Do your spanking sessions ever include the spankee spending time seated on a hard surface after the spanking is over? If so, how do you feel about this ritual?
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When someone spanks or is spanked for a very long time... there isn't many things that haven't been tried at one time or another :)
It depends on the Spanker/spankee (or HoH & TiH) and what is decided upon beforehand. If spanked for disciplinary reasons, and the spanking for a similar infraction didn't work as it was meant to the previous time, adding more intensity and including something like "sitting on hard surface", corner time, writing lines etc can be a useful Progression of Discipline without going past a spankee's Tolerance Level.
Great question as usual Bonnie!
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It doesn't matter why my bottom was spanked, we are to busy making love to worry about sitting on a hard surface.
Hmmm. Devious. I need to consider doing that to my spankee.
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I don't recall it ever having been planned that way, but it's happened a few times incidentally. Most recently, I was spanked with the hairbrush and then the belt. It ended up being quite intense and I was very sore afterward. My husband insisted about a half hour later that I go with him to a local football game where I had to sit on a hard, cold metal bleacher bench for nearly an hour. Being the sweet man that he is, he allowed me to fold up my blanket and sit on that for the last hour (also because my squirming was bugging him!). I have heard of "punishment panties" though, which are undergarments lined with sandpaper: OUCH! I guess that would make it much worse.
This isn't something we do as part of the spanking itself, although I usually end up sitting on the floor later on.
"punishment panties"? Ouch!
No... no punishment after. Always gentleness. God bless you and yours, Belle L.
Good girls are usually, ahem, 'rewarded' for taking their spanking well. However, sometimes J has to endure a little deferred gratification. A trip to to a smart local cafe for coffee and cake (which she loves) but is required to sit on a hard wooden chair to consume. The sight of her first gingerly sitting her hot bottom down, then trying hard not to squirm in company adds another dimension to consensual chastisement.
Not intentionally, but since we eventually sit down on hard chairs to have dinner a few hours after a spanking, I usually have an uncomfortable (and very quick) meal. The sting is usually still there at breakfast too.
This isn't something we do, although P sometimes spanks me before we go out for a meal at a certain restaurant that has hard benches.
Love,
Ronnie
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It's happened, but it's not a common ritual. There have been times a very rough surface, or uncomfortable surface has been deliberately chosen. We have heated seats in our vehicle. Very uncomfortable after a spanking!!
I have strong feelings about this (what a surprise!) When the spanking is over, it should be over. Time for aftercare; time to be nice. Hard chairs, sitting on rice or other lumpy surfaces, capsaicin cream -- BARBARIC!
Bonnie, it has happened but is very rare.Occurred once when Season and I were indulging in a bit of role play and after I spanked my naughty schoolgirl she had to sit bare bottom on a wooden chair and write lines while I supervised and continued her scolding. . Something to the effect of "I misbehaved and was a very naughty girl." Was a very squirmy scene which resulted in "Happy Endings" for us both. :-)
How about no sittng down allowed for a while? Standing in the corner or standing up with handsbehind her nead would be a good punishment for a bad girl..) Maybe wearing a home made signing saying "This is punishment for my bad behaviour! " would be fun..)
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