What do you think about corner time immediately following a spanking? Does it provide an opportunity for quiet reflection? Does it deprive the spankee of necessary aftercare? Is it one more indignity to be endured? Is it a demonstration of submission? Is it simply intolerable? Or is it the spanker's prerogative?
I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences!
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If I get up mad, I won't accept after care. Corner time gives me a chance to realize what is going on. Most of the time I am wrong and just need a little time to let it sink in. By the time Dragon is ready for round two I am ready to submit and accept after care. One does not replace the other.
Bonnie, I have always enjoyed commanding a woman to the corner, before and after a spanking given to her on her bare bottom. Before with her dress or skirt up showing her panties, knickers, or bloomers. And with these feminine undergarments down, after a spanking showing us her reddened naked rear end. For me its a sexual erotic turn on. Especially if she is wearing garter-belt and stockings.
As with the spanking itself, I like the idea in theory, but would probably hate it in practice- though that's not necessarily a bad thing ;)
Corner-time is pretty rare for me, but I don't object to it al all. I actually prefer corner time before the spanking. It allows me time to let go of everything else that's running through my head and to let the anticipation build. If I'm playing with a trusted partner who will help me get into a submissive headspace, the act of obeying this fairly ridiculous command definitely helps me get there.
I don't mind it afterwards. Like Dragon's Rose, I often need time to myself if the spanking has been challenging or stirred up rebellious thoughts. It also provides a bit of a punctuation mark to a scene, moving me from a space in which I am in a role or have at least tacitly agreed to obey my spanker back into the real world in which I am free of these constraints.
It's not something that we have ever done, nor is it likely that we would try it. It simply doesn't float our boat, but I can understand how it might appeal to some.
I would like for my HOH to use corner time, but so far he hasn't. The last time I was paddled hard for more than a few minutes I started to go numb and ended up with more bruising than usual. After we figured out why this happened and that I needed a break every couple minutes to retain sensitivity, I thought about bringing it up to him, but I chickened out. I'm afraid I would get in more trouble as I have a hard time standing still in normal situations, let alone with a hot bottom in a boring corner! Still, the thought of him ordering me to display my red bottom in the corner while waiting for round two kind of turns me on. Maybe he'll read this.....
Like so many areas of Spanking (or within a DD relationship), it depends on what the couple has agreed upon previously.
If agreed upon, Corner Time can be an effective tool and has many uses. When implemented "after" a spanking it's useful as a time of reflection. IMO, especially after a Disciplinary or Punishment Spanking, Aftercare immediately afterward is a must.
Great question as usual Bonnie!
Respectfully,
# MrBBSpanker
I dislike corner time, and would dislike it especially after a spanking. I feel rejected in the corner. It doesn't feel loving to me. He has used it to bring me to my submissive place, and it did work. However, there have been times when he's given me space after a spanking, and if he asked me to go to the corner, I would of course. But as MrBB said, the aftercare is essential.
Corner time is rarely used here. If in conjunction with a spanking, it is mainly before or during. It does allow me time to reflect and also really puts me in the submissive mindset. No matter at what stage of the spanking it is used, for me it greatly intensifies not only my feelings of submissiveness, but also vulnerability so aftercare is a must.
Hugs,
Roz
No way; if my lady is brave enough to accept a sound spanking, paddling or whatever. she should not have to stand in the corner, with her bare bottom, which she is longing to rub, displayed for me to gloat over. After a spanking, I leave her draped over my lap, or what she has been bent over,for a short time, until with a quick pat, I tell her she can get up, and she scrambles to her feet to soothe her smarting bottom. Occasionally if she is bound, she will soon say something like "Please, I'd love to rub my bottom", and I let her loose at once. D.
Corner Time after a spanking is actually a Hard limit for me. Corner time on its on is fine, but not after a spanking. Even in virtual or long distance play, it sends me to a very bad place in my head.
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I think that corner time is demeaning and insulting because it will never be accepted in our home.
If a woman accepts spanking punishment, why do you have to humiliate her standing in the corner with a bare ass ?
In our relationship corner-time works the best if it's in the middle of a spanking if I'm being rebellious. It helps me collect my thoughts and get myself into more of a submissive state. Afterwards we both need re-connection time, so corner time would be too separating. It has it's uses before hand, but is rarely used that way for us.
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