Large Population advocates cite studies that show a majority of adults have fantasized about spanking or being spanked.
Small Population proponents assert that fantasizing is not spanking and a few quick whacks during sex has little in common with an OTK paddling. Therefore, any meaningful number has to be much lower.
A recent survey involving 4,989 university students, found that 59.1% said they have "been lightly spanked" during a sexual encounter. This question probes actual experience rather than just fantasies. In this context, the percentage seems fairly high.
There are a number of ways in we can interpret this single data point. University students might be more willing to experiment than the general adult population, but they almost certainly have less experience in doing so.
The question asked about being "lightly spanked," but we have no information regarding how light or how often.
Finally, the question asks the respondent whether they personally were spanked, not whether they spanked someone else. The 40.9% who responded "No" could include tops who we might otherwise count among the "Yes" responses to our question.
The factor that underlies this analysis is who we count among our ranks? I am inclined toward the Large Population viewpoint and a big tent membership.
Group | Include |
No interest | No |
Curious about spankings | No |
Tried spanking, didn't like it | No |
Fantasize about spankings | Yes |
Fifty Shades fans | Yes |
Past experience, now inactive | Yes |
Spanking only during sex | Yes |
Self-spankers | Yes |
Romantic spankings | Yes |
Recreational spankings | Yes |
Domestic Discipline | Yes |
BDSM including spankings | Yes |
If we use this definition, what's the number? I have yet to see a survey that poses the right questions, so we are still guessing based upon fragmentary evidence. My guess is somewhere between a quarter and a half of adults are spankos, with lots of variation across subpopulations.
But that's just my opinion. What do you think?