anonymous said...

i love my just before bedtime spanking. helps me release stress and become centered. i do so sleep better with a hot and sore bottom. these spankings are erotic and everynight unless my lover has to travel. good question. happy spanking. jammin33333

Pagan said...

Due to having children in the house, our spankings are always done late at night, when we're sure everyone is asleep.

A few weeks ago, my hubby was home during the day when the kids were out, and we were able to take advantage of some rare privacy. It was nice not to have to worry about noise - although it meant he pulled out some favourite nasties.

I do love being spanked before bed though - curling up against him afterwards as we both fall asleep. Yum.

david said...

Our spanking play is usually in the evenings or anytime on the weekends. Our oldest is home disabled and our youngest is 15 We work these play times around them not hearing.

Paige Tyler said...

Any time of day! LOL! However, we do set aside time for spankings, and I really look forward to them! Like my mid-week spankings, which my hubby gives me before he goes to work on Wednesday mornings. And our standing Saturday afternoon spanking date! Of course, we always manage to fit in other spankings throughout the week, too!

*hugs*
Paige (Tigger)

Spankoe said...

Sign me up for bedtime spankings! Talk about letting go of the days stress, and being ready for a sound night of sleep (after a little post-spanking sex), a spanking does that for me.
I only get to see my guy one weekend a month currently, so he has a lot of catching up to do when he's here. The goodnight spanking is the one I enjoy most!

Paul said...

Bonnie, our favourite time was bedtime closely followed by early morning.
Both these times were erotic spankings, the first to ensure a good nights sleep for both of us, the second, rather harder to set Mel up for the day.
This isn't to say that spankings didn't happen at other times, that depended on our mood.
The rare punishment only took place in my office and always as soon after the offence as reasonable.
Warm hugs,
Paul.

Tim said...

I hate to say it, but I'm not much of a morning person so give me anything in the P.M. I hate trying to give a spanking and then falling over asleep. Really wrecks the mood.

Mary said...

We have a long distance relationship and both of us have demanding jobs so when ever we are together there are many spankings to catch up on. I think I like the afternoon spanking the best. It is usually the one to clear the slate - he is fresh and my bottom feels it! but then there is nice afternoon sex and cuddles and a long evening together to enjoy. I have found that when a hard discipline spanking comes right before bed, even though we cuddle and have sex- if he has to leave early in the morning it is really hard on my emotionally. If the spanking is hard - I not only need cuddles and love - I think I need som "ordinary time" to readjust and if it was a late night spank followed by an early morning good bye the let down is huge and my emotions are very raw.

Anonymous said...

Bill loves to spank me before bed something about a hot bottom next to him. I must admit I do like the stress relief it does bring me. 2nd to bed time I do love afternoon spankings that just ahppen to work thier magic all evening than of course it's time fot a bedtime spanking.

Discpline spanking occur when ever the offense happens not special time.
Patricia

pinkcheeks said...

Spankings usually occur in the evenings, although they have taken place at other times as well. Since our children are grown and out of the house, we now have free reign.....so, when the mood "strikes"..... *grin*

A.S.S. said...

Most of our spankings take place in the morning... between 8 and 9am. That has it good points and bad. The bad is, they often feel somewhat rushed. There are a day worth of stuff to do, afterall. It's nice way to start the day though. Puts a better focus on the day, and actually getting stuff done.

Sure would be nice to have the option to spank at other times of the day though!
:)
~T & S

Ofia said...

I can't decide.

I love spankings in the evening because I can relax the rest of the day... and only sit on soft things. I love spankings before bed because then I'm going to sleep so very well. I love spankings in the late morning/early afternoon before we start the day (weekends) because then I'm reminded all day of the fun we had.

None of that changes, regardless of the type of spanking I'm receiving.

Theresa said...

Lazy late Saturday afternoons! Yummo!

Huggs
Theresa

BB said...

Late afternoons are the ones I enjoy most. That means we have the whole rest of the night to cuddle and play. We don't get to be together very often so when we do we don't waste much time. There is just something about getting a spanking and then getting to play for a couple hours then snuggling together and falling asleep. I love it!

CIN-D-GIRL said...

I have no favorite time for spankings ... I guess it depends most on what's going on. I love a spanking before dinner out ... before riding, before a family picnic ... that sort of thing. And then again ... bedtime spankings do something to me that nothing else can do. So ... there ... my answer! Just before bed!
Hugs!
Cindy

Caryagal said...

I love spankings before bed. I love to cuddle and hug and be close afterwards. We don't get much chance for any other time at this point in our lives with the little kids. Every once in a while there is a few minutes in the afternoon and I truely enjoy that too. I think one before a dinner out or a long trip in the car would be awesome. I shall dream about that for now and hope to enjoy it when the kids are a little older!

Hugs!
Carye

Bonnie said...

As empty nesters, our opportunities are limitless, or so it might seem. The truth is that both of us have responsibilities that frequently take us away from home. We still have to schedule time for play.

Our favorite standing date is Friday evening. It’s that perfect transition point. Both stress and the need for stress relief are at their highest. We’re ready to move into the more relaxing pace of a weekend. A good spanking provides a clear demarcation, a jumping off point, and a celebration of another week completed. The resulting reconnection sets the ideal mood for the weekend to come.

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