Monday, December 05, 2005

Bonnie's Top Twenty: Spanking Positions

Here's a fun list. Have you tried these?

  1. Over the lap at the edge of a bed or couch – This is my favorite position. The spanker sits at the edge of a bed or couch. The spankee lies face down across his lap with her bottom positioned for convenient spanking. For all over the lap positions, the best implements are short paddles, hairbrushes, or similar small toys.

  2. Over the lap on a plain, armless chair – This classic position is overrated. The woman must support herself with hands and toes. This balancing act distracts from the more important matter at hand.

  3. Over the lap at the center of a bed – In this variation, the spanker sits on the bed with legs extended and the spankee lies across his lap. This position works best when the spanker is positioned at the head of the bed and can lean back against a wall or headboard.

  4. The Scissor – This position is identical to over the lap, except that the spanker places one leg over both of the spankee’s legs. This arrangement keeps the recipient in places and controls kicking.

  5. Hands and knees – As the name suggests, the spankee is positioned upon hands and knees, typically on a bed or the floor. This position is convenient for both spanking and sex. Almost any implement can be used.

  6. Standing with hands down – The spankee stands, bent over, with hands placed on a chair or bed. This classic position lends itself to the use of longer, more severe implements.

  7. Standing ankle grab – The spankee stands, bent far over, with hands around her ankles. This is the traditional institutional corporal punishment stance. It stretches the bottom to make it more vulnerable. Longer, more severe implements are typically used.

  8. Standing over leg – The spanker places one leg on a stool or similar platform while the spankee faces her spanker and bends over the extended thigh.

  9. Standing arm around waist – The spankee faces the spanker and bends forward while the spanker’s arm encircles her waist.

  10. Spoon – Most couples are very familiar with the spoon position, where the spanker lies on his side behind and parallel to the spankee. While not an ideal arrangement for spanking, it works for a few quick swats. In such close quarters, implements are impractical.

  11. The Splits – This is an odd position that works surprisingly well. The spanker sits cross-legged in the center of a bed with pillows behind his back for support. The spankee then positions herself on her stomach with her legs straddling her partner. Pillows beneath her torso are helpful. Short to medium sized implements work best. Interestingly, the spanker can easily employ an implement in each hand for rapid fire spanking.

  12. Kneeling – The spankee kneels on the floor or a bed, often with her hands bound overhead. This position works well for belts, straps, canes, and similar whippy implements.

  13. Janeen’s kneel – The spankee kneels on the seat of a chair with her arms wrapped around the back. This position allows for almost any implement.

  14. Over the back or arm of a chair or couch – This position is relatively comfortable for the spankee (aside from the obvious) because she is fully supported. Almost any implement is appropriate.

  15. Lying on seat of chair – The spankee places knees on the floor and her chest on the seat of a chair. In the case of a rocking chair, the rocking motion can be utilized to enhance and intensify the spanking.

  16. Diaper – OK, I hate this one. The spankee lies on her back at the edge of a bed. The spanker stands on the floor and lifts her legs into the air. The bottom is fully exposed as is every other private locale. Short implements work best.

  17. Lying flat on bed, couch, or floor – The spankee lies on her stomach, typically on a bed. A common variation places the spankee’s torso atop a pile of pillows.

  18. During doggy style sex – This sounds better than it is. In fact, the spanker is so close that he cannot reach the primary spanking surfaces. As a result, he ends up spanking hips and thighs instead. Many spankees dislike this type of play.

  19. During woman on top sex – In contrast, this spanking and sex combination can actually work, though aim can be a challenge. The spanker typically employs a long handled implement such as a bath brush and reaches around. Since the spanker cannot see his target, he must spank by feel.

  20. The tuck – The spankee assumes a low, face down crouch with knees beneath her. Because bones are exposed, this position works best with flexible leather implements.

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rivka said...

Those are awesome, lol. I just sent a copy of this to Rico *g*. Here's another interesting one I know of:
(Because I can think of nothing better, I'll call it "The Dive")

The Dive - The spankee kneels on a chair or bed and leans forward until her thighs are flat against the seat of the chair/bed, her stomach pressed fairly close (or at a diagonal depending on how tall she is) to the front legs/side of the bed, and her hands support her torso flat on the floor. Her legs lay against the back of the chair or flat across the bed. Good for just about any implement (that I can think of).

Lisa said...

Well I have to agree with you on Number 16. I hate It. Number 18 works very nicely if the spanker times it right because my hubby smacks me in the right spot every time we have sex doggy style. Thanks for the list of fun.

CeeCi said...

Lova,lova,lova #1, makes me feel like MoJo's little girl, and ultra feminine. #14 rocks and #20 is great...with toys! Fabbo list Ms. the way your mind works.

E., aka CrankyCat said...

This is too funny -- it's like the Kama Sutra of spanking! Although I must say, #7 and #16, for me, are absolutely NO FREAKIN' WAY. :-D

Janeen said...


I was reading down through thinking, yep, we've done that one...Oh that's a good one.....that one's fun too....and then I see the one with my name on it, yes we have definitely done that one. LOL

Thanks for an interesting list, and for naming a position after me. I had a crappy day, but this really made me smile!

Edward said...

Yep tried them all!#16 works great when you need to make a point or get her attention.#17 Is also a favorite of mine,with pillows.I like seeing that round ass in the air and the pink flower peeking out waiting for my attention.

little one said...

OMG Bonnie, some of these made me laugh. VERY good list though. #8 & 9 are ones that really get my attention for some reason. I get these a lot when I'm not cooperating or he thinks he doesn't have my attention. Thanks for the compilation. :)

Storm Rider said...

My slave and I have lot to experiment with , from looking at your list.
Thanks Bonnie, I beleive we have only managed three of whats there.
Seven more to go! :)

Bonnie said...

Rivka - I'll admit I haven't tried that one. Thanks! Hopefully, we provided Rico with some helpful inspiration.

Lisa - I know a lot of couples love #18, but it just never seems quite right for me.

Ceeci - Yep, you've named some of my favorites. #20 with toys is splendid fun.

Cranky - LOL, thanks! I can tolerate #7 if there is plenty of juicy ritual and dialog wrapped around it.

Janeen - I hope when the royalty checks start rolling in that you and Will will invite us up to the chateau!

Edward - I definitely like #17 on a pile of pillows.

Little - Thank you! Randy uses #8 and #9 (they're siblings) for the quickie spanking. I must say, it makes a point all right.

Storm - Practice makes perfect!

Anonymous said...

why do you hate the diaper? just wondering - I've never tried it.

badtom said...

Enjoyed reading these Bonnie - I relish trying out the ones I havent yet tried. A variant on 17, is spanker sits on spankees shoulders and swats from that direction - esp good for fm spanking m if he's bigger than her!

Anonymous said...

My boyfriend once used a variation of the doggie style sex one. It was a particularly sassy time for me for some reason, and he was laying on the bed on his back. I was sitting on top of him, straddling him just above his hips. My knees were bent and were alongside his hips and under me. He was slapping my bottom quite hard, and I really had no control. He looked into my eyes and said, I can see the stubbornness in your eyes. He then reached up to the night stand beside the bed and grabbed the lube, applying it to his fingers. It was quite a humbling experience. He took me anally and continued to smack my bottom even harder as he looked into my eyes. Even I could feel my demeanor changing. Now, he's a strict disciplinarian, his eyes are very intense. This was definitely the most intense punishment experience I've had.


Anonymous said...

I prefer a position where I have to exercise self-control and not have to be held in position by my husband. Originally this was bending over with my skirt up to touch my toes or grasp my ankles but now at the age of 40+ it is difficult to adopt this position and I now bend over with my hands on the seat of a dining chair. I still get a lot of satisfaction at being able to take a painful spanking volutarily without having to be restrained.

Jake said...

I enjoyed this list of positions very much! We've tried more than half of them already, but the others...well, they've given me some ideas. We may have a surprise or two in the bedroom tonight!

Penelope said...

Bingo!! My wonderful better half and I have tried all of these. Do I win a spanking?

Anonymous said...

I think OTK whilst you can play with her breasts as you spank her with your other hand is really good

Anonymous said...

The scissor is my favorite. I've loved that position since it was used on me, many, many years ago.

Anonymous said...

My boyfriend always puts me over his knee, sometime tangling over legs while puts his foot on a stepping stool.

However, it's not the position but style of spankong. I think I am the only one has such a high pain tolerance.

Hi, I'm Jennifer! I've been into spanking since I was in my teens but never got involved until my 20's. I always had a safe word except for discipline spanking with my boyfriend. It is "Superman" three times in a row, but I never used it. I thought I was the only one but I have such a extremely high pain tolerance that when we first started he would stop because of the condition of my backside before I ever used my safe word, even when it was suppose to be a discipline style. He would never get me to cry. He calls me "Supergirl” buns of steel." He'd always used thick wooden implements or thick western belts.

He is always afraid of going too far. He always felt bad about the bruises and welts he would leave but I expected it. He's also always gave me slower types whacks too. I finally got him to not be afraid hit hard but I'd be bruised up to bad for him and he end up stopping before it even affected me. I hardly made a peep so he wouldn't get any verbal response from me either. This went on for like a year and we were both frustrated because no matter how hard he whack it barely got a response from me.

We talked and finally found something that worked during a discipline spanking. He switched me one time and that got me yelping a lot and even hop up and down. We discovered that it was what he was using and the way he was applying them. We learned that lighter and stingy implements were the trick also. Also, my pain tolerance goes down with the brisk fast type swats and more lengthy. He was concerned at first because he felt he was wailing on me. It took a while for use to both get use to it. The implements now are switches (hate them), thin but durable ruler type paddles, curtain rods and thin leather office belts (hate them).

For discipline spankings, he now knows exactly how make me cry. I have to have rapid fire swats from the beginning, very lengthy and no warm up. With no warm up it creates a "shock and awe" to start right off with rapid fire swats with no pauses in between them on completely cold and bare bottom. With no safe word and of course no swat limit, we also discovered that he has to keep going quit a while like that until I loose my composer and start crying for real. Am I the only one who has such a high pain tolerance that needs such extreme measure for it to be effective and get that cathartic release?

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