Have you or your partner experienced a weak spot where the skin on the spankee's bottom becomes broken with even moderate spanking? If so, how did you treat it? Did you have to give up spanking or change techniques for a while as a result?
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Mrs CS does not have a weak spot as such, but her left cheek is much weaker than her right, to quite an extent. My only change is to spank the right one more.
Avoid that spot. I have an area on my back that can't take much punishment. After just a few strokes of the flogger I can't stand any more. He just gives the rest of my back more attention or moves on to the paddles.
I have never heard of this - so if you tell your husband that he broke your ass, it actually might be the truth?
I guess my bottom is pretty sturdy because we've never discovered a weak spot. The whole area between my waist and thighs is fair game.
We haven't discovered a weak spot as such, although some areas are a bit ouchier than others. He likes to give 'fair' coverage to all areas!
We had this happen this past summer due to a bath brush I bought. Prior to that it had never happened. He broke the skin, and didn't realize it. Since that time it has been an issue -like the new skin that formed isn't as 'thick'. I have started to use Vaseline on my bum. Twice a day minimum. Especially after being exposed to water. Yes it is sticky and messy. But it has helped. The other day, an unplanned spanking happened and I had just applied Vaseline. It was a bit of a sticky spanking, lol. but my skin was 'safe'. I think we will continue to try to protect my bottom for a few months this way and see if it helps.
While I have not experienced broken skin, the most painful areas where the leather strop paddle strikes are the back of my testicles and on my sides where the paddle tip wraps around from my buttocks. My strict wife kindly limits the number of strokes that strike these painful areas. My wife likes to apply horizontal strokes across my buttocks with the lower half getting a concentration of severe strokes to ensure that when I sit down I get a painful reminder to be obedient. As my maintenance spankings occur weekly, my wife makes sure that I am spanked severe enough that the welts and bruises remain painful throughout the week.
Now how often do we get to use the word "penultimate", :) Love that. And we haven't broken the skin here, well once, but it was a sore we believe, and not the spanking itself. If we ever did get to the point that my skin broke, we would evaluate the implement and how the spanking took place. We had to do this when one implement we got gave me a rash, we'd been warned about one implement doing that and tossed it, but then this othe one did the same.
This is actually a common problem. My Daddy and I have experienced issues with this from time to time. And we are both actually very experienced in the lifestyle; we use many formidable implements and with my high tolerance I can withstand sessions that last hours.
The first time my skin broke during a punishment was actually from a paddle. Being a nurse, I realized that my skin simply had lost moisture and broke. Daddy and I make a point to change implements frequently during a session to change the impact zone for long punishments. I always moisturize daily anyway, but we have also incorporated this into sessions.......between implements, he will apply vitamin E oil or a lotion to my bottom and thighs.
Also note it isn't just canes, switches, etc that risk breaking skin. The heavy, thuddy wooden implements (brushes, paddles, etc) often do as well.......so if you have sensitive skin or breaking skin is a constant problem, move to leather or rubber implements. They sting just as much, if not more, but impact the body with a give & take so it is easier for the skin to absorb the blow, whereas wood is a less forgiving impact.
No way should a spankee's bottom, suffer from broken skin or bleeding. This is not what fun spanking is all about, and she should think carefully if she wants to continue with this.By all means let her bottom burn, smart, and throb, turn a flaming scarlet, or even bruise, but broken skin or blood - no. D,
Must have a tough bottom as we've never discovered a weak spot.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
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