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This week's question was sent to me by a reader a few weeks ago. I considered including it in the mailbag segment, except that I don't know the answer. I'm hoping some of our single or previously unattached participants will have some good suggestions.
Have you any signs or gestures that allow you to signal your spanko proclivities to a potential partner?
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If you are searching people on an online social networking site such as Friendster, MySpace, or Facebook, a user who lists "Secretary" as a favorite film might be a good candidate.
Just a thought; I don't know if that really holds true.
I don't have any secret signs or signals, but I'd sure love to know about them if anyone else has any! I sometimes wonder how any D/s folk ever made connections before the internet made it possible to pinpoint like-minded people.
I don't know any and sure wish I had.
I thought about getting a license plate that read OTK. I felt the right people might read and follow me!
A friend saw a strange girl in the grocery store wearing a t shirt that said naughty. He took that as his cue, and last I heard they were living happily every after!
Huggs
Theresa
Tee hee. I have a pajama top that says "Naughty" on it, but I don't wear it out and about.
There is the whole gay "hanky code", but I don't know anyone who actually remembers the details of it, so it may not help out.
Fuscia is apparently the color for spanking, in the left back pocket if you're a top, and the right if you're a bottom.
I skimmed the list, and can someone explain to me what a "cuddling fetish" is, and how there can be a top and a bottom while you're cuddling? (The flag for that is teddy bears, should you be interested.)
And am I the last person on earth who routinely uses a handkerchief (white, cotton) primarily for the purpose of (gasp!) blowing my nose?
As for other signals... there's always keeping a hairbrush or bathbrush visible. Or keeping slightly kinky books on your shelves. Or just bratting a whole lot (if you're a bottom). (I've had people with whom I wasn't in a relationship, and with whom I hadn't discussed kink, deliver a resounding smack for some of my bratting!)
Best of luck.
We NEED one, Bonnie!
We can start one right here and now.
My suggestion; bottoms put a flat palm to a posterior cheek and rub in a circular motion, while tops put the heels of their hands together and clap repeatedly.
I would love it if this (or some widely recognized signal) became common and widespread.
Bonnie, I'm trying to remember how I knew Mel was into spanking.
I think that she asked a question about discipline in the army, and I replied, "not by spanking", everyone chuckled, but Mel gave me a look.
It would be nice if there was a code but it's better to rely on ESP!!!
Nice one Bonnie,
Warm hugs,
Paul.
I always thought it interesting to just bring up spanking as a topic....like how they have spankings in movies...and see how they react. Sometimes that works and sometimes it doesn't for me. But wow, when you get a weird reaction....RUN for the hills...LOL!!
Thanks for visiting my blog Bonnie and for the invite to come and read yours!!
~FBG~ as known as Funny Brat Girl
If I were younger and out there looking I think I would have a tee shirt that read "Love OTK". Now I am a life long spanko and when I first started reading on the internet it was several days before I realized what it stood for. However anyone who is into spanking does know these initials. So if I were wearing my tee shirt and some guy asked about it I could just say "If you have to ask it doesn't matter!"
Hugs,
Elis
Funny how spankophiles think alike! Only yesterday I did a search on my facebook networks to see who listed 'Secretary'. Threw up some interesting results... would love to know if others have found this a reliable signal (or not).
Don
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