Monday, July 10, 2006

Tigger's Meme

I promised Tigger that I would complete her meme. It took me a while to get around to doing so, but here are my responses.

My Personality:
  • I talk a lot, but I try to listen more
  • I feel others pain, sometimes as acutely as my own
  • I’m a friendly sort, though perhaps a little cautious at first
  • I’m a perfectionist
My Sexual Preferences:
  • I am straight and monogamous (sounds so vanilla, but it's true)
  • Spanking is a sex act for me
  • I’m submissive, but that side of me is visible mostly in the bedroom
  • I’m available for just about anything Randy wants to try so long as it doesn’t involve permanent injury
My Fears and Inhibitions:
  • I am afraid of the inhumanity of war
  • I carefully avoid what I believe to be dangerous places
  • I worry most about the possibility of harm coming to my family
My Strengths:
  • I can communicate effectively with many types of people
  • I am an optimist
  • My sense of humor
  • I can be mentally tough when necessary
My Weaknesses:
  • I over-commit myself sometimes
  • I can get caught up in the moment and lose sight of the big picture
  • I expend too much effort and emotion on lost causes
  • I’m stubborn
What I Like About My Appearance:
  • My curves are still more or less where they belong
  • I am blessed with “good hair”
  • My blue eyes
My Background:
  • I enjoyed a mostly happy childhood
  • I was always a good student
  • In school, I was more cute than pretty; the kind of girl guys would rather befriend than date
  • I attended a large urban university (and liked it!)
  • I married Randy when we were fairly young, but I’ve never regretted that choice
What I Love:
  • My family
  • Making love with my husband in every way
  • Spankings, spanking stories, spanko enthusiasts, spanking lore, spanking implements, etc…
  • Live performances
  • Romantic weekend escapes
  • Good friends and good conversation
What I Loathe:
  • Senseless violence and cruelty
  • Greed and deceit
  • Apathy
  • Machiavellian head games
  • Hatred and bigotry
What I Could Take or Leave:
  • Television
  • Newspapers (and I was a journalism major!)
  • Alcoholic beverages
  • Diets
My Favorite Foods:
  • Chocolate anything
  • Fresh field greens salad with vinaigrette
  • Toasted rye bagel with butter
  • Spring water


Mistress Sky said...

Nice to know a little more about you, Bonnie! - that Tigger's pretty persuasive, isn't she?! :)
Sky x

Cassie said...

Hi Bonnie,
Thank-you for your answers. I like to know more about my friends on line. What I am realizing is that while we are all unique and interesting, we are all so normal. I used to think I was the only one in the world fantasied by spanking but since everyone keeps this pretty much a secret to their real life friends I now look at friends and neighbors and I wonder...


Anonymous said...

Very insightful and interesting!!! Thanks for sharing with us!!!


Tigger said...

Hey Bon,

Thanks so much for doing this, and after such a long time... I know that it took a while and you put lots of thought into it (as you do everything here and undoubtedly in your real-life).

Your compassion is your greatest attribute as far as I can see, your willingness to help anyone and everyone, and do it expediently and with a smile... your kindness is overwhelming.

Thanks for sharing more of yourself with us... I second Cassie about how "normal" we are, and often how much else we have in common besides our kink, right down to our favorite foods, likes, dislikes. Our aversion to violence proliferates as well as our appreciation for simple pleasures like sunsets or chocolate...

Big hugs and thank you again for taking the time to do this and then to share it with us!

padme said...

Glad you did the meme. I enjoyed seeing your answers. You mentioned alcoholic beverages? I'm curious what your favorite drink is?? Romantic weekends are so awesome. I'm going on one this weekend...mind you, it's camping with the kid's. Maybe not as romantic. But to a very romantic place...
I'd be curious to hear your most romantic place you've been too...

I love chocolate anything too!!

Paul said...

Thanks Bonnie, that was very interesting.

Bonnie said...

Sky - She is indeed!

Cassie - Yes, that relative normality was a revelation for me a few years back. We spankos are simply regular people living our lives. We just happen to enjoy sprinkling a bit of spice on our love lives.

Tigger Too - You're welcome.

Tigger - I said I'd get around to it...

Thank you for your kind words. I like to help when I can.

Padme - I can truly take or leave alcoholic beverages. I might have a glass of wine on rare occasions, but mostly I skip it.

I believe you said you're going to Tofino. I've always heard about it, but have never been to Vancouver Island (although we've been to the Olympic Peninsula). I look forward to your report.

Paul - You are most welcome.

Anonymous said...

HI Bonnie,now i know not only do posse a beautiful body! but a mind & soul to goodness! if the world only had a lot more beautiful BONNIES IN IT.WHAT A WONDERFUL PLACE THIS WOULD BE!! to me two of the greatest qualties in a person is to be able to forgive and understand other peoples sorrow! and we spankers are some of the best people on earth.God Bless,FROM BOB.

Mary said...

I agree with BOB, more Bonnies would equal a nicer world.

I liked your comment about your curves. I have mine - in the right places, but in So Cal thin is still so in, and plastic mounds on a flat board are considered sexy. Me, I have the whole curvy, hip, thighs, bottom and a little tummy pouch, and definately natural breasts. This being said, I end up at times at functions with great food and all the women around me commenting on how they can't eat this or that because of one diet or another - sharing their diligence to figure watching ect. Well one particular time I was sick and tired of these type conversations over dinner that ended with me feeling quilty or somehow odd for actually wanting to enjoy my meal and dessert and maybe even eat it ALL! My response, (curvey self among thin OC types) "OHH you are so right, watching your figure couldn't be more important, I better enjoy dessert now, It is important that my curves stay padded and soft." I then smiled and savored my next bite - while being glared at with envy or distain I am not sure - but I felt better proclaiming my desire to enjoy life, dessert and my curves. For spankos - a soft round bottom is definately a good thing!

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