Sunday, October 11, 2015

Catching Up

Hi everybody!

I've been away so long that I feel I should reintroduce myself. Bonnie is my real name and I've been blogging about spankings for a very long time (more on that later). I'm a wife, mother and grandmother. Randy and I have been married forever and we're still mostly in love. Spanking plays a central role in our relationship. He spanks me regularly for foreplay, stress relief, communication, recreation, to “set things right between us,” role play, and just because we need and enjoy it. We're both lifelong spankos who were extraordinarily fortunate to have found each other by random chance in an era long before the internet.

We are freshly returned from an extended vacation in the Eastern US. We reconnected with old friends, did a little sightseeing and spent some great time together. There were lots of spankings. Since we were flying, Randy didn't want to pack any obvious toys like paddles, so he selected one very serious brush. If anyone remembers the bathbrush that the Vermont Country Store used to sell, that's it! It's midway between a big hairbrush and a short bathbrush. It's made from solid hardwood and leaves oval-shaped crimson marks on my bottom. This would not have been my choice, but as the spankee, I don't get to choose. We had so much wacky fun that I still feel the results when I sit.

We were away for three milestones. The first was my birthday. You can imagine how we celebrated that event in our hotel room. Ow! We also missed the tenth anniversary of the founding of this blog. That's pretty cool despite the fact that I haven't been very active the past couple of years. Finally, this blog recently recorded our eighteen millionth visit. I believe this number reflects the continuing strength of our spanking community. This interest is shared by lots of people all over the world.

In other news, we recently added two spanking accessories we have discussed for years. The first is a real spanking bench. It's padded and has restraints for my wrists and ankles. I love it! It's an incredible turn-on to be strapped in for a hard spanking and more. The second item is a genuine punishment cane. We've used a small cane for years as a change of pace implement, but I hadn't experienced a full caning before now. I can now report that I know exactly how it feels to wear those vivid horizontal lines. If I were an English schoolgirl, I think I would have to behave. Next, Randy wants to try laying lines on top of paddle burns. Lucky me. :)

I've added some new blogs to the blogrolls. If you know of any other spanking-oriented blogs that I should add, I invite you to write me or leave a message below.

So, I'm sorry to be gone so long. I've missed you all. I'll be back when I can.


sixofthebest said...

Bonnie, thank you for your latest communication to us 'spanko's. You state for me two interesting items. The first being a GRANDMOTHER, and still loved being spanked on your knickers down bare bottom. The second, that you have recently purchased a PUNISHMENT CANE, which you have delightfully and painfully felt it stripes on her voluptuous naked rear end. Congratulations.

Cat said...

Welcome back Bonnie...happy to hear from you. Wow...10 years and 18 million visits...I just can't imagine my blog ever getting that many visits! Wow...a real spanking bench and punishment cane? I might be able to handle the first but not the second. LOL

Hugs and blessings...Cat

Stan Camson said...

love your blog miss your blogging


Leigh Smith said...

Welcome Back from your vacation. Always nice to have you come up on my blog roll.

abby said...

How nice to hear from you and have you back....
hugs abby

Anonymous said...

Pic of the bench please?

Anonymous said...

Hi Bonnie,
I recently decided to read your blog starting from the first post. And I just have to say wow. There is so much great info here. And I'm only up to August 2008! I just want to say thank you for your generosity. Your stories are entertaining, the tutorials informative and the brunches very helpful. I recently broke the ice and told my husband of my interest in spanking. We haven't gotten very far with it yet but it's a start. It's no wonder you just hit 18 million visits, your blog is still helping people! Thank you very much.

Rich Person said...

Boy, have I been waiting for you to come back! So nice to see you do a new post. Thanks for all your hard work. It's peachy keen!

Roz said...

Hi Bonnie, welcome back! It's so great to hear from you. Glad you had such a wonderful vacation. Congratulations on 10 years and 18 million views. Wow!


Hermione said...

A belated happy birthday and happy blogaversary to you, Bonnie!

Ooh, a spanking bench. I'm envious of you. I'm impressed that you finally experimented with the cane. I hope we hear more about it.


Anonymous said...

Nice to have you back. Great that you still have a Vermont County Store brush. Our disappeared and we have not been able to locate one or anything similar.

Bonnie said...

Thanks, everyone!

Six - Yes, our granddaughter is nearly ten years old and she's doing wonderfully in the fourth grade. As for loving being spanked, that's just part of me and it isn't going away.

And yes, I've been fully initiated into the stripe wearing sorority. It was a lot more than six strokes delivered on the bare. I always wondered how that experience would feel. It was very painful, of course, but I actually enjoyed it for the most part. Randy and I both spent time running our fingers over the raised ridges.

I think we will save the punishment cane for special occasions, but it definitely has a place in our toy chest.

Cat - Thank you. The cane is an acquired taste, I think. The whole punishment dynamic presses my buttons and puts me in a more receptive frame of mind. Randy had me lift my skirt and bend over a small table. It was all delicious.

Stan - Thank you!

Leigh - It's a pleasure to appear on your blogroll!

Abby - Thank you!

Anon #1 - It looks just like this one, but with wrist and ankle restraints. It's remarkably comfortable (other than the obvious) and I feel very secure when I'm strapped in. I foresee many wonderful adventures ahead. I wish we had bought a bench years ago.

Ripley - Hi! It's a pleasure to meet you. I'm amazed you've read all of those posts. It makes me tired to think about that. If there are any questions I can answer or help I can provide, please ask. Even if I'm not that active on the blog of late, I am still around and I am delighted to assist friends in getting off to a good start.

RP - You're very welcome, my friend.

Roz - We did have a great vacation. Thanks!

Hermione - Thank you and thank you. I imagine there will be more caning stories. Randy is now intrigued and that can lead to only one outcome.

Anon #2 - Yes, we bought two of those VCS brushes just in case. We had a similar experience with a superb spanking hairbrush that was discontinued by Crabtree and Evelyn. You can find a brush similar to the VCS here. Be warned though, a lesson taught with this brush is not soon forgotten.

Wilma Rubble said...

So nice to see you here again! Happy belated birthday and blog anniversary! Did Randy try the farm fence ( or whatever it is called) laying cane stripes and then crossing over them? Such a joy...LOL.

Hope to see you sooner rather than later.

Bonnie said...

Willie - Thanks. I don't know whether his caning technique has a name and I'm not that inclined to ask lest he decide to demonstrate then and there all that he has learned. As far as I could tell (from my admittedly less than ideal vantage point), the lines seemed to be parallel.

Our Bottoms Burn said...

Good to know you are both healthy and you continue to be well paddled. I did pause when I read you are still mostly in love. You are known to choose your words with care. Cheers, D&D

Bonnie said...

D&D - No worries. After several decades together, it's not realistic to expect that our lives will be unicorns and rainbows all of the time. The honeymoon is over, but our love endures. We are very fortunate.

Terpsichore said...

So great to see you here. Sending hugs!

Bonnie said...

Terps - Hi, and big hugs to you too!

Erica said...

Always, always happy to see you, Bonnie, whenever it may be. :-)

Bonnie said...

Erica - Great minds... I was commenting on your blog as you were commenting here. Happy fall!

Florida Dom said...

Always good to hear from you, Bonnie. Great to hear he is still keeping you well spanked. Hope stop by again soon.


Anonymous said...

Great to have you back. Can't wait to see the new bench, with you attached to it, even if it only shows your fantastic bent over bottom, which we have seen so often in your logo . D & S.

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