50 Reasons to Ask Your Husband/Boyfriend to Spank

The all time most popular post on this blog was entitled Fifty Reasons to Spank Your Wife or Girlfriend. I published it more than thirteen years ago. This post has been accessed over one hundred thousand times. It’s even been plagiarized by other sites several times.

So it’s now 2020. What if we flip the script? We women deserve equal consideration. So this list is for us. Specifically, our intended audience is those women who dream about receiving a good spanking from their gentleman partner, but just haven’t found the right time or the proper way to ask.

Without further ado, here are our fifty reasons to consider talking to your man about spankings.

1. There is nothing else quite like fulfilling a dream with your lover


2. His hands, your body – Enough said


3. It’s an opportunity to join a wonderful, supportive community of spankos


4. Spankings can build trust within a relationship


5. This adds a whole new dimension to birthday celebrations


6. Aftercare is bliss


7. He can become the hero of your fantasies


8. You can explore all those fun role play scenarios together


9. For many spankos. spankings work great as foreplay


10. Who among us couldn't use a little stress reduction?


11. Spankings are fun to plan


12. You can make it as romantic or as naughty as you desire


13. It’s exciting to spank in the van, in a hotel room, or on the beach


14. Pain isn’t the point, unless you enjoy it


15. Being the bad girl can be fun


16. Lots of couples enjoy spankings


17. Punishment, discipline, maintenance, therapy, stress relief, recreation, erotic – Take your pick


18. This is going to be OK and maybe a whole much better


19. You can ask him to rub your sore bottom with lotion


20. Spankings are sexy


21. Let’s discover his gruff spanker voice


22. Spankings are a fun secret to share with your lover


23. Maybe he’ll undress you


24. Everyone’s love life can use a little extra spice from time to time


25. That over the lap position is very intimate and can easily lead to different fun


26. It’s fun to view your pink bottom in a mirror afterward


27. You’ve thought about this moment for most of your life


28. Sometimes it’s good to relinquish control for a while


29. This can be another form of lovemaking


30. If you agree upon a safeword, you can bail out if you need


31. After a spanking is a wonderful time for honest, open communication


32. Your dream can be his pleasure


33. It’s fun to dress for a spanking – The possibilities are endless


34. You can make it a date


35. Experimentation is the scientific method


36. A good spanking can reboot your emotions


37. Lots of women ask, in fact, it’s better this way


38. You can experience his physical strength


39. Snuggling in the afterglow is pure delight


40. You already know that he’s obsessed with your bottom


41. Practice makes perfect


42. This could be an exciting new direction for your relationship


43. He’ll start spanking because he loves you, he’ll continue because he loves spanking you


44. Spooning


45. Maybe he’ll call you “Young Lady”


46. It’ll put a smile on both your faces


47. Willing consent is very hot


48. You can start simple and grow from there


49. It’s a pandemic so you might as well stay home


50. Let your spanko future begin now

If you would like to learn more, you might want to read a brief tutorial such as Your First Spanking. If you communicate with one another and follow a few simple rules, consensual adult spankings can be safe, fun, and fulfilling.