Bonnie Before Blogging: Part Two

Here's another installment of an interview I did back in the early 2000s. In a few cases, my 2022 responses might be a bit different.

Q6: Do you have a least favorite implement?

A6: Yeah, I have a bunch of least favorites! I hate anything that can break the skin. That includes most whippy and cane-like implements. I don’t like most belts or straps because they wrap around my hips. Not fun. Finally, my husband has a huge wooden paddle that is entirely too heavy to be employed on humans. Needless to say, he uses it on me. I could definitely do without that evil plank.

Q7: What do you do about bruises?

A7: Fortunately, I don’t bruise very often. When I do, it’s usually following an extended session. Perhaps it’s my constitution or the fact that I get plenty of spankings to keep my bottom in shape or because my husband knows what he is doing or because I long ago stopped worrying about marks. Maybe it’s all of these, but I just don’t have much of a problem. That’s not to suggest that I don’t have residual redness and discomfort back there. I surely do. Randy will sometimes rub some aloe cream on my bottom, but that’s as cathartic for my head as it is for my seat.

Q8: Do you receive different types of spankings?

A8: Yes. There are many shades of gray, but essentially, we have three formats. The erotic spanking is just that. It’s foreplay, plain and simple. The goals are pleasure and stimulation. I think there’s a common misconception that erotic spankings are necessarily less intense than other varieties. At least in our case, this assumption is definitely false. I can absorb a lot more when I am turned on.

The second type is therapeutic. While I may want an erotic spanking, this is the one I need. There are times when my stress levels reach a point where I crave the release I find when Randy spanks me. I am inclined toward PMS. At these times, a therapeutic spanking works wonders to clear my head and return my perspective. While lovemaking almost always follows, that isn’t the primary purpose. While the spanking is in progress, Randy’s demeanor is all business.

The third type is what I call the “attitude adjustment” spanking. This one is always Randy’s idea. It happens fairly rarely. The double-A special is reserved for occasions when my emotions are so out of control that I don’t even realize I need a spanking. If he thinks I do, then I usually do. That fact doesn’t prevent me from arguing, complaining, or seeking an appeal. None of these methods have ever been very successful. Once the spanking begins, Randy works swiftly. The whole thing probably lasts no more than five or ten minutes (though the after-effects stick around for hours). We’ll probably make love afterward, though it may not follow immediately. Each type of spanking has its purpose. Each delivers a different sort of benefit.

Q9: Have you a favorite spanking position?

A9: Yes, absolutely. Spanking for me is all about physical contact. I love the classic over the knee punishment pose. It brings us close together and leaves me well situated for other sorts of distractions. It works best at the edge of a bed. That way, I don’t have to balance on fingers and toes as with a chair, or worse yet, just hang there unsupported. I don’t mind (much) if my bottom hurts at those times, but I want the rest of me to be reasonably comfortable.

Q10: How about a least favorite spanking position?

A10: Oh yeah. I call it the diaper position. It’s where I’m lying on my back and my legs are held in the air above me. Maybe it has to do with the way the skin is stretched, but even a moderate spanking delivered in that position feels like it’s going to kill me. If I get a second choice, I’m not too fond of the “bend over and grab your ankles” position either, for pretty much the same reason.

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