Sunday, June 04, 2006

MBS Spanko Brunch #20

Welcome to our first brunch in the month of June. Today's topic is one to which I've been particularly looking forward. Before and during a spanking, I love it when Randy talks to me. He has a number of phrases that turn me on immediately. One example is the classic instruction, "drop your pants and bend over." On that note, here's our question:

Do you and your partner have any spanking-related words or phrases that you find especially exciting? If so, when and how are they used?

I invite you to contribute your thoughts and experiences. Please leave a comment below, send me an e-mail, or post a response on your own blog. Once everyone has submitted their thoughts, I will post a summary of the discussion.

Thanks in advance for sharing your wisdom!


jeanmarie said...

When things are clicking between us well, then almost anything out of his mouth is a turn-on, but here are some special favs:
"Go select an implement that you think you deserve to feel." This puts the onus on me. I usually pick out several and hope that he settles on one I WANT to feel.
"You've had this coming, young lady." Always said when his hand is circling on a cheek and I'm about to feel the first spank. Kyle prefers this to be on the bare, unlike previous loves who liked to bare the target in the process of spanking. Unless I've been really bad, he always starts with hand spanking to warm me up first. This phrase gets my juices flowing. I usually make some smart-ass remark about wanting to cum, expressing how I want to get through the hurt and humiliation, and get to the making-up part.
"Please reach back here with both hands and part your cheeks wide," which signals that the anal play phase is about to begin, which means it's not punishment anymore and is about to get real good. (I don't know about others, but I enjoy being touched, penetrated, even spanked on this sweet spot.)
Finally "Do you think you've learned your lesson?" He doesn't ask this until he's already certain that I have. I've never not been brought to a place of contrition when this is asked, so "Yes, sir," has been my answer every time. It comes when we've come full circle, I always feel that I've earned the pleasure (warmth, cuddling, sex) to follow.
You ask the BEST questions in these brunches, Bonnie; they always provoke thought and arousal. When the latter is too strong, sometimes I don't do enough of the former. This question worked on all levels for me. I look forward to reading other responses.
Jean Marie

Anonymous said...

Wow great question this week. My partner and I have D/S spankings and Good Girl spankings and just BECAUSE I'm horny spankings. When she has done something naughty and I tell her she is getting PUNISHED that will get her juices flowing. The word PUNISHED is all it takes. When we are doing a Good Girl spanking she will often tell me that she is sorry that she did whatever and she deserves to be PUNISHED. If I am horny all I need to do is tell her YOU'RE GETTING PUNISHED for that and she gets aroused.

PUNISHED is the MAGIC word for us.


Don said...

She enjoys force fantasies. One that never gets old is that after she has been warmed up and is squirming her bottom around in a most shameless manner, I whisper that the next licks will be hard and ask her if she will take her licks like a good girl. She asks if she has to and I tell her she must. That puts her over the top when she verbalizes her submission.
So for us, it’s not so much what I say, it her asking me if she has to submit that turns her into jelly.

kk said...

"Assume the position slave".
I know when Master says that my ass is in for a red hot time and I love it.

Mike said...

Another great question, Bonnie. The phrase that can always get me going is, "Drop 'em". Puling down my pants for a spanking has an instant reaction for me. For my wife, I believe it's the word spanking. She has said her races races when I say things like, "turn over for your spanking". If I just say, "turn over." she usually looks at me innocently and asks, "why?" like she does know, yeah right.

In public we like to tease each other, but very sublty. At stores where we see a potential implement, casual phrases like, "That might be handy", or "we could use on of those". Another favorite is any piece of red clothing, "that's a good color...on you".

I can't wait to read these answers.


rose said...

wow....another thing i find we don't really do. my spankings usually come in the midst of everything else. sometimes i end up asking in a rather coy little voice if i could please have a spanking. or he'll say "come on baby, time to spank you" . that's all i need to hear to scramble to the bottom of the bed and bend over. since jefferson and i are both still relatively new to this world, we are still finding our way with each other and developing rituals and new spanking stances. friday with our new toys....that was enough to keep me excited and dying for my spanking....feeling those new toys. so, "let's try out those paddles" got me going. seems there's still so much to discover. and the journey is so much fun!!!


Paul said...

In rather more than thirty years we had a number of sayings that really turned us on.
The one that lasted from when we started dating until the very end was, "are you sitting comfortably",
this would start Mel giggling, and if we were alone she'd be over my knees and bare, "then we'll begin", as the first smack landed.
There were many others, bend over, who's a naughty girl, assume the position, so what have you got to say for yourself, if she had earned a real spanking rather than a GG, and many others.
Love your questions they always send me down Memory Lane, thanks Bonnie.

goodangel said...

Aside from the typical "young lady", he calls me "Gina Marie" when I'm getting into trouble...very deep, smooth voice that just sends shivers. ::daydreaming::

oh...sorry ::blush:: I think the one that has gotten me the most, was the day he told me that while he was reading my last entry on my blog, I was to go into the bedroom, remove my panties, and lie on my tummy on the bed, legs spread wide...."maximum exposure, little girl".


padme said...

Hey bonnie,
Great question for the brunch today. That coffee looks very tempting right now. :)
I think some phases which turn me on are:
~assume the position (whether that's over the pillow or desk or whatever)
~I'm going to go get my belt
~How's your ass, slave?
~you need a attitude adjustment

Those get me weak in the knees ever time he uses them..and very turned on.
Hope you are having a good weekend.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm...well, I absolutely love my hubby's sexy voice...and when he says things like...

"Assume the position..."
"Ask me to spank you..."
"Go get your paddle..." simply makes me melt!!! *sigh*


Bonnie said...

This is turning out even better than I imagined (and that's pretty good)!

Here's a good selection of my favorites.

jeanmarie said...

Often the simple word "spank" used as a noun or a verb can get me going. Speaking of which, your story, Bonnie, revved my engine.
Jean Marie

Cameo said...

Oh gosh...what a great question, Bonnie! And what answers lol.

Ummmm...thinking. (Boss says I have to answer this one thoughtfully or else.) Okay - a short list.

Behave or else (as above lol!)
Bare it and bend over!
You're cruisin' for a bruisin'.
You're achin' for a bakin'.
You're asking for it, young lady.
You know how I love you in red.
You know how good red looks on you.
Keep it up and you'll get what's coming to you!
*raised eyebrow* Would you like to go to the bedroom and have a talk with Mr. Paddle?
You're going to need a nap shortly if you keep that up.
Behave yourself, wench.
You're kind of pale. I think you need a tanning.
And when I'm really bad - Keep sassing me, and you'll feel the flat of my hand on the round of your butt.

Janeen said...

I'm like a lot of others in that just the word spank sends tingles throughout my body. But I would have to say it's the look on his face when he says "I think it's time for a spanking." That look pushes my buttons every time!

Excellent topic Bonnie!

Anonymous said...

When he says "come over here" in just the right tone of voice


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