Top Ten: Lovely Spanker Moves

It's the holiday season again and a time to consider all that's good in our lives. This top ten list examines positive things that a spanker can do to enhance a spankee's experience.

10. The Game – There are so many fun options here. Our favorites include Spank Poker, Trivial Pursuits, and Spin the Paddle. I think it's important that these games be reasonably fair. The spankee should have an opportunity to win something other than more spanking. We sometimes use money or a gift card as an incentive. But losing is fun too.


9. The Runway – My husband / Prince Charming loves to buy all manner of lingerie and clothes that he thinks will look sexy on me. I am flattered by his attention and happy to conduct mini-fashion shows for his benefit. These runway episodes inevitably end with spankings and our other favorite activities.


8. The Beat – We love music and especially songs with that driving drumbeat. These songs provide the perfect soundtrack for our private percussion performance.


7. The Leather – Is there anything better than accepting a long, slow, loving spanking with a soft, smooth leather implement? It generates a crimson glow that is toasty warm to touch. The ouch is sufficient to be meaningful and yield positive feelings, but fades quickly afterward. This fun spanking is excellent preparation for all that happens next.


6. The Shower - A dual shower is a good time, even without the spanking. But add in wet, soapy swats and rubs and everything that comes with that, and you have some clean, wholesome play.


5. The Costume – We enjoy roleplay spankings. Getting the costumes right adds to the fun. I've been the naughty cheerleader, June Cleaver, superheroine Booty Girl, a tennis player, and a way too curvy swimsuit model. Each role has its own (mostly ad libbed) script and set of expectations. It's a way to create memorable spanking experiences.


4. The Wave – Years ago, Randy and I had a waterbed. Yes, of course it leaked, but that's a different story. We would create a pile of pillows in the center of the bed, and I would lie, face down, atop it. That's when he would start a wave in the bed, so I was bobbing up and down. He timed each swing of the paddle so that he hit downward just as the wave carried me upward. The sensation was amazing. I loved it.


3. The Journal – Almost since the beginning of our relationship, Randy has encouraged me to write about my experiences as an enthusiastic spankee. He knew I loved to write and loved to be spanked by him, so why not combine them? Since then, I have recorded hundreds of accounts, many of which landed on this blog. I am grateful for his suggestion. It's wonderful to be able to relive all of these special moments.


2. The Buzz – It seems as though I can and will happily absorb almost limitless spankings when the right vibration caresses the right spot. A spanking alone does not put me over the top, but this technique definitely will.


1. The Massage – I love to be touched by my sweetie. I love massages with warm, scented oils. Whether before, during, or after a good spanking, his gliding fingers provide a feeling of pure bliss.

Aren’t these splendid? The ranking is mine, based upon my own experiences.

Are there any other pleasant spanker techniques that should be added to this list?