Friday, June 12, 2020

50 Reasons to Ask Your Husband/Boyfriend to Spank



The all time most popular post on this blog was entitled Fifty Reasons to Spank Your Wife or Girlfriend. I published it more than thirteen years ago. This post has been accessed over one hundred thousand times. It’s even been plagiarized by other sites several times.

So it’s now 2020. What if we flip the script? We women deserve equal consideration. So this list is for us. Specifically, our intended audience is those women who dream about receiving a good spanking from their gentleman partner, but just haven’t found the right time or the proper way to ask.

Without further ado, here are our fifty reasons to consider talking to your man about spankings.
  1. There is nothing else quite like fulfilling a dream with your lover

  2. His hands, your body – Enough said

  3. It’s an opportunity to join a wonderful, supportive community of spankos

  4. Spankings can build trust within a relationship

  5. This adds a whole new dimension to birthday celebrations

  6. Aftercare is bliss

  7. He can become the hero of your fantasies

  8. You can explore all those fun role play scenarios together

  9. For many spankos. spankings work great as foreplay

  10. Who among us couldn't use a little stress reduction?

  11. Spankings are fun to plan

  12. You can make it as romantic or as naughty as you desire

  13. It’s exciting to spank in the van, in a hotel room, or on the beach

  14. Pain isn’t the point, unless you enjoy it

  15. Being the bad girl can be fun

  16. Lots of couples enjoy spankings

  17. Punishment, discipline, maintenance, therapy, stress relief, recreation, erotic – Take your pick

  18. This is going to be OK and maybe a whole much better

  19. You can ask him to rub your sore bottom with lotion

  20. Spankings are sexy

  21. Let’s discover his gruff spanker voice

  22. Spankings are a fun secret to share with your lover

  23. Maybe he’ll undress you

  24. Everyone’s love life can use a little extra spice from time to time

  25. That over the lap position is very intimate and can easily lead to different fun

  26. It’s fun to view your pink bottom in a mirror afterward

  27. You’ve thought about this moment for most of your life

  28. Sometimes it’s good to relinquish control for a while

  29. This can be another form of lovemaking

  30. If you agree upon a safeword, you can bail out if you need

  31. After a spanking is a wonderful time for honest, open communication

  32. Your dream can be his pleasure

  33. It’s fun to dress for a spanking – The possibilities are endless

  34. You can make it a date

  35. Experimentation is the scientific method

  36. A good spanking can reboot your emotions

  37. Lots of women ask, in fact, it’s better this way

  38. You can experience his physical strength

  39. Snuggling in the afterglow is pure delight

  40. You already know that he’s obsessed with your bottom

  41. Practice makes perfect

  42. This could be an exciting new direction for your relationship

  43. He’ll start spanking because he loves you, he’ll continue because he loves spanking you

  44. Spooning

  45. Maybe he’ll call you “Young Lady”

  46. It’ll put a smile on both your faces

  47. Willing consent is very hot

  48. You can start simple and grow from there

  49. It’s a pandemic so you might as well stay home

  50. Let your spanko future begin now

If you would like to learn more, you might want to read a brief tutorial such as Your First Spanking. If you communicate with one another and follow a few simple rules, consensual adult spankings can be safe, fun, and fulfilling.

10 comments :

Minielle Labraun said...

Perfect reasons for trying and/or continuing spanking! Love this!

Bernie said...

Substitute a few pronouns and this would work for the guys as well.

Dave Wolfe said...

51. You can pose for a WolfieToon!

All seriousness aside, Bonnie, these are excellent! And may the Pilferers and Paternalists have 80% more cavities in their teeth!

Roz said...

Great post Bonnie, lots of wonderful reasons to spank :) top of my list is the intimacy and closeness it brings.

Hugs
Roz

Dave Wolfe said...

Um... "Paternalists?" What the heck?? Plagiarists is what that's supposed to say!

Bonnie said...

Minielle - Thank you!

Bernie - Please be my guest!

Wolfie - I love your WolfieToons. The joyous spankees you create perfectly capture my response.

I was thinking athlete's foot for those plagiarists, but I'm OK with tooth decay.

Roz - Yes, that is truly wonderful.

Wolfie - Damn spellcheck! :)

Fondles said...

Love this list. And i agree with every single one!

Erica Scott said...

YUM! :-D So much yes in this post!

Anonymous said...

This male dating an older woman, she asked what he fantasized about. I told her my desire to be given a spanking, punishment spanking. She said she would think about it. Two weeks later I got my spanking, it was a true punishment spanking, bare bottom, hand, hairbrush, and since I said some dirty words, learned about soap in the mouth.

STEPFATHERMIKE said...

PEOPLE WONDER WHY WE'VE BEEN A FAN OF YOU FOR OVER A DECADE OR MORE IT'S FOR POSTS JUST LIKE THIS BONNIE YOU TRULY SPEAK FOR US SPANKOS WELL DONE ---STTEPFATHER MIKE

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